@flourishwithlaurin: Stop pretending “girls’ night” is harmless. Dressing up, going out, drinking, and surrounding yourself with single men isn’t about bonding with your girlfriends it’s about seeking validation outside of your relationship. If you’re committed, respect your man. Respect your relationship. True girls’ nights don’t happen at clubs or bars they happen in pajamas, with real connection, without the need for male attention. It’s not insecurity. It’s loyalty. And if you don’t get that you’re not ready for a real relationship.