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Would you go on coffee date with Timothy Chalomet? Brad Pitt? Jamie Foxx? Hope this helps.
2025-09-02 09:22:29
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𝔼𝕝𝕧𝕚𝕣𝕒 𝔹𝕖𝕣𝕫𝕚𝕟𝕒 :
Ladies, our future hubby will not be asking us out on a coffee date.
2025-09-02 08:03:32
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NikoCyp 🇨🇾 :
It’s not going anywhere by choosing to have a coffee date? How many dates start off with dinner and yet they also go nowhere?? 😂😂😂😂😂
2025-09-02 04:25:49
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773to859 :
I’m not justifying coffee date or saying it’s OK but what I am asking is why would you want to be stuck on a long dinner date or a long event with somebody without doing a vibe check first. I’m learning… how do you check the vibe if you don’t go on a coffee date? I don’t drink coffee btw lol
2025-09-01 23:17:16
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Kirsty Carden :
Met on a coffee date 16 years ago and been madly in love ever since. Not sure where you’re getting your sources from…
2025-09-02 19:03:54
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Sweet Danielle :
I do that with my friends.
2025-09-02 00:02:15
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Mr sam :
It really depends on what you’re looking for, if you truly want to connect with someone and get to know them then coffee dates sounds great but if you’re just looking to use up a man to take you expensive dinners then I guess you can go for option 2
2025-09-02 06:36:08
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Victoria :
36 and single btw 💔
2025-09-02 20:50:14
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Mr.really_truly :
“He’s not being intentionally and that’s not an investment” sorry I need to see if I like you first before “investment” 😂😂😂,
2025-09-02 08:21:49
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nadia_nadz :
Sorry but I need a coffee date 1st cause I don’t want to sit at dinner with someone I don’t vibe with. Coffee/vibe check 1st n if we both 👌 then he needs to make more effort n take me dinner etc.
2025-09-02 02:46:51
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stevevicks :
red flag
2025-09-02 09:28:03
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Chairman Meow :
100% acceptable, it’s just a brief interview for potential further dates.
2025-09-02 09:13:33
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Sophie :
a coffee date would be perfect for me. short and sweet in case it all goes horribly wrong.
2025-09-02 17:56:35
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john5366 🇬🇧 :
So what do you suggest. Invite her for 2 weeks in the Seychelles for your first date to really impress her? Or might that just scare her off a bit... 😉
2025-11-06 00:30:25
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Song Maker Clay :
A women may well feel more comfortable with a coffee date. So actually he does care.
2025-09-02 13:14:42
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nik6554 :
Not a coffee date
A walk date
It's a test for her
Called the walk test
Can she do it or not
Zero money spent
2025-09-02 04:31:21
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rickoshay066 :
Oh dear…. From the comments, it doesn’t look like this went the way you expected it to. Coffee and a vibe check are perfect. A phone call preceeds this.
2025-09-03 00:48:55
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Sohail :
The more you’re expecting from the start the more of a disaster you’re potentially setting yourself up for. Your looks are not enough to set standards, personality counts.
2025-09-03 12:37:59
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Shelley :
It is a vibe check and everyone needs to do them
2025-09-02 08:45:48
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toyancloses :
Why should he have to impress her , is it an audition? What is she doing to impress him? 37, married , 5 kids by the way and my wife doesn’t pay a penny towards our life , before you call me broke or something
2025-09-03 09:25:43
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foxchild3124 :
a coffee after work is a great way to spend under an hour to see if you're worth a date
2025-11-05 22:05:46
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Nóirín Ní Caiside :
Agreed to a coffee date (wouldn't normally) we barely sat down and he was called off for a family emergency 🤣. A few days later he text me and asked me to come to his place to Netflix and chill ( he actually used those words) The audacity 😳
2025-09-02 04:12:24
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