@debrakostiw: Surviving Sundowning: Strategies to Protect Your Loved One (and Yourself) Dear Caregiver, Here are some Sundowning survival strategies you desperately need. Survival Strategies for Sundowning: Create a Consistent Evening Routine Maintain soft, consistent lighting Reduce noise and stimulation Start winding down early Use calming music or familiar sounds Manage Environmental Triggers Minimize shadows Keep rooms well-lit Reduce potential sources of confusion Create a calm, familiar space Remove complex visual stimuli Emotional Survival for YOU The most critical part of managing sundowning is taking care of yourself: Accept that you cannot "fix" sundowning Practice extreme patience Protect your own mental health Seek support from others who understand Remember: Your emotional state directly impacts your Loved One Critical Warning Signs to Watch: Increased restlessness before sunset Sudden mood changes Heightened anxiety Resistance to direction Increased confusion When to Seek Additional Help: Behaviors become consistently unmanageable You feel overwhelmed or unsafe Your loved one shows signs of extreme distress Every night, thousands of caregivers are fighting this same battle. Your exhaustion is real. Your struggle is valid. This journey is NOT easy. But you are stronger than you know. Sending you strength, compassion, and understanding, Debra Dementia World Renowned Behavior Expert P.S. Remember: Your love matters more than perfect caregiving. Be kind to yourself. You deserve to have the skills to create beautiful memories with your loved one. Join us for the Certified Master Dementia Strategist course. To see of you qualify, book a free call- Book A Call: Www.answersaboutalz.org #categiver #caregiving #alzheimer #dementia #alzheimers
Debra Kostiw Dementia
Region: US
Wednesday 03 September 2025 20:55:33 GMT
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Dezy🌙🧿🔮🌻 :
I truly believe that they are seeing something real and we're the ones blocked, dementia just bulldozed the walls
2025-10-20 00:47:44
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Michelle Kentucky Girl Wilson :
my mom's hallucinations are that there are women hiding in trees waiting to hump my dad and take him away from her .it's funny but not funny.
2025-11-10 23:19:16
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Helium Girl :
plot twist...she is seeing a spirit of a mailman
2025-09-03 21:56:45
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Nancy Kelley Jurczak :
I had a patient said she saw monkeys jumping from tree to tree we went with it
2025-09-04 02:11:04
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Meaig Pye (Magpie) :
I found out that sometimes hallucinations are symptoms of a UTI. Can be a good idea to get that ruled out.
2025-09-07 20:56:11
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Leonie :
I just lost my 83year Mother of alzheimers, I was her carer for 4years, she doesn't knew me anymore, it's a sad sickness
2025-09-04 20:47:33
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Tina Marie :
My Mom would do this and scream or get violent I was my Moms caregiver she passed away from her dementia July 2nd I miss her so much
2025-09-03 23:16:53
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C Franklin :
Thank you so much for the tools to help with dementia and sundowning. I didn’t know how to cope with these situations.
2025-09-04 05:10:25
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Hank :
Follow-up question: How do you respond when mom gets anxious because the police have not come?
2025-09-04 04:19:43
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Alson❌ :
I work in home health and share your tiktok with all my employees
2025-09-03 23:36:49
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MarthaG :
My dad does that I just go along with what he sees 😂❤️
2025-09-05 20:12:27
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Muhammad Jilani :
we are dealing with the same situation with my dad. He is 82 and healthy by the grace of Almighty but this dementia is just a horrible disease.😔😔
2025-10-27 06:31:15
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Jackie Schwager :
I take care of my aunt that has dementia which refuses to go and get help or take the meds. She thinks somebody comes in the house in the middle of the night and stealing stuff any helpful pointers you can give me.
2025-09-04 00:15:10
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Jody4ever :
Absolutely love how you handled this ❤️❤️perfect 👌
2025-09-03 21:29:19
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MommaMack20 :
I love how you handled that!!! Good Job
2025-09-05 02:22:56
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raymiejane :
Great content! Experiencing this and I usually end up with a pocket full of stuff. ♥️
2025-09-03 21:45:55
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Daniel :
As a mailman, she sees a past mailman
2025-10-21 02:17:50
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August Leonardo :
I will try this but we were always taught not to play along but to re orient them to bring them back to reality
2025-09-05 00:45:50
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Peggy A Hartwig-Payn :
I’m 64 and been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s Early stage and I’ve been placed on medication that seems to help. I’m afraid of what my future will look like and how quickly I will end up a hot mess is my future is bleak as I think it is?
2025-09-09 13:03:17
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prae :
I was doing this at 12 with my dad’s mom n didn’t know what I was doing. Back then people didn’t talk bout old people losing their mind . I’ve also seen some try n argue with demented people, trying to tell em🙏
2025-09-03 21:42:55
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Nanalovespeanut1 :
What do you. When they will not do what you are asking them to do mind gets mean always trying to hit me
2025-09-03 23:00:55
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Judy Throm Bufkin :
How do you do it? I already told my husband if this happens to him...I can NOT handle it. I can do surgery, bed pans, sutures and removal, all kinds of labs, remove casts...I just can't do this. God bless you and Mom.
2025-09-06 18:16:10
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KB :
My mom does that
2025-09-05 10:15:06
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Maureen Thomas :
Mom is halarous
2025-09-03 22:02:06
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Laurie Kane-Benenati :
💯I do this all the time 😂… God bless her❤️
2025-09-04 22:56:02
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