@mackenzieherman: Replying to @sabinajespersen 5 boundaries that protect your heart while reconnecting with an avoidant partner ❤️🩹 these will keep you grounded and safe while giving the relationship a real chance. #avoidant #attachmentstyle #avoidantpartner #boundaries #relationshipcoach
I’m anxious he’s avoidant and we are doing all these things and more and we are thriving. We live by communication is not key comprehension is.
2025-08-30 02:27:25
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Dee Ní hArrachtáin :
This works! for a few months then back to square one again. forget it folks!
2025-08-29 20:21:43
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Moira Jo :
Yes that’s beautiful. It’s just after you do that, the avoidant will ghost to think about changing their habit for you.
2025-08-29 18:39:19
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Everett :
I'm an avoidant. We need to be in therapy to address the root of why we act the way we do and better ways to deal with it. An ex could take you back do all of what you suggested but sooner or later we'd fall back into old behavior avoiding again without the proper help.
2025-08-30 05:07:29
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Lilouuu :
Avoindants should be avoided
2025-09-13 07:15:24
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CJ :
Yeah it doesn’t work lol went through this 3 times with the same girl.
2025-08-29 17:57:31
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🇨🇦 MyDogKnowsEverything :
Just don’t. Save that space in your life for someone that shows up properly.
2025-08-29 20:44:55
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Michael :
you should always rephrase what you want to say by explaining what your needs are and not telling them what they should or shouldn't do. let them prove that they can do what you ask from them. if they can't you should move on
2025-08-30 18:51:55
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Larei :
If he reconnects im sending him this😂😂😂
2025-08-29 16:43:21
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Justin Krahn :
They have the ability to do all these things on their own… they literally choose not to.
2025-09-09 15:44:32
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Rosie 🥰 :
you say these things they leave ..
2025-08-29 17:34:18
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DW :
This makes me feel better. Started reconciliation with my avoidant ex a couple weeks ago and I’ve actually used similar worded messages.
2025-08-29 22:02:41
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Deanna :
Thank you Mack
2025-09-30 05:26:19
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Charlene Currie :
It sounds simple & achievable but not sure they will be receptive
2025-08-30 01:10:08
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Mandy :
Tried this and 2 months in he had to walk away because he was overwhelmed so now I’m done
2025-09-10 23:53:51
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Hamad Hussain :
I know you're a healing avoidant, but how do you know how anxious ppl feel so well haha
2025-08-29 16:58:07
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_raiiinnnnn :
what if they take it personal, how would we handle it?
2025-08-29 17:23:45
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Shaka Barrett :
Definitely will be doing this next time!
2025-08-29 17:01:30
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Lililian :
im pretty sure they are the thin line between Earth and narcissists..and im not doing this show.
2025-08-29 17:23:46
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Tannia in Life :
Thank you for the emotional translation. I wrote a letter to him sith this points.
2025-09-05 15:28:41
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Madelin :
How can you let them know that you are here for them while still respecting that they asked for space. 100% silence is so cruel
2025-10-25 17:19:18
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Shasa Jewel 🇰🇪🇦🇺🇸🇪 :
mbona unaambia mtoto shhh hapo🤣🤣🤣
2025-10-15 21:54:33
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Emilie 🌈🦋 :
she will step up for a few months then go slowly with reasons like im sick or i need to focus on my child. Then I feel bad for wanting more time.
2025-09-28 05:06:08
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Courtney Liz :
What about when you have this conversation, and they agree, say they care, say they value the relationship, say they want things to be better… and then don’t demonstrate sustained effort?
2025-11-19 15:45:05
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