@xokennadanielle: Being a stepmom isn’t hard because of the kids. It’s hard because of the adults. They don’t get nearly enough credit, but we sure get all the criticism! #MomsofTikTok #stepmomsoftiktok #stepmomproblems #babymama #momtok
I had to set boundaries and distance myself for my own peace. I could not longer tolerate the manipulation (yes kids and do that) and the disrespect. I will no longer take responsibility for their children or their roles as the parents. I’m here to help and fill in only when necessary. My peace and mental health matters too. But I’m seen as the bad guy for not just allowing it all.
2025-08-31 03:19:58
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Laura Babyy❤️ :
My daughter’s step mom has the same authority as me ❤️
2025-08-28 23:24:45
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mixmikew :
If your getting walked on as a step mother your man isn’t taking care of his household. My wife first kids second ❤️
2025-08-30 13:55:59
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Iam_Sheena Albertyn :
If there’s a bio mom how do you deal with one that just won’t back off . She behaves like my husband is her property 🙄
2025-09-03 17:37:14
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kaylaalmeida :
As a mom-with a stepmom since i was 12 and has a mom with mental illness. My SM has always been an angel. She is non confrontational and had to deal with a BM who was very confrontational. I can imagine it wasnt easy for her at all. But she stayed out of any issues and treated my brother and i like her own and never let it be known there were any issues. as a grown woman i appreciate tf out of that. She was in my wedding(with my mom), i have a special name for my daughter to call her and her kids with my dad are my life. I have the best relationship with her and my siblings because of her. Only now i know of the things she put up with and it makes me respect her that much more. My mom and her are very cordial now(my mom likes her more than my dad) and its all because of how she handled everything. Absolutely no judgement- i cant imagine how hard it can be- from the kid perspective- in the long run it all worked out. The kids are all that matters in these situations. Wishing you respect, validation and a better, brighter future with your family 🤍
2025-09-02 14:55:23
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whats.mom.up.to.now :
My step mom beat me with a rubber swing seat when I got out of the bath for not eating my peas. Another time she made me eat the Swiss steak I threw up… the throw up… she made me eat the throw up part…
2025-09-02 12:36:01
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Jessica Alo 🤎 :
“TO SILENTLY CARRY THE WEIGHT OF EVERY ONE ELSES CHOICES”
2025-08-30 00:17:40
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nadja goode :
this is learned the hard way
2025-09-08 04:08:11
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California Realtor & Finance :
It’s not an easy job and you get NOTHING back!
2025-09-08 20:41:17
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LaLune11092 :
I just had a conversation with my bf about his daughter. Her mother is making her do things on purpose.
2025-08-30 08:14:29
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Loren 💋 :
No contact or event with the kid whatsoever and 0% contact with the baby mama 😎 you don’t have to do it at all actually
2025-08-30 14:55:28
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Nicole Robertson :
Love them like your own but you only get an opinion as long as it’s the same as bio moms
2025-08-31 01:44:36
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everafteryoung💜 :
I've found my people!!❤️Been going thru it for 5 years 😩
2025-08-31 12:11:43
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J3ss :
I love my husband and step kids but I would never ever do this again lol
2025-08-30 15:54:32
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butterfly2017 :
I stopped trying to parent, I’m there as a support system for her. It’s caused less stress in our marriage and we have a great relationship my step daughter and I. I knew I’d never have a say in raising her and I got tired of fighting to be heard so I raise my kids and am the support for my step daughter when she needs it
2025-09-09 02:41:44
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Viictoriia Palacios :
I have literally 3 rules for my kids “step mom” 1.dont treat them differently just because they ain’t ur kids love them 2.don’t physically punish my kids if it needs physical the dad can handle it and time out is always a option 3. Do not make any choices about my kids physical appearance without speaking to me first other then that my kids should be respectful and act correctly just like at my house with my spouse!
2025-08-30 18:46:30
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inked_cc :
Any stepmums here want to date my ex 🤣... My ex's girlfriend will not allow us to communicate about our child. If i email him she emails back calling me obsessed and insecure. Mind you i don't want my ex he cheated on me with her. My lawyer told me to take a restraining order out on her for me and my 2 kids. I need him to be with a better woman.
2025-09-02 14:22:45
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Marina Lund🩷 :
Just because you’re a “stepmom” doesn’t mean you have to do all the stepmom things and get too involved. My husband has a son and his mom and dad. I will say I don’t do anything... Just taking care of myself first and my biological son being a good wife for my husband🙌 I have my own boundaries for what I’m ok with or not. My boundaries make me a good mom for my son first 😍
2025-09-04 09:40:22
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thisplaceisamesss :
Signing up to be a step mom doesn’t mean you have to allow his kids to steal from your babies, hit your babies, talk negatively to them, and destroy their property. You’re still allowed to do fun things for your kids and shouldn’t be expected to pay for his kids to join, especially if he’s not helping with the kids you guys made together and only pays for his kids.
2025-08-30 00:58:17
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isabel.delmar :
“We are not here to silently carry the weight of someone else’s choices.” LOVE THIS 💕
2025-08-29 14:28:02
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Ely :
My stepson (16) comes over and doesn’t pick up his plate/cup doesn’t fold blanket, leaves clothes everywhere, I asked my husband nicely to tell him to pick up/clean up after himself. I’m the bad one now, so my husband is the one that picks up after his son. He used to make comments about my daughters (not his) for not washing their dishes but he never said anything when his son left dishes on the table
2025-09-04 00:11:03
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Judy :
The stepmom has no right to discipline a step child it’s the parents job
2025-09-02 16:04:26
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Sadie :
and that's why I removed myself to my bedroom when his kids were there. i got dragged for holding my ground on my boundaries, boundaries for my kids, you name it. im currently filling out divorce papers.
2025-08-29 11:29:20
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