@awakeningsrus: The “phantom ex” can be the one that got away, where the love was real and the toxic person felt a new level of connection. This felt wonderful and real, but caused fears of being devastated that ended up sabotaging the connection. They expected they would be able to move on easily like they always do and/or be able to come back someday. When they realize it’s over over, they will have a severe and dangerous collapse and be haunted. They won’t be able to replace that kind of person and the defense mechanisms will be exaggerated. They will be trapped in bitterness, resentment, rage, and haunted memories. They will be confused but always opt for protecting themselves with projecting victimhood and lying. Expect many tactics to remain relevant like horrible smears and legal abuse. #NarcissisticAbuse #Narcissism #PeoplePleasers #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #BPD
I built Rome for her, & all she did was cheat and blame me for asking for reassurance & now plays the victim. But you’re so absolutely right.
2025-08-25 22:01:13
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Heba Sophia :
so basically an avoidant is also a narcissist
2025-08-26 14:32:25
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Yasmine :
watching this unfold is insane.
2025-08-26 19:02:25
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Tiffany :
They NEED a scapegoat.
2025-08-25 18:49:26
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Kaz :
Facts. It's me, I just found out I'm the Phantom ex.
I thought I'd feel vindicated, I feel bad for him.
2025-10-02 00:54:20
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🧿 :
“Why do you make me so angry” is a phrased seared into my mind
2025-08-25 17:51:23
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Faith Lily :
Again I say I will NEVER EVER understand these people. 😭💔 they flip the narrative like I’ve never seen before. Why can’t they just be a kind hearted Loving AUTHENTIC person?
2025-08-25 23:25:22
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snd Al-Houthi :
Narcissistic abuse feels like fog idealize devalue discard then hoover. You are not overreacting the cycle is engineered. Track facts not promises. Ego Destruction by Drenn Solace helped me separate identity from narrative so gaslighting loses power. Boundaries first clarity second contact last.
2025-08-31 00:57:49
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bb :
I loved him more than anything. The more he hurt me, the more numb i began to feel because he always made himself the victim. Everything was about how he felt…despite how poorly he treated me. I wasn’t allowed to talk about how he treated me because i was bringing up the “past.” but yet he can talk about how he felt daily and I was forced to listen otherwise i was manipulated in staying
2025-08-27 12:42:46
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Cara Stone :
I am so stuck...I can't take the pain he is definitely worse then ever..How do I recover..I have never felt like this in my life. The amount of woman he is with is sicking.I never saw anything like this before
2025-08-28 20:17:10
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WhatsGood❤️🔥 :
I was so Naive, I didn’t know these types of people existed. Hard lessons learnt, but Now I know to be careful of who I let into my life. This platform helped me through some dark days.
2025-08-27 14:51:22
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Double A Ronn :
Thank you for giving me context to the things I’m experiencing in my life. Well said from beginning to end.
2025-09-30 22:22:55
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KittenMamaCancerRising :
Do they really know though? He doesn’t act like
2025-09-15 21:46:13
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brendavazquez4316 :
Thank you for the info
2025-09-30 23:27:39
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pigeontyler10 :
What if I’m the empath and they are the narcissist and they blocked me?
2025-09-28 01:13:00
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Faith Nicol :
my ex husband is cyberstalking so he gets to see every painful moment..its a nightmare
2025-10-11 02:12:20
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lollipop :
This is one of the best videos I’ve watched. 🙏
2025-10-09 07:49:14
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Niki Ghazian :
This is facts
2025-10-04 20:04:52
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jae. :
This fr. My ex mentioned how her previous ex cheated on her with 5 different girls, while i loved her, with all my heart and never gave another woman the attention or time of day, i gave her EVERYTHING, but i am now the worse ex she’s ever had..
2025-10-08 16:22:56
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live2mom :
wow thank you for this explanation.
2025-11-01 16:51:05
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Natalia :
How do we play them at their own game???
2025-08-30 12:40:10
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muffy :
i have seen them crash tf out in real time. i didn’t say a word and just let him change to 30 different moods in 1 hour. say i love u and then i hate u in the same conversation. i feel pity for these confused entities…. i wouldn’t call them human
2025-08-26 00:14:45
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Brianna • Healer • Single Mama :
This was sooo powerful! Experiencing so much of this right now, thankfully now ive broken their mask and the veil has been removed im able to see so clearly what i was dealing with.
2025-09-03 02:26:51
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Stegall :
The legal abuse is even worse when you have a child. Thank god you didn’t yet.
2025-08-25 15:28:17
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Lady Oscar :
I was the new partner and this video is true word by word. Towards the end when his lies shattered, it was a humiliation ritual for him. He ran away like a coward. He was obsessed with his ex till the end and wanted to destroy her happiness. I will never forgive him for manipulating me to give him my love based on lies. Aka the survival performance. So what about me? Is it a new grief for him?
2025-08-26 00:11:17
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