@sabs160: This isn’t to say that having a child ruins your body, I know many MILFs and know that these things aren’t very common. BUT the chance at all of ending up with a lifelong health issue seems soooo not worth it to me #childfree #babyweight #diabetes #health #motherhood
As a mom I’ll never shame anyone for not wanting children or being pregnant, slay queen
2025-08-25 17:14:12
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Tay🎃 :
any reason is valid. it should be your choice no matter what.
2025-08-25 13:28:08
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gabrielle :
It’s all genetics/chance this is me a year after having an almost 8lb baby
2025-08-26 01:11:59
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librarydragonfly :
my inside are prolapse. meaning my internal organs are literally so loose the just lay against my exits. love my kids but I've already had 2 surgeries and there's more. There was no way to know
2025-08-25 18:33:44
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Godh8sthongs :
It’s not vain at all. It’s MY body and MY choice. You don’t gotta explain to anyone
2025-08-25 14:50:36
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SJ :
That is not vain. My hair and teeth have never been the same since my daughter and I’m pregnant again. And hair and teeth can be fixed, there are many more serious health issues that can happen!
2025-08-25 18:22:55
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Brittany :
Bodily autonomy is not cancellable IMO.
2025-08-25 16:45:14
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chelseyheiser632 :
I used to be super in shape. twin pregnancy TORE MY MUSCLES APART and my abs are still not functional. also I gained 1.5 shoes sizes 🙃 this is a valid reason and don't let anyone tell you it's not
2025-08-25 16:46:41
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🎀 stefi 🍮♡🍃 :
that’s so valid. not even talking about gaining lots of weight but the other sides of pregnancy people don’t talk about like as you said loosing teeth
2025-08-25 14:44:40
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Nicole Fantastic :
My mom was like this and forced to have 4 kids. She’s been trying to get back her pre baby body for my whole life. I’m missing 3 teeth because I had kids and a messed up c section scar.
2025-08-25 14:09:14
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ILoveSwimmingInRealLife :
Don’t do it if you don’t want to but if you do want to have a baby, don’t let fear stop you. Whatever you feel strongest about, that should be your decision.
2025-08-25 14:54:35
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Auncle Laci💙🇺🇸🆘 :
I think that’s a valid reason….
2025-08-25 15:26:24
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polymonkey :
You don’t need a reason. It’s your choice. If the fear of health complications is greater than any desire to have children then don’t have the child.
2025-08-25 14:57:25
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Candice :
That’s one of my 18263738 reasons.
2025-08-25 18:13:20
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Britt 🧚🏻♀️✌🏻 :
Not cancellable at all. This life is yours before you ever create a new one. I think that's valid bc we genuinely don't have enough information on our bodies post birth bc they haven't invested the time into studying us. People still don't even believe post partum is something that happens, so it's a long way to go
2025-08-25 14:30:29
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Jessica R Iniguez :
A lot of ppl think about cosmetically ruining it, what’s missed and important to consider as well is it ruining the inside! I know a couple ppl that need internal reconstructive surgery! It’s downplayed sooo much.
2025-08-25 23:02:15
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moominmama :
i’ve had a baby and what you’re saying is completely valid. It took me seven years to get the courage to try again because during my first pregnancy, my teeth broke, my hair fell out a lot (still never grew back). I had got diabetes and gained a ton of weight. My stomach is covered in stretch marks, and so are my legs from the swelling of laying in a hospital bed with preeclampsia. It is a LOT on the body and mind and no one should go through it unwillingly.
2025-08-25 18:22:27
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weight loss & mom life ✨ :
Honestly, I think that’s 100% valid
2025-08-26 02:15:18
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Brydgette ☀️🍉🧘♀️ :
felt. but if you are healthy now you will be healthy again. Your hobbies don’t disappear, you just have more to manage.
2025-08-25 13:54:49
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Asia 🌟 :
this is my exact reasoning. i want kids but im scared of my body changing forever
2025-08-25 13:43:49
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DallasMiranda :
Valid lol
2025-08-26 22:06:25
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Venus on Fire :
I say this all the time, people who used to push kids on me would call me selfish for it and I’m like “yeah and that’s why I SHOULDN’T have kids no?” Leave me alone lol
2025-08-25 20:40:43
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Penny_Rich007 :
Pregnancy is no joke but the part you really have to think about is caring for a whole other human .
2025-08-26 13:40:53
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Kb21 :
I gained 60lbs
2025-08-27 05:33:29
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Sara :
Its not just superficial, I have had Hashimotos Disease since I had my first pregnancy and my energy, mood, metabolism, memory will never be the same, 1-8 women get it and I was misdiagnosed as depressed for 2 years
2025-08-25 21:12:21
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