@meghanmilesnyc: The fall coming has caused my grief to really ramp up because that means one thing… 💔 #grievingdaughter #grief #grieftok #griefandloss #grieftiktok
This is my first year of “firsts”, it’s gripping me to my core💔
2025-08-31 02:06:22
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Katie :
My mom had the audacity to die in October. OCTOBER!
2025-08-31 02:24:40
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Erin :
Now starts the time my dad started getting sick last year before passing in Jan. It’s taken all of the joy 💔
2025-09-13 02:58:58
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Dancing through motherhood :
My mom died Dec 16th. Funeral on the 20th. It effectively ruined Christmas for me forever ( it’s been 20 years since she died). I had 6 children since she died . And I love Christmas for them. But it’s a struggle…. Every single year….
2025-08-30 21:44:38
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✨Nicole✨ :
I completely get this. My grandma passed a year in a half ago next next. She missed in March but she’s always loved the holidays. The holidays aren’t always my favorite time especially since she’s been gone but I find comfort in falling to sleep to Christmas movies. I know it’s because she loved the holidays and it brings me such comfort ❤️
2025-08-31 07:45:10
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💙QueenKatalina💙 :
I still love fall but I feel more grief during these months. I just try and also let myself enjoy fall and let myself feel grief also. My Dad was sick and when he when on hospice I was so scared he would pass on Halloween because they said he would pass the Tuesday before Halloween. He lasted day after day and got really bad on Oct 31st. He ended up lasting until early Nov 1st. I feel he knew how much Halloween meant to my sister and I and he stayed till Nov 1st for us. I dont know if that's why I still try to love the ber months. The holidays are still hard especially since he passed right around Thanksgiving and my birthday is right after Christmas which upset me so much the first year.
2025-09-03 01:30:38
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Emma Johnson 🧿 :
@Emma Johnson 🧿: I’m the same with summer everything happens in summer, death anniversary, funeral, her birthday, my wedding anniversary, my son’s birthday then my birthday. I hate them all now. October is my calm. Like you say before the holidays 😭
2025-08-30 22:10:59
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Tiffany Brooks :
As a mom/friend I struggle SO hard to still try to put joy into the holidays and still be “happy” around family and friends - I lost my Mom in 03/2022 and Dad 08/2022 - the holidays have NEVER hit the same and they’re exhausting. Sending you love and thinking of you 🫶🏼
2025-08-30 22:08:17
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Jessica TB :
My husband passed away in May. Last week I got some fall scented Febreze spray. I sprayed it, and it brought the feeling and excitement of having the house open and the holidays coming, and then it smacked me in the face that my husband won’t be here for it anymore, and I instantly started crying. Crying over Febreze 🥺💔
2025-09-02 17:00:06
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Brucecait✨ :
Pretending to be happy on the holidays is so exhausting. My dad loved the holidays.
2025-08-31 02:57:14
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Michelle Laramee :
yup my son passed 10/28/2020. I love fall but hate the dates. Thanksgiving, Christmas. huge Hugs 🤗
2025-08-30 22:54:59
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Denise :
I can’t get into the holidays at all since my mom passed. Hate them now. I’m actually working them to avoid them.
2025-09-01 20:24:31
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Contemplatingwithcoffee :
Thank you for sharing your story!
2025-08-30 21:53:26
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Rebekah Bex Tiffany :
summer is my grief season. my brother, dad and grandma all passed in summer. I'm sorry your going into the harder season for you. If you ever need an extra person or friend that understands, I'm here ❤️.
2025-08-31 02:21:17
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Allison Burke :
Wow this hits home! My mom passed last July, this July was the 1 year. This summer sucked and I hated it - summer was always my thing (our thing - we thrived, she helped me raise babies in the summer, we had fun everyday.) Now it’s gone.
2025-09-01 14:54:17
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Megan :
My dad passed unexpectedly last October, 7 days after my sister's birthday and 4 days before my birthday. I don't think either of us are celebrating again.
2025-08-31 01:02:16
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Nadia :
Grief changes everything. Nothing brings me joy anymore after losing my mom last year on August 10,2024. 😭 I can relate to every single word your saying 😭
2025-09-06 00:55:41
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LeoMightyLionKitten :
Mom died 3/31. I’m dreading the holidays and my birthday without her. Wish I could leave the country and return in January
2025-08-31 00:03:16
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aubriannenoelcarpitcher :
I wish more people understand this grief changed the way you look at everything
2025-08-31 04:03:49
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user3719372713242 :
SAME! My 18 yr old daughter was killed my a drunk in March and she was such a Halloween girlie I’m struggling so bad bc we both loved this season. I bought these pink ghosts she would’ve loved to cope and make myself decorate 🤷♀️
2025-09-01 20:05:18
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Denise :
My Son loved Christmas so much he passed right after the New Year. I no longer celebrate holidays its just to hard. He was my only child. His birthday is June. I get so much anxiety now with holidays. My son passed at home on hospice. Everything changes we are no longer who we were. 😭💔
2025-09-02 00:17:05
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BugMaster117 :
Loss never really leaves us. The ache we feel is the echo of a bond that mattered. It reminds us of their place in our lives and the imprint they still leave on us. So we honor them by guarding their legacy, sharing their stories, and living in a way they’d be proud of. Not without them, but because of them.
2025-09-06 14:54:35
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Theya Garcia :
felt this! I love fall except this year I am not looking forward to it one bit
2025-09-08 23:37:09
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a.lodes :
That’s how I feel about August except I’ve never liked the extreme heat, but now it angers me to my core
2025-09-02 00:32:40
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