@girlthepoet: #creatorsearchinsights avoidant attachment style individuals are complex and during periods of no contact their behaviors shift into a state of being deactivated in order to balance their nervous system response to the conflict. This video explains avoidant attachment style behaviors to help you understand how and why they do the things they do. #avoidant #avoidantattachmentstyle #fyp #datingadvice

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eleni0_0
eleni0_0 :
rebounds are a crazy distraction!
2025-08-26 11:18:25
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lofibagel
lofi bagel :
the avoidant breadcrumbing is driving me insane. constant likes on my pics, and always viewing my story but when i reach out it’s crickets. i refuse to engage with any of his stuff anymore
2025-08-26 18:15:43
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casidentonphotography
CasiDentonPhotography :
Mine will watch an Insta story like once a month and typically in the evening if he is on Instagram and scrolling at bedtime.
2026-06-02 15:48:43
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cloudienights
claudia 🫧 :
they stalk you like crazy and if you’re not sad enough for their standards they’ll go and hurt you in whatever way they see fit so they can get your reaction
2025-08-27 11:19:51
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bluecollarroughneck
JamesDean❌️ :
im a avoidant highly avoidant #1 i completely agree with pour into work or a video game.... also a introvert so good with being alone.#2 I take accountability and acknowledge its me so I dont agree. #3 kinda agree will look at social media but don't judge em. mostly look to see them period cause we want to see them we are just avoiding our feelings
2025-10-13 09:45:35
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davidmarc372
David :
WARNING: Reading Woman He Can't Unsee by Kayla Dravert will give you main character energy. Proceed at your own risk.
2025-08-28 12:05:58
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userubf9287
Vanney :
I’ll never understand the “no contact” but still never missing a story on social media… mind you he doesn’t even follow me 😩
2025-08-27 21:09:58
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_3_d_3_n
Eden :
They stalk and get super paranoid
2025-08-27 10:24:09
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jennyj33
JennyO33 :
Well Taylor Swift just announced her engagement so I know he’s thinking about me today 😂
2025-08-26 18:20:47
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user826125147
John Wick :
She such an avoidant that she doesn’t not use social media yet post anything.
2025-10-24 19:54:28
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macie.burge2
macie.burge2 :
So what if they always read your messages or sparsely answer your calls?
2025-09-27 01:28:15
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user65971136
user659711 :
she s right I am an avoidant
2025-08-27 16:09:07
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lindasteelergurl
Linda V :
He has no social media so....😞
2025-09-27 20:00:16
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samarahmartin
Samarah :
This is based off my life
2025-08-26 20:09:43
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awomen_onacloud
Ciara :
I relate to the social media stalking. I declined his bread crumbs but continued to post cute selfies and later I was BLOCKED and still blocked
2025-09-17 07:48:22
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_katiealex
KatieAlex :
😃 this is the worst 😃
2025-09-15 14:22:14
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3mm4sm1th19
Emma Smith :
I’m already exhausted.
2025-09-28 22:07:53
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amarikane_magnus
🦋🪬✨️Dez ✨️🧿🦋🌼 :
They will do everything but take accountability. I witness all 3 in one. Avoidant's behaviors become predictable when you start to see their patterns. The heartbreak lessens when you understand that they do these things to avoid facing themselves and because theyre trying to fill the void that you left in their life.
2025-08-28 02:52:00
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lilianamarques045
Liliana Marques :
What about when they drive 30 mins to pass your house to see what you’re up to even though they’re in a rebound relationship?! Normal??
2025-09-28 01:37:21
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ivanajirehvolkova
ivanajirehvolkova :
He blocked me and got back with his ex. 💀
2025-08-26 22:53:26
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eyes_smile_
Casper :
I want him to be ok, just couldn't deal with the horrible feelings he left me with nightly, I'll always love the breadcrumber, QUEENS NEVER ACCEPT BREADCRUMBS
2025-09-23 04:59:25
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lilsnookums
lilsnookums :
They get rebounds
2025-08-28 03:28:07
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aud60619
A :
Can confirm this is happening right now
2025-08-26 20:13:39
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gayelynn.hunter
Gayelynn Hunter :
i don't care what he does I moved on
2025-09-10 00:43:48
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damiencollett666
Damien :
Just say the truth they go straight into a new relationship that's a fact..... You are best away from a person like this... They never change.
2025-09-06 09:13:11
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