@mackenzieherman: Before you open and then respond to an avoidant, be sure you’re evaluating if it’s a breadcrumb. #avoidantattachment #datingadvice #attachmentstyles #avoidant #breadcrumbs
I was finally tired of him always breadcrumbing me. So, i blocked him. I was wondering what happens when you finally block them? How does the avoidant feel about it and how do they handle it??
2025-08-28 03:16:12
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lucylou_200 :
Yep, responded to a breadcrumb and got left on delivered twice 😅
2025-08-27 19:57:10
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Justice for Ansiima :
😂😂😂😂 suddenly I regret sending the hey 😂😭😭😭😭😭
2025-08-28 00:45:45
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P :
He ghosted me for 3 months, came back, made plans with me all excited, the day of the plans I blocked him 😁
2025-09-05 17:49:15
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Michael :
you just reply hey back. you mirror their energy and see where it goes. if they don't reply then you win because they showed how much they don't care and avoidants are very good at hiding their true feelings
2025-08-27 23:40:47
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CatnGeek :
actually breadcrumb help me to say goodbye little by little... I think 🤣
2025-08-27 21:21:36
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Vika ✨ :
I always send an invoice for “wasting my time “ fees and they disappear again 😹 it works every time ☺️
2025-08-27 20:12:11
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user6743053907950 :
Just give back whatever they give. They say hey, give them a hey. This whole thing is way too exhausting.
2025-08-28 12:44:23
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frankie :
then WHAT DO YOU WANT????????????????
2025-08-28 04:18:11
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indistinctchatter :
Everything about my ex makes sense now that I know about DAs. And this… is a bit triggering, haha.
2025-08-27 20:12:28
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Fusion797 :
That’s sad why even try to be in a relationship????)
2025-08-27 20:30:36
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Lori Fernicola :
The moment you set boundaries and stop caring is the moment you become free. It’s life changing!
2025-08-28 00:08:55
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Lolloooo :
so tired of people
2025-08-29 14:44:11
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Novawoltz :
just do this when you really want them to leave you alone 🤣
2025-08-28 05:39:50
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CurrentlyIncognito :
or you respond matching their energy them "hey" you "hey" them 5 hours later "wyd" 😂😂
2025-08-27 23:37:23
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𝓒𝓱𝓪𝓸𝓼 ✔︎ :
JUST TELL THE POOR GUY U DON'T WANT HIM 💀
2025-09-09 16:56:35
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⋆˚꩜。 :
yeah... it's too muchhh like calm down it's too overwhelming
2025-08-30 14:44:06
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Sky :
This person just stopped responding to me after an argument. I kept messaging her but nothing in return. When I finally blocked her, that's the first time she sent me a message after weeks. I replied to that, and no response again. She kept bread crumbing me until I decided I'm done. I stopped responding like the way I used to, and then I saw a post of hers saying people only act like they care but they don't and that they will leave you behind so easily. It was crazy.
2025-09-06 15:30:20
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Kaps :
I’m in this exact situation
2025-09-06 14:42:41
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BitKidVid :
She just found out I’m moving and asked me to have lunch next week 💀💀💀
2025-08-27 21:57:57
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shankie221 :
i fear this is me
2025-08-28 09:02:00
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Eline :
My avoidant ( longdistance ) messaged me after not speaking to me for a month. Said he was thinking about me wondering how i was doing etc. Then he came with a heavy question. “Did you think of me comming to ..(my country)” But I thought I might never speak let alone see him again. I would like to understand his intention… so I said that. If he said “would you like to see me coming to (my country)” I would’ve reacted differently.. but All I thought in that period was “what if were never speaking again😔” “🥺 why did he block me” he only liked the message. No response (yet…) what do I do?🥺 Just wait?
2025-08-28 04:17:25
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Non Sequithor :
i usually just say "sup" now lmao
2025-08-28 15:55:14
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regi :
atp, i’d reply with so much effort just to stress one out
2025-09-07 08:05:27
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