@raquel_capacity_expert: Victimhood doesn’t always sound like complaining.⁣ ⁣ It often sounds like being aware.⁣ ⁣ At first, it sounds like awareness. You’re naming your reality.⁣ ⁣ But look closer.⁣ ⁣ That “awareness” actually ends the conversation instead of opening it.⁣ ⁣ It quietly says: Because of this identity or experience, life will always be limited.⁣ ⁣ That’s not awareness. That’s victimhood.⁣ ⁣ Real awareness doesn’t shrink your future. It expands it.⁣ ⁣ Victimhood-as-awareness: “Because of who I am, this is all I’ll ever get.”⁣ ⁣ Real awareness: “Because of who I am, I’ve got context but I can still choose how to grow and respond.”⁣ ⁣ Victimhood feels safe because it explains the struggle. ⁣ ⁣ But if your explanation locks you into defeat, you’re not standing in awareness. You’re standing in resignation.⁣ ⁣ So ask yourself:⁣ ⁣ Does your self-awareness open more possibilities?⁣ ⁣ Or does it keep telling you why things will never change?⁣ ⁣ Because if it’s the second… that’s not awareness. That’s just victimhood dressed up with better words.⁣ ⁣ If this hits you, grab my Capacity Journal or the Capacity Workbook (link in bio). They’re tools to help you break patterns of perception and step into growth.⁣

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