The wedding guest dress code police on this app are ✨ridiculous✨
2025-08-28 16:55:35
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Karen Grace Savella :
Ok the red thing is WEIRD. I have never heard of the sleeping with the groom thing
2025-08-28 20:39:04
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a. :
To most people, black tie just means ‘the fanciest dress I have’ and honestly that’s fine
2025-08-29 09:25:04
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annie :
people on tiktok are soooo strict about dress codes it’s insane 😭 ppl irl absolutely do not care to this extent — I think your red dress from that video was nice and perfectly suitable
2025-08-28 16:26:13
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sof✨ :
Wear the red dress, it looks stunning on you ✨
2025-08-28 21:07:14
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user8605301844364 :
I feel like it is worth asking the couple getting married what their definition is, because otherwise there are indeed a million ways to interpret it. The anti-red dress rule sounds like something from the last century though 😅
2025-08-28 15:55:54
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Nicole :
dress codes change with culture. what would be ok to wear to a black tie wedding today is not the same as a black tie wedding in 1890 (extreme example) and ppl who say otherwise are being deliberately obtuse. today's black tie is more flexible than the app would have you believe. however if the couple is conforming to the strictest definition of a black tie event, it is polite to adhere to the strictest definition of black tie dress
2025-08-29 15:34:21
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maggie :
THANK YOU. i had to block the “black tie etiquette” creators on here when i was wedding dress shopping bc the conversation is so devoid of context it was like suddenly everyone & their mother was staff at downtown abby or something💀
2025-08-29 16:58:22
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C :
I mean I think in general I don’t trust any store’s categorization of dress codes (think business/office clothes at revolve), but I’ve generally found most people to follow dress codes at black tie events! At the weddings I’ve been to, the people that deviated from the black tie dress code were usually the exception
2025-08-28 16:52:45
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september :
Black tie optional is so that people feel comfortable putting their black tie stuff on, without obligating others to have to invest too much, but they still know it’s going to be dressy.
2025-08-29 06:39:03
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Samantha :
People are crazy making up wedding etiquette on this app or being mad at people for how they’re putting on their wedding
2025-08-29 23:44:19
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Microraptor :
Like "long and not white" are probably the only real rules for a black tie wedding
2025-08-29 16:05:04
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dieponydie :
if they don’t want black tie they’d just say formal 🤷🏻♀️
2025-08-28 21:13:56
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Madison :
People are going more for a vibe than a strict dress code when they say black tie for their wedding. Also so many people will still show up underdressed and it’ll be fiiiine
2025-08-28 18:30:28
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✌️ :
Black tie wedding dress code is not the same as a high end gala black tie. Brides don’t even know what black tie means.
2025-09-01 22:52:41
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Stephanie Walker :
Market matters. In New York (and DC and like cities) black tie means black tie especially if the couple is wealthy. In California, Florida, Texas etc black tie usually translates to formal. Just like how business attire in those settings is a looser interpretation.
2025-08-30 22:34:02
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ashlynholliday :
As a RTR loyalist for 8+ years- they DO NOT know the rules for just about any category and it’s very frustrating. It’s safer to just look at everything available instead of the categories
2025-08-31 13:48:47
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spaganya :
it very much matters the crowd. a black tie wedding for a middle class family will hit totally different than a black tie wedding full of the very affluent folks.
2025-08-31 02:57:36
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Айла :
In my opinion, the thing that stands out glaringly as not black tie is that the material is far too thin and flimsy. I think that’s way more important than length. It doesn’t look nice enough, looks very casual.
2025-08-31 02:55:28
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katy :
the red you have is fine it can totally be dressed up with styling
2025-08-29 19:37:44
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Carolina Santana :
I have. It was lovely but the red rule wasn’t a thing
2025-08-28 18:51:10
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Kassi :
A lot of those rent the runway dresses are sooooo far out tbh
2025-08-29 02:31:45
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Dr Cress | Postdoc life :
What is with the surge of people wanting black tie weddings? I may be wrong, but it feels like people just want their guests to look social media worthy and chasing the aesthetic of what they see from influencers online, instead of actually taking their guests into account
2025-08-29 10:07:37
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Claudia 🐣 :
Idk girl I’m from Latin America and for us black tie just refers to the fabric being nice and the dress looking expensive
2025-08-29 11:24:50
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myusernamewasatypo :
That dress was perfect! TikTok people have the *most ridiculous* rules about what “black tie” means. Their rules are actually more appropriate for white tie.
2025-08-30 15:38:22
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