@jordanjeppe: Anxious attachment wires us to believe our needs are dangerous. Somewhere in our past, expressing a need meat we risked rejection, abandonment, or criticism. So as adults we unconsciously pre-shrink ourselves before we even speak. For me, this pattern traces back to childhood. Continue reading on my sub. 📖❤️🩹 #anxiousattachment #relationships #anxiousattachmentstyle