@awakeningsrus: The “phantom ex” can be the one that got away, where the love was real and the toxic person felt a new level of connection. This felt wonderful and real, but caused fears of being devastated that ended up sabotaging the connection. They expected they would be able to move on easily like they always do and/or be able to come back someday. When they realize it’s over over, they will have a severe and dangerous collapse and be haunted. They won’t be able to replace that kind of person and the defense mechanisms will be exaggerated. They will be trapped in bitterness, resentment, rage, and haunted memories. They will be confused but always opt for protecting themselves with projecting victimhood and lying. Expect many tactics to remain relevant like horrible smears and legal abuse. #NarcissisticAbuse #Narcissism #PeoplePleasers #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #BPD
I HOPE I’m the Phantom ex 😂😂 after everything he put me thru, he deserves to be haunted by memories of how good I was to him! Unfortunately, he had such a bad memory, I think it’s out of sight / out of mind for him.
2025-09-15 08:56:35
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snd Al-Houthi :
Narcissistic abuse feels like fog idealize devalue discard then hoover. You are not overreacting the cycle is engineered. Track facts not promises. Ego Destruction by Drenn Solace helped me separate identity from narrative so gaslighting loses power. Boundaries first clarity second contact last.
2025-08-31 00:57:49
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muffy :
also… they resent u when they feel even an inkling of emotion or feeling towards u bc they hate that ur revealing that “weak” part of themselves that wants to be vulnerable & loved but never can accept it
2025-08-26 00:18:52
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Amy Cay :
2 years and he STILL smear campaigns me on social media. 🙄
2025-08-27 00:16:37
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Faith Lily :
Again I say I will NEVER EVER understand these people. 😭💔 they flip the narrative like I’ve never seen before. Why can’t they just be a kind hearted Loving AUTHENTIC person?
2025-08-25 23:25:22
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Stegall :
The legal abuse is even worse when you have a child. Thank god you didn’t yet.
2025-08-25 15:28:17
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Kaz :
Facts. It's me, I just found out I'm the Phantom ex.
I thought I'd feel vindicated, I feel bad for him.
2025-10-02 00:54:20
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WhatsGood❤️🔥 :
I was so Naive, I didn’t know these types of people existed. Hard lessons learnt, but Now I know to be careful of who I let into my life. This platform helped me through some dark days.
2025-08-27 14:51:22
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Natalia :
How do we play them at their own game???
2025-08-30 12:40:10
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🧿 :
“Why do you make me so angry” is a phrased seared into my mind
2025-08-25 17:51:23
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bb :
I loved him more than anything. The more he hurt me, the more numb i began to feel because he always made himself the victim. Everything was about how he felt…despite how poorly he treated me. I wasn’t allowed to talk about how he treated me because i was bringing up the “past.” but yet he can talk about how he felt daily and I was forced to listen otherwise i was manipulated in staying
2025-08-27 12:42:46
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Earth Angel 👼🏽💕 :
This is so so painful
2025-08-27 23:05:23
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Cara Stone :
I am so stuck...I can't take the pain he is definitely worse then ever..How do I recover..I have never felt like this in my life. The amount of woman he is with is sicking.I never saw anything like this before
2025-08-28 20:17:10
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🦇 :
I think I experienced this. I felt demonised and like they hated me, so cold and harsh with me. Even though I hadn’t actually done anything to cause so much coldness
2025-08-26 21:07:04
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muffy :
i have seen them crash tf out in real time. i didn’t say a word and just let him change to 30 different moods in 1 hour. say i love u and then i hate u in the same conversation. i feel pity for these confused entities…. i wouldn’t call them human
2025-08-26 00:14:45
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Ghouse :
the narc takes comfort in the enabler / user who will validate their weak justifications for treating people badly who loved them. That enabler is manipulating and using them every time.
2025-08-26 02:12:03
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Jazzlee :
My husband completely abandoned me and the kids after his murder attempt failed. Thank God. I can only imagine what he says about me.
2025-08-25 15:00:12
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Lady Oscar :
I was the new partner and this video is true word by word. Towards the end when his lies shattered, it was a humiliation ritual for him. He ran away like a coward. He was obsessed with his ex till the end and wanted to destroy her happiness. I will never forgive him for manipulating me to give him my love based on lies. Aka the survival performance. So what about me? Is it a new grief for him?
2025-08-26 00:11:17
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kingjeam :
Glad i saw this video today , it describes exactly the person i’ve been dealing with
2025-08-28 02:13:02
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JC 2k :
I find satisfaction knowing that no matter how much it hurts, their pain is far worse than mine. I didn't even have to retaliate.
2025-09-27 15:16:12
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J A :
I built Rome for her, & all she did was cheat and blame me for asking for reassurance & now plays the victim. But you’re so absolutely right.
2025-08-25 22:01:13
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The rose :
Leaving us alone is a thing, do they even know that. So they live the life that they forced us to live.
2025-08-25 17:31:10
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