@drnaelmft: A healthy relationship is a balance of masculine and feminine energies, but that balance only works when both people feel safe. So if you're the woman always planning, soothing, and fixing, that's not you being "strong". That's your nervous system not trusting him to do all that. And when a woman doesn’t feel safe, she doesn’t relax. She manages. Mothers. Over-functions. Not out of love, but out of survival. And that’s not partnership. That’s emotional burnout disguised as love. A real partner meets you in the middle. They take responsibility for themselves. They co-create safety so your nervous system can finally exhale. So if you’re the one holding it all together… ask yourself: are you being loved or leaned on? Because the woman you’re becoming? She’s not here to shrink. She’s here to rise. ✨ My book "Run Like Hell" was written for HER. THE woman who’s done carrying what was never hers to hold. So, comment “BOOK” and I’ll send you the first chapter for free.