so many women would tell me they didn't want to be friends with me at first because I gave them the vibe that I thought I was better than everyone? meanwhile I literally think I'm not even worthy of being human????
2025-08-28 05:08:43
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nelli_sky :
Asking clarifying questions to understand and improve = agrumentative 💀😢
2025-08-28 16:46:16
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Chelsea :
It’s exhaustinggg
2025-08-29 23:35:26
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Kate 🍉 :
Everything I do feels like I’m hurting someone
2025-08-28 07:12:44
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✨Stas✨ :
It’s so exhausting to feel like everyone hates you and is lying to you by default
2025-08-28 15:54:57
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Ur Stepdad 🍉 :
I’m a special educator and I’ve seen people do this to CHILDREN on the spectrum. I’m dealing with it in my classroom currently. 😒 I have a sweet little kinder student who’s just trying to figure out this new place and these new expectations and there’s someone around (working on changing this) who assumes some negative intent in his EVERY. MOVE. He’s FIVE.
2025-08-28 23:00:33
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Nabikissu :
This is what I'm being told! 😭 Like... thanks. I would never tell anyone that when we got to know each other. "I didn't like you before I got to know you." like why did you feel the need to tell that?
2025-08-28 11:19:49
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user7309321441261 :
I literally don't say anything and people seem to draw all kinds of conclusions 😭
2025-08-28 13:09:07
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One.proud.Trams.Activist :
honestly some of my worst experiences have been with other people on the spectrum. they have a tendency to shamelessly cause me embarrassment by loudly digging into me in settings I'm masking
2025-08-29 21:23:45
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Emery :
Also never giving us the benefit of the doubt???? Oh yeah Bethany gets to do that with no consequences but never meeeeeeeeee
2025-08-28 18:05:28
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✧` 🎀 𝓀𝒶𝓈𝓈𝓎 🎀 `✧ :
is it bad that i like being intimidating?
2025-08-28 18:25:42
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Marion Jacqueline :
When I don’t mask, I get told I’m intimidating. When I mask, everyone says “I thought you were flirting with everyone when I met you, but eventually I realized it was just the way you talk.”
2025-08-28 16:16:03
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Stargazer :
Imagine being told "your intentions dont matter,your actions do"
2025-08-29 11:47:34
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brooke ◡̈ :
I'm such a naturally curious person and it gets so weird when people think I'm interrogating them? I just wanna know! What's with the assumption that I'm trying to get blackmail
2025-08-28 18:11:45
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aaliyah_amiri :
I found my people 😭 i'm freaking out going through these comments.
2025-08-29 20:57:22
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IsekaiMePls🌎 :
thank you for posting 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
2025-08-29 21:15:31
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Leo :
i literally put "lol" and positive emojis in my text and people still somehow think im angry or upset at them??? 🙃🙃🙃 one i was like "uhhh i put a smiley face atthe end how did u read that as me raging at you???? are you ok????"
2025-08-28 16:59:08
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Seraphina :
THANK YOU! I’m tired of people calling me evil and manipulative. If I was intentionally trying to be mean or awful, I WOULD DO THAT. YOU WOULD KNOW. Jesus Christ
2025-08-28 13:40:43
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HTML_mikey :
You have to remember that neurotypical people operate off of “ego”, and they’re almost never their true selves. They enshroud themselves in a cloud of acceptability and appearance, we could care less how we’re perceived because we enjoy our authentic selves and it ENRAGES them because they can’t do the same.
2025-08-28 13:00:48
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miranda :
I had a newer coworker complain about my tone of voice to my store manager. I then got taken off the floor to talk about my tone. I asked my store manager, what about the context of the conversation, i was trying to help her because she was struggling and failing at the register. I judt said im just gonna not help anyone anymore when the only thing i “struggle with “ is my tone of voice, bc my customer service mask is different than my normal speaking tone.
2025-08-30 04:36:37
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Espurr :
YES, everyone always assumes the worst from me and it's made me wonder if it's actually true. Maybe it's not my autism, maybe I'm secretly just a horrible lazy manipulative person (not that autistic ppl can't be bad people like you said but u get my point)
2025-08-28 21:14:27
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moldybones :
especially the part where people think I'm arguing with them when I'm just trying to talk with them. that's why I gave up on trying to talk through difficult stuff with people and I avoid those conversations because I can never be actually heard and it causes so much unnecessary drama when I'm just trying to have a conversation. (I'm also working on that and I'll get there eventually but it's too infuriating and my bs tolerance is too low currently)
2025-08-28 11:23:21
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the nerd🍃 :
As an autistic person, my #1 pet peeve is when someone brings up my somewhat monotone speaking voice. My mom does it and tells me to add infliction when I talk even though my autism kinda prevents that
2025-08-28 12:39:32
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wrenlauwren :
I've been voted out of a fewwww social groups so it is hard to not be paranoid cuz it really does happen
2025-08-29 03:42:08
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Amara :
I learned that at the end of the day, people will assume the worse out of you no matter if you're bubbly and out going or neutral and monotone. youre going to be the villain either way so you might as well be comfortable while being that villain.
2025-08-28 13:37:03
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