@amoderntherapist: Leaning into conflict with curiosity and willingness to understand the other person’s perspective is NOT always easy. 😮‍💨 But it is incredibly important to do life together friendship, romantic or otherwise over the long haul. 💯 . #psychologist #relationships

Dr. Justin Puder, Ph.D.

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Kirra :

I always preface that I seek to understand not to criticise during disagreements

2025-08-31 00:43:42

KATE :

This is the kind of perspective I want to take into my sessions when I am a counselor! Could you recommend any kind of books or podcast maybe to educate myself more before I become a licensed clinician?

2025-08-27 19:37:11

Hannah Kissick :

Just finished a session say exactly this! Maybe less eloquently but this!!

2025-08-27 19:41:28

anxiousgrad :

Oooh this is such a helpful way to explain this to my clients, thank you!

2025-08-27 22:37:22

Kyle :

I just brought this up with my therapist!

2025-08-27 22:21:43

Life Tool Kits :

Such a powerful reminder 🥰 it’s not about winning it’s about understanding!

2025-08-29 02:12:33

nids3012 :

I wish everyone could hear this ❤️

2025-08-28 00:42:56

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