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thats_nat_my_problem
thats_nat_my_problem :
Isn’t a first date technically a vibe check?
2025-09-02 10:21:44
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d0oodle2
🫥 :
Would you go on coffee date with Timothy Chalomet? Brad Pitt? Jamie Foxx? Hope this helps.
2025-09-02 09:22:29
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elvira_berzina
𝔼𝕝𝕧𝕚𝕣𝕒 𝔹𝕖𝕣𝕫𝕚𝕟𝕒 :
Ladies, our future hubby will not be asking us out on a coffee date.
2025-09-02 08:03:32
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nikopas69
NikoCyp 🇨🇾 :
It’s not going anywhere by choosing to have a coffee date? How many dates start off with dinner and yet they also go nowhere?? 😂😂😂😂😂
2025-09-02 04:25:49
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773to859
773to859 :
I’m not justifying coffee date or saying it’s OK but what I am asking is why would you want to be stuck on a long dinner date or a long event with somebody without doing a vibe check first. I’m learning… how do you check the vibe if you don’t go on a coffee date? I don’t drink coffee btw lol
2025-09-01 23:17:16
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kirstycarden1
Kirsty Carden :
Met on a coffee date 16 years ago and been madly in love ever since. Not sure where you’re getting your sources from…
2025-09-02 19:03:54
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sweetd366
Sweet Danielle :
I do that with my friends.
2025-09-02 00:02:15
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theincrediblesam
Mr sam :
It really depends on what you’re looking for, if you truly want to connect with someone and get to know them then coffee dates sounds great but if you’re just looking to use up a man to take you expensive dinners then I guess you can go for option 2
2025-09-02 06:36:08
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kinkyvikkky
Victoria :
36 and single btw 💔
2025-09-02 20:50:14
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really_trully1
Mr.really_truly :
“He’s not being intentionally and that’s not an investment” sorry I need to see if I like you first before “investment” 😂😂😂,
2025-09-02 08:21:49
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nadia_nadz333
nadia_nadz :
Sorry but I need a coffee date 1st cause I don’t want to sit at dinner with someone I don’t vibe with. Coffee/vibe check 1st n if we both 👌 then he needs to make more effort n take me dinner etc.
2025-09-02 02:46:51
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ste.vick8
stevevicks :
red flag
2025-09-02 09:28:03
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user6340472788619
Chairman Meow :
100% acceptable, it’s just a brief interview for potential further dates.
2025-09-02 09:13:33
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longdistancesoph
Sophie :
a coffee date would be perfect for me. short and sweet in case it all goes horribly wrong.
2025-09-02 17:56:35
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surferfish0
john5366 🇬🇧 :
So what do you suggest. Invite her for 2 weeks in the Seychelles for your first date to really impress her? Or might that just scare her off a bit... 😉
2025-11-06 00:30:25
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songmakerclay
Song Maker Clay :
A women may well feel more comfortable with a coffee date. So actually he does care.
2025-09-02 13:14:42
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nik65543
nik6554 :
Not a coffee date A walk date It's a test for her Called the walk test Can she do it or not Zero money spent
2025-09-02 04:31:21
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rickoshay066
rickoshay066 :
Oh dear…. From the comments, it doesn’t look like this went the way you expected it to. Coffee and a vibe check are perfect. A phone call preceeds this.
2025-09-03 00:48:55
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samonsand
Sohail :
The more you’re expecting from the start the more of a disaster you’re potentially setting yourself up for. Your looks are not enough to set standards, personality counts.
2025-09-03 12:37:59
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shellaay01
Shelley :
It is a vibe check and everyone needs to do them
2025-09-02 08:45:48
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toyancloses
toyancloses :
Why should he have to impress her , is it an audition? What is she doing to impress him? 37, married , 5 kids by the way and my wife doesn’t pay a penny towards our life , before you call me broke or something
2025-09-03 09:25:43
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foxchild3124
foxchild3124 :
a coffee after work is a great way to spend under an hour to see if you're worth a date
2025-11-05 22:05:46
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noreenhypnotherapist
Nóirín Ní Caiside :
Agreed to a coffee date (wouldn't normally) we barely sat down and he was called off for a family emergency 🤣. A few days later he text me and asked me to come to his place to Netflix and chill ( he actually used those words) The audacity 😳
2025-09-02 04:12:24
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