I date with intention and purpose so it would be #3 for me
2025-08-27 18:55:59
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Sassy 🇨🇦 :
I’m not interested in someone who is clinging to their past
2025-08-28 15:31:11
1
youcancallmeheather :
That is a definite Red Flag! 🚩 she is just keeping you until he comes back.. not fair to you! Don’t waste anymore time, and go find your one!!
2025-08-28 15:31:06
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GayV :
2 and then 3, nobody will ever be in a position to waster my time! The audacity of that kind of man or woman!
2025-08-28 01:56:11
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alwaysacatalyst1🇨🇦 :
3
2025-08-28 18:53:26
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pull0425 :
Nod, smile and say ‘I understand”. Get up and leave. Block them permanently. Do not look back. You are not Mr. Right, you’re Mr. Right Now.
2025-08-28 13:51:07
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RuthM25 :
3
2025-08-28 19:31:05
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Marie_Madonna :
Great question. #2 then #3. I’m not dating then to fill the timr their ex returns and I AM the destination.
2025-08-28 07:03:45
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Karen Dean 🇨🇦 Author+Speaker :
2. I’m no one’s second choice. 💁🏼♀️
2025-08-28 21:32:01
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Elizabeth :
3, definitely 3. They haven't taken the time to heal and are living in the "what if" stage. That would be too scary for me to date. They need to match my 100% commitment.
2025-08-28 13:04:57
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Siobhan Reid :
3 3 3 3 and don't dare ask my why!!!!
2025-08-27 17:25:35
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Red :
Comment: different subject. I am really enjoying your new format for your posts. (ie. Describe a scenario, provide alt solutions and, get feedback from followers.) 👍
2025-08-28 19:55:39
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Nicka :
let him know if it doesn't work out with the ex, there are no benefits with you, and leave
2025-08-28 04:00:16
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Holly Burgess :
And 2
2025-08-28 14:28:29
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lisatlee54 :
3
2025-08-28 04:19:58
1
GoddessE :
2 then 3. Definitely. It’s all about self respect.
2025-08-27 20:48:26
1
Terrill Young 🇨🇦 :
I've got to go with 2. I don't want to waste time
2025-08-27 17:22:35
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Liza :
It will depend on whether I have been involved so much, it could be the 1 if there is no real interest, but the 2 or the 3
2025-08-27 17:24:51
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pocotara :
#1 and keep shopping
2025-08-27 19:34:23
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Sawyer :
2 & 3 don’t ever be someone’s back up or 2nd choice
2025-08-27 20:04:44
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jennifer volheim :
You have to ask….🤦🏻
2025-08-28 14:47:48
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woodcraftsbytracy :
3 for sure. Shouldn’t settle for second best.
2025-08-27 18:41:50
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Sabrina Niles-Wakely :
2 then 3
2025-08-28 12:36:46
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Erica| Grief Counsellor 🇨🇦 :
2 or 3, either fits 🙄
2025-08-27 17:24:30
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Canadian 🇨🇦 in Bahamas 🇧🇸 :
3
2025-08-27 17:19:43
0
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