@girlthepoet: When you’re in no contact, rumination is the biggest trap. Your brain is wired to seek closure, so it replays memories and imagines what your ex is doing now. But those stories aren’t facts—they’re guesses. The more you feed them, the harder it is to detach. Staying in no contact means protecting yourself from false narratives and giving your nervous system the space it needs to reset. Healing happens when you shift from “what are they doing?” to “what do I need right now?” #avoidant #avoidantattachmentstyle #fyp #datingadviceforwomen #relationships
I heard a powerful one today. "They aren't the love of your life because they didn't even think you were worth saying goodbye to." These people that get mad and ghost, they aren't waiting for you, and THEY DONT DESERVE YOU.
2025-09-02 01:45:22
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reynamaria32 :
I am not ok 🥺
2025-09-01 20:39:15
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Gabby C :
my ex is doing all these. He delve into misogynistic and sexual content on social media, dating apps, and exes. he also has been saying that I was just using him for money, didn't love him, even though I was the one who was supporting him for the last year.
2025-09-02 19:48:30
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Ashley Flores :
even when I put the paragraphs and all the text messages about hurting me he kept saying stop please stop. he wants to be friends but still see other people and im the one who is devastated 💔
2025-09-01 22:27:07
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Lakia :
Yeah they told me we couldn't break up over text and then they broke up over text
2025-10-12 23:58:18
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xcutiepiex :
i have remind myself this. if she wanted me she would talk to me
2025-09-02 17:37:16
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jenn :
yes I'm waiting anymore
2025-09-03 02:14:42
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Rice-A-Roni :
Instead, they’re texting me saying I see I still make you laugh after us meeting up from coparenting when I haven’t even said a word to him 😭😭
2025-10-13 00:40:23
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JH :
it's just a normal day for them
2025-09-03 00:14:11
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🐭Mousey XIONG 🐭 :
Finally someone telling the truth
2025-09-03 04:44:02
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funswindler1 :
Oh he’s with the other woman 🥺
2025-09-04 01:10:08
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Kℹ️🆖 :
Well damnnnn
2025-09-04 10:34:10
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Trinidad :licensed Esthetician :
Ok yeah…
2025-09-05 22:43:59
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BONSAI :
Needed this ngl
2025-10-20 04:49:37
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Randy Touchet :
that's why I don't even bother me don't change no one don't want no one to chase me I look for respect
2025-10-21 01:28:07
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🕶️ :
Ya I know he got married like 11 mos after our break up to a tinder match tha wasn’t even his first choice just the one that bit lol I felt bad for not leaning in but now? Forget it 😭 but big on now I’m tooo self protective
2025-10-16 07:29:57
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vtwvwvv :
Thank u
2025-10-11 19:34:50
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faus :
Thank you
2025-09-01 22:52:38
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