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Hallie :
This is incredibly relatable. I turn into an angry teen girl every once in a while… but ONLY with my mom.
2025-09-02 21:47:34
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Reneems2018 :
The nervous system really goes 🚨🚨🚨
2025-09-02 21:53:15
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Itsnotreallyme :
"If you think you're healed, go and spend time with your family," - Ram Dass
2025-09-02 22:05:23
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Corinna 코리나 :
Because everyone still assumes the old version of you and treats you accordingly. Especially when none of them have done the work. This is why choosing our environments is so important 🫠
2025-09-02 22:03:56
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Natalia :
That’s where me AND my patterns were born baby
2025-09-02 21:30:27
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lintoksaboutit :
YES no one talks about this enough. Holidays with my family take me right back to being small, scared and isolated. Or desperate to be understood
2025-09-02 22:07:12
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Clare Webb 🍉 :
imagine having to MOVE HOME as an adult 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲
2025-09-02 21:30:59
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Hollis :
Me at thirty leaving the table at lunch to cry in the bathroom bc of something my grandma said lol
2025-09-02 22:24:55
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madisonteresaaa :
I lose all emotional control so fast
2025-09-02 23:20:17
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MexiJoy :
Because you’ve done the work but they haven’t, it ropes you into the dynamics because it’s their norm
2025-09-03 01:43:44
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Lauren :
Heavy on “BECAUSE I’m talking to my MOTHER” 🙃
2025-09-02 22:08:46
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Reverend DotComMyLife🇲🇽 :
That usually happens when no one else does the work/go to therapy and they’re still unhealed.
2025-09-02 21:44:42
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alleystef | dds :
And the retroactive guilt of feeling like they deserve the improved version of you but you keep reverting 🫶
2025-09-02 22:13:47
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Mia :
My therapist told me that the reason you act a certain way with your parents ONLY is because THEY put that there.
2025-09-02 21:55:39
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Kay. :
I feel like we often revert back because our family still treats us like that 15 year old girl, so we react accordingly.
2025-09-04 17:20:34
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vera_sl8te :
Thanks for posting this I also spent Labor Day weekend w my parents
2025-09-02 21:54:22
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Ciara :
I’m 17 again when I’m with my mom. I’m a BRAT
2025-09-02 21:57:18
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Danielle :
Yep, it’s like - what have I learned lol.
2025-09-02 21:27:19
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tracyanncat :
“It’s because I’m talking with MY MOTHER” hit, I turn into a whiny frantic teen
2025-09-02 21:53:24
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Vanessa Parra :
41 and despite a lot of time in therapy the minute I am back in Miami I am riiiiiight back at St Theresa 😭😭😭
2025-09-02 22:11:08
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Hairypits69 :
It’s like I can feel it happen but it’s so hard to stop it no matter what. Especially with siblings idk.
2025-09-02 22:40:58
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meg :
When therapy is really working you have a moment where you feel worse and wonder why you started 😂
2025-09-02 21:44:06
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chioma :
Been abroad for three whole years and when I went back for new years I genuinely reverted back to someone I hardly even recognise anymore
2025-09-02 22:30:28
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Light Love & Cusswords :
It is truly wild. I feel like the hurt, unhealed, scared, people pleasing version of myself takes the wheel.
2025-09-02 22:37:41
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megan :
I’ve been spending some time in my hometown and the ANGST I’ve been feeling. It’s humbling to see these parts I thought I’d outgrown, but I guess at least I don’t have acne and braces this time around
2025-09-02 23:54:18
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