@chasingyonci: If men give you disclaimers like this run… 🏃🏽‍♀️ #understandingmen #datingtipsforwomen #datingtips #datingadviceforwomen #whydomen

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goldmineempire2018
goldmineempire :
My story is almost exactly like yours. I go to his house to do all the wife's duties. I was so attached. To make the matter worse, everyone around him loves me to pieces. I made myself unavailable for other people for 3 years but he kept saying he's damaged due to past trauma so he's no sign of future plans but I waited and hopeful for whole 3 years. Then, I bumped into his inbox and saw how much he's been telling another woman how much he loves her and how much plans he has for her. Well, it's exactly a month yesterday that I decided to leave for good. I'm glad I left. I know I will heal with time.
2025-08-28 06:39:30
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mazarif11
Mazlina Ariff :
He said he doesn’t want a relationship then ask us to be exclusive
2025-08-30 00:40:24
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jeannine.tretick
Jeannine Tretick :
That’s why I decided to be friends first. It’s easier to get to know them first
2025-08-28 00:38:40
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thebubbly_badass
thebubbly_badass :
A guy said the same thing, “a relationship isn’t in my goals right now” “see you as a friend with potential for more” “I won’t be able to give you what you need” so when I ended things b/c I said I’m a lover girl and a relationship girl at heart, he said “you deserve to have that.” Didn’t care to fight for me… yet everything after felt like a break up… and he still would send mixed romantic messages trying to bread crumb me back. He was super confusing. I cut him off permanently though, unfollowed and everything.
2025-08-29 02:08:06
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iamlaurier
IamLaurie❌ :
I wasted almost 3 years. Same situationship as you discussed. It took a while for me to get it. He didn’t want a relationship with me💯 Once I finally opened my eyes and let myself go. I met someone else who adores me and I him. I will never get those 3 years back. But, I know it wasn’t me.
2025-08-28 14:20:28
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shirley.renders
Shirley.renders :
he told me that he just came out of a bad marriage and he is not ready for commitment but is looking for someone to help him in life🙄,
2025-08-28 19:44:00
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tusiime.emilly
Emm :
he said he couldn't give me what I want,( a future) but if I ask him to stay, he will stay, he said I should just go with the flow.He started saying am not friendly (am friendly but selectively 😂) He was emotionally starving me ...I woke up one day and told him...you said u can't give me what I want so this is goodbye. It was so hard for me to do but i had to because if i stayed, and something happened, he would say i told her because he did. ..two days later he posted "I had the worst exgirlfriend."😂😂 Well I never looked back!
2025-08-28 01:27:38
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robertmark15
RM :
I always offer clarity i not playing these games . I if a woman likes me and is interested in a relationship I cannot give her relationship . I will be upfront and tell i cannot and leave permanently I am not . I am not entertaining soul connection that ate one sided that do not sit well with the universe and in the 5d world.
2025-08-29 10:20:11
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tybabigurl52
Ty :
He said One day at a time
2025-08-28 11:10:57
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user3n9srwumy7
user3n9srwumy7 :
Factssssss! This is my exact story. Difference is that we were friends first but unbeknownst to me he was only pretending to be my friend and pretending to like me all along until he repeatedly broke my heart and broke me spiritually. Didn't know I was in a situationship 😕
2025-08-29 22:33:20
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iamevergreen1
Evergreen :
Sometimes they make it about finances, especially if they know you are capable and can come through for them.
2025-08-29 12:29:54
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juenita63
jue :
oh my!! that's my story! I wish I knew the things I know now.
2025-08-28 19:51:14
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jennifertjoy
Jennifer T Joy :
This is exact thing happened to me just recently
2025-08-28 21:09:08
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christine_the_pragmatist
The Pragmatist :
Thank you for this video and I’m really sorry you went through this. What I’ve learned about many people is that they will usurp your energy while simultaneously pursuing others if you allow it. It took me too long to learn that giving my energy to someone is actually valuable and when I did learn that, I scaled way back. When men give disclaimers like this, if you care about them or are in love with them, completely withdrawal from their life and, for your own sake, move on.
2025-08-28 15:57:28
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kimmiekim69
Kimmie :
Continue to say we were taking baby steps.
2025-08-28 02:00:10
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deequeen0623
Fiercely_inconvenient_woman💕 :
Ohh one man who I knew for years kept telling me all his friends were passing away and he could not talk to me because he was in the house crying all day alone lmaoooo. But he knew I could see him out and about on social media. He used the sympathy trap so I would not question him. I didn’t fall for it. I left him to cry as much as he needed. I decided to see his friend instead who was right there for me when my friend was out here grooming other women.
2025-08-28 11:08:19
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shellyannkhan
Shelly-Ann Khan :
that is my life oh wow
2025-08-28 20:22:27
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royaltyfromjudah
👑 Purpose and Favor 👑 :
Exactly what happened to me 😩 and used the Word to manipulate me.
2025-08-28 16:54:06
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peace8future0
peace8future0 :
Don’t me has issues, I deserve better
2025-08-28 07:14:25
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laluz1977
Lucie 🇨🇦 :
Il m’a dit qu’il doit attendre et aider sa fille de 25 ans à se lever lacer dans la vie
2025-08-28 00:23:11
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kimmiekim69
Kimmie :
I felt the same way. 2 years later I gave up
2025-08-28 01:58:43
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dearangie.co
Dear Angie :
💯💯💯
2025-08-28 22:58:33
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geckoaz64
Sherry :
💯
2025-08-28 14:49:09
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andrea.simpson
Andrea Simpson :
😁
2025-08-28 05:22:55
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christineboutin0
Chrissy89 :
💯💯💯
2025-08-28 05:06:34
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