@inkindboxes: Team honesty over here! I love all the details, and hearing about your true experiences. I feel that getting vulnerable builds connection. 🙌💞 #honestmotherhood #postpartumjourney #newmomlife #MomsofTikTok #momfriends
I am honest but I also read the situation if someone is super anxious and nervous already I’d tell them about my easier birth experience as opposed to the more traumatic ones but I never sugarcoated it and was honest always saying “please remember that was my experience but that doesn’t necessarily mean it will be yours because every pregnancy labor delivery and person is different but that’s what it was like for me”?
2025-08-28 01:46:02
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FigaroOliverLucifer :
My baby almost passed away so i definitely don’t tell anyone pregnant that lol I didn’t want to know anything other than what I asked while I was pregnant but I asked more intense questions before I was pregnant. The hormones and fear while I was pregnant was intense so I tried to keep my stress level low. I definitely do say to go in with as little of a plan as possible AND to make sure to advocate for yourself or have someone there to do that because it’s important. I also feel a lot of seasoned women love to tell their horror stories about birth to new pregnant women who never asked and I’ve always vowed to not be that person.
2025-08-28 11:06:14
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AmyRose | SAHM :
I think it depends on who is asking and what kind of answer they are looking for. So if someone asks me, I ask them how honest they want me to be. For example, my cousins wife and I were pregnant at the same time. I had my baby first and had a pretty difficult labor. She was in her second trimester and genuinely wanted to know how labor was for me. We weren’t that close, so I didn’t wanna share anything that was going to scare her. So I asked her how honest she needed me to be. She was honest and told me to sugarcoat and if she could handle it, she would ask for more honesty. It ended up being a good conversation for her and she ended up feeling better.
2025-08-27 20:36:35
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Brenda Cruz :
I asked some close friends of mine and a few were happy to share thier experiences and had a few that didn't want to traumatize me... I ended up having very traumatic birth experiences 🙃 so when I get asked I'm more than willing to share
2025-08-27 20:09:19
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rachel :
If someone asks me directly I answer honestly but if they ask kind of like for general advice or it’s more round about I keep it positive
2025-08-27 19:23:57
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janessa :
When I was pregnant I wanted all the sugar only.. a year into motherhood now and I want to give and take all the rawness of it
2025-08-27 19:37:21
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adrianbigelowww :
I am brutally honest
2025-08-27 19:55:33
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