@im.nurse.liz: This conversation is going to live rent free in my head for awhile. I hear jokes a lot about this type of behavior. But haven’t heard conversations where it was so clear how little these leaders thought women, when it came to skills like leadership and running an organization. I’m used to being surrounded by people who wouldn’t question the capability of someone based on their gender. And it was a stark reminder that that is NOT a given for all people. I don’t know what to do with that information. I just needed to vent about it. Because whoa. Also I know in now way is this how all churches are run. And I understand that many churches do require male leadership. It was the disbelief that women could possibly be capable that blew me away.

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taraleightiktok
Tara 🌻 :
Sounds like the men’s program could use female leadership.
2025-08-28 18:13:27
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hillierbethany
Bethany✨ :
I’d laugh if it wasn’t such a nefarious part of patriarchy 😭
2025-08-28 04:59:22
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katierae986
Kate :
I got “in trouble” for choosing a book for my mom’s group at church years ago without the approval of the pastor. My husband was in leadership at
2025-08-29 04:34:56
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twes210
twes210 :
These are the people running this country
2025-08-28 04:55:59
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allison.in.apt.a
Allison in Apt A :
And yet their wives run their own household 😳
2025-08-28 14:33:09
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sarahconnelly256
Bookbabe33 :
Like we’re pets and not people
2025-08-28 02:29:17
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nicandspan
nikidoesitall :
Women running something well without help was mind blowing? Omg 🤦🏻‍♀️
2025-08-27 19:56:12
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magpie_manor
Magpie :
I hate it here.
2025-08-27 20:49:27
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3freebird
Free bird :
Guarantee their wives are propping up their comfortable lifestyles
2025-08-29 11:47:31
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pariscat19
pariscat :
I was literally thinking that he was talking about them like children…. And then he said the quiet part out loud.
2025-08-28 02:03:23
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leeeeeexxxxiiii
Lexiiiiiiiiii :
I left a church because a women’s Sunday school class was taught by a man who mansplained how to be a friend. To a group of the kindest women I knew.
2025-08-29 18:57:46
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stacespace90
Stacy Richter :
I'm done with this hellhole
2025-08-27 20:02:39
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beckasoo
Beckasoo :
I want you to take that concept of "they live among us" and turn it into "they're actively taking over the government". When you look at what's happening through that lense, it becomes a lot scarier, because the threats are real.
2025-08-28 13:54:36
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konetting_people
Konetting_people 🇿🇦 :
As a female being the head pastor/minister of my church…. I just sigh
2025-08-29 08:18:01
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tracybloeppky
Tracy B. Loeppky :
Sounds about right, as an exevangelical Pentecostal
2025-08-28 23:47:53
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ga_lacey
laceyanderson799 :
Wait, wait. Even SBC lets women run women’s ministry. Otherwise who will cook for the bridal showers and funerals? Hmm? 🤔
2025-08-27 20:37:57
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amandainthepeg
Amanda :
I just KNOW those women have intentionally started bringing in random music to give that man something to “manage”.
2025-08-28 22:41:46
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jennay8819
jenjen🇳🇿 :
Why is he even there...
2025-08-29 20:20:50
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rrrrrrrrrrrrrrr11.09
R11 :
💀IM SCREAMING💀
2025-08-28 16:09:25
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mn_therapist
MNtherapist :
Like walking straight into the point….
2025-08-28 03:50:53
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elizabeth_valentino_
Elizabeth_Valentino_ :
You mean the same women that are expected to work a job, take care of multiple children, a husband, a household, cook, clean, keep track of the bills, organize driving schedules for sports and other extras, volunteer for school events…can handle running a small organization? That IS shocking 😂🙄
2025-08-28 16:47:42
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auntie.nat5
auntie Nat :
He was so close... I'm honestly blown away by how often we're expected to step up and lead (i.e. being home and family manager) but are told we're not capable of doing such things.
2025-08-28 11:15:07
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crizz.tal
Tico 🍁 :
I watched a man with a child the other day almost fall over in disbelief cause a woman said she had her daughter at 36. He could not believe she was still able to have children. He had a daughter.
2025-08-30 12:37:16
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mundanemostly
MundaneMostly :
These people are not fringe. That pastor on tv the other week talking about ending women’s votes is not fringe. Probably 20% of people in the US think this way.
2025-08-28 16:16:27
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user17895559114070
user1789555911407 :
Uhhh at an old church of mine the children’s minister (also HAD to be a man 🙄) barely did a thing despite getting a salary for it because the moms/women did most of the work for free because “children’s ministry committee”
2025-08-28 14:01:43
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