@rhajel: I always wonder if she was patient with other kids after that. I’ll never know cause I didn’t speak to her again. #fyp #trending #relatable #school #griefandloss

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my_eldunari
Em :
in Spanish class one Monday we were "making cards for a classmate who's father passed away over the weekend" yet no one understood why I refused. I finally just said "my dad died on Friday night, where's my fucking condolences" and she had a look of deer in the headlights and I did not participate.
2025-08-28 13:39:26
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cocoaminty._
🍓⺌CocoaMinty‧₊˚ :
For some reason I feel like teachers can't comprehend the fact that children cab grieve too
2025-08-28 13:24:40
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dameisaposer
Damien :
Way too many teachers just like to bully children
2025-08-27 22:18:15
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_.jinx._17
Ezra :
I had a teacher almost deny an extension on an assignment. I had lost my grandma a month after losing my grandpa. I was a mess and needed more time. He asked me, in front my class, how close I was with her. I nearly broke down.
2025-08-27 14:41:23
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star_tears
Jupiter :
we thought I had cancer. I had seven surgeries. my Spanish teacher called me ugly
2025-08-27 16:59:30
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k8sperl43
K8🎪 :
I had a boss give me a hard time for calling out at the last minute without many details. I snapped and screamed at her that I was at a crime scene waiting to speak with the detective after my dad was found unalived….she’s never given another person who worked for her a hard time about calling out since. I remember later she told me once i hung up on her, she called her husband crying and he was like “well what did we learn?” 😅😅
2025-08-28 00:39:59
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edmonstonh
h.edmonston🌝 :
not the same but my manager at work tried to take my phone from me while my best friend was actively dying during labor and her dad was calling me to let me know what was happening. I left and never went back
2025-08-27 16:29:09
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rodent_menthol.vape
☆w33n☆ :
my counselor told me she got over her mom's passing so I should too. I told her she needed a darker eyebrow pencil a week later and hated her ever since.
2025-09-12 22:14:54
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srq.iz
izzy :
all you guys that went to school the DAY AFTER ur loved ones passed are so strong. i stayed home for a week when my dad died
2025-08-28 02:10:54
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catsscinn
☆ anya ☆ :
my grandpa passed away while i was on a trip across the country, so i missed a week of school (for the trip) and then i missed another day because of his passing and my friend yelled at me in front of our math class about how i left her and i was selfish
2025-08-27 16:57:09
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thats_so_jojo
Jojo :
The look of regret that “edgy” people who make jokes about deceased babies immediately get when I say my sister died and asking what the joke is? Why is it funny?
2025-08-28 04:21:27
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moonshine4angel
˚₊‧꒰ა Angel ໒꒱‧₊˚ :
This teacher was absolutely grilling me because I got the right answer but solved the equation wrong (i am terrible at math) and I burst into tears explaining I was exhausted and my dad just got diagnosed with cancer. ((He’s ok now guys 🩷))
2025-08-27 18:39:54
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shumaii_
Shumaii_ :
they never seem to consider your personal situation. when they see grades slipping, they assume you're lazy. when you have to visit the nurse or call home sick, they assume you're making excuses. I have a lot of bones to pick with my past teachers.
2025-09-01 07:40:26
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ash_the_them_muncher
ash_the_them_muncher :
The school nurse when I was in 4th grade said I was faking when I hurt my ankle and refused to call my mom for 2 hours and turns out I broke it😒
2025-08-28 04:55:52
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kdub5742
Kate 🦋✨ :
I’ll be honest… I slipped up once my first month working in Ed and questioned a kid and he called me out for it. I never messed up like that again.
2025-08-28 02:03:06
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happinessisyourgirl
Bell🐣 :
be late, but my teacher got mad I wasn't paying attention....my mom was juste diagnosed with cancer
2026-02-12 02:58:20
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cloudsafterdarkness
cloudsafterdarkness :
One of my family members passed away 5 days ago, I called sick for work and when the manager asked why I called in sick, I told them somebody from my family passed away and she just said “so will you need more time off”????? SXCUSE ME???
2025-08-26 11:59:12
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bajablastlover202
👻👻 :
in second grade my grandma died and the teacher put on the bored for an assignment we had to fix the sentence and it said “Zachs grandma had Died and he has to go to north dakota for her funeral “ and I remember I started balling my eyes out. She quit the following year
2025-09-19 02:47:22
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zozonotfound
zozonotfound :
my best friend of 13 years took his own life and our head mistress messaged me asking “are the rumours true?” like he wasn’t a child she failed to protect. he wasn’t a drama to be consumed. he was a child you failed.
2025-10-24 10:41:53
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canned_beth2
beth :
Somehow the HS front office never alerted my teachers that my dad died. Came back 3 days later, got grilled by a teacher in 4th period and ended up just dropping the news in front of everyone. Really awkward day for everyone involved!
2025-09-24 16:40:45
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definitelynotera1
Era !! SBK TODAY !! :
when i got into a car accident on the weekend and my teacher said it "wasnt a real excuse because nothing happened to me". i was the only one who didn't go to the hospital and i was at school while my grandma was in surgery waiting to see if she was going to live :/
2025-10-07 23:47:39
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kkenzziedavis
Kenzie :
Told my teacher I would be missing the second day of class and he was like, “ How can you already be missing school?” It was for my grandmothers funeral. He felt terrible
2025-08-28 15:52:34
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jade.juarez
Jade <3 :
this reminds me of how my math teacher my sophomore year thought i was just being lazy by not doing my work until she found out my mom had cancer for the 2nd time and this time it wasn’t curable.
2025-09-13 14:25:43
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dontuor
dontuor :
I feel like some teachers hate their students and they stop at some point, almost like they were hating on children
2025-09-01 17:31:12
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f0xdud3
Fen .ᐟ ֹjerry's babe 𐔌՞. .՞𐦯 :
i remember in 5th grade my mom nearly died due to a miscarriage and when i missed school for a few days i got in trouble for being out of it still and the teacher said she didn't care my
2025-08-29 09:22:59
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