@myoppismyself: it’s crazy that people go from partners to strangers. if strangers is what we are now, i’ll wish nothing but the best for you. keep God in your life and follow his path. people don’t always make good decisions after separating, but all you can control is yourself. the past is the past for a reason. no matter how unfair it is. create a relationship with yourself that is so strong that it sets a new perspective, a new reason to push forward and grow beyond what you thought was capable. “loving yourself” sounds cliché but it truly is the key to happiness.