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V <3 | X-ray Student 🩻 :
i just crashed out every day for like 4 months and then moved out near him lmfao we did see each other like once a month tho, he lives near my home town so i’d make the trip back once a month to see him, my dad and my friends
2025-09-04 15:34:49
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Tina :
All of these are great but also find a hobby and invest energy into yourself.
2025-09-04 17:19:28
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robinstinson69 :
i haven’t heard of flamme before.. does the distance widget work? personally i survived ldr by filling my own calendar: new job, gym every day, picked up hobbies, even sewing lol. made me way less dependent on his replies.i haven’t heard of flamme before.. does the distance widget work? personally i survived ldr by filling my own calendar: new job, gym every day, picked up hobbies, even sewing lol. made me way less dependent on his replies
2025-09-04 10:40:44
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⧼🩵⧽﹒ kaji ﹒⟢ :
literally i cry all the time because of it, i just want to know like what ur up to and what ur doing but i dont think they understand :’)
2025-09-04 16:34:14
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astro / spencer :
im not sure. we live together now. we just were in constant contact. calls 24/7 + games.
2025-09-04 10:54:40
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☆ danielle ☆ :
my boyf is in australia and im in florida! we try to dedicate the overlapping times for each other by planning dates to do tg, play games tg, or watch a show — don’t forget to prioritize your own life too since your partner is doing it as well, the distance anxiety is like no other i know ): but in reality it’s just a regular relationship with some land in between. i treat it how id treat any normal distance relationship , asking for reassurance is okay, missing them is okay, waiting for them to wake up to reply is okay — all in moderation girl it’ll be ok🥰🥰
2025-09-04 16:57:14
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McKay :
We aren’t as far from each other from most we are only two states a way, but if y’all aren’t country’s away try taking a bus, I use grey hound and it’s 100$ max every time, and I usually go for a week or week and a half to make that 100$ worth it, it may seem like a long ride but it’ll all be worth it when you get to see them, do movie nights where you watch the same series or movies and you can talk about it together, send eachother gifts and watch eachother open them the excitement on their face is worth it
2025-09-04 11:19:54
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defnotinthenavy :
i just spiral and keep it hidden.
2025-09-04 21:55:30
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haley! 🫶🏼 :
find my independence and trust my partner it’s not an easy life, but one worth enduring for the person i love. -navy wife
2025-09-04 13:39:41
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flwr.bd :
i’ll be fr if you don’t feel so secure with this person your either express that and if you don’t feel listened to or respected after u express it then you really should leave. you should trust and feel okay and sometimes when you realize you aren’t feeling so comfortable then you need to do the inner work. you need to force yourself to know you can be alone and without them. i succeeded in my LDR of 3 years and we still are going. face time was our thing but we would watch insta videos we send to one another together. or watch a show we like together.
2025-09-04 10:50:41
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akumu_gin :
I used to just sit in a discord call when we were both free. often one or both of us would mute, but it was nice being in the same space.
2025-09-05 10:12:33
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yos :
Do something that doesn’t force conversations. Like playing games or watching movies, it starts conversation that you wouldn’t need to think about and it’s just you two.
2025-09-05 04:21:12
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Sidney :
Planing dates that we can do over the phone, playing games, remember you don’t always have to be in contact 24/7 that way when you guys do talk the convos are good, live your own life understand they have there’s too, plan when you’ll see each other next so you have something to look forward too and aren’t waiting or unsure, LOTS of trust, when u have issues communicate throughly.
2025-09-04 14:31:33
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MegaCraz_75 :
for me an my spouse it was more of building trust and communication then anything else, talking about our life, who we know an other things and we always told one another where we were going, who we were with an how long it would take...an we just offered emotional and mental support and tried to find the right time to call or ft. 5 years an we've met once every year an tried to keep up with that. but now if there's jobs we discuss the month an or what holidays work so we can spend time together..especially if we need to vent or just ramble about something, we call. we also keep our independence an still have our own social life, it's just a matter of what you've talked about an everything how you can keep the connection an what you both want in the relationship.
2025-09-04 15:58:36
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Possum Pete :
Do stuff and hobbies for you. That instantly becomes something to talk about, but then you’re also not centering your life around a man… you do you girl and the rest will fall into place
2025-09-05 10:57:50
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Aquarian_Rising :
discord is my best friend in a ldr. we sleep on call every night. we screen share various things like movies, shows, games we play, what we call our "social media time". random photos of things throughout the day help me feel like I'm there. when on face time try not to fill the silence, just be in their presence. not every moment has to be a deep convo. if you're craving intimacy, express that and figure out what fills that need for both of you. I recommend "couples app". it's super cute with mood updates, a cat and little bonsai to care for, games, diary questions, etc. tbh, it sounds like reassurance needs to be amped up to max for a little while. That tends to really help us overthinking girlies. with time it gets easier. focus on filling your cup. don't put your life on hold. go out and do hobbies, learn things, that way you'll have a bunch of random pics to send them and things to talk about on FT 😊
2025-09-04 12:28:21
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jordanmayo0419 :
Play iMessages games on ft together or play video games together it gives you something to talk about and yall are spending time together
2025-09-04 12:31:43
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Rikky L. :
When I first went into a long distance relationship with my now husband. I watched a lot of TikTok’s and they mostly said, if you have a target date to when you finally can be together forever, think about that. When I’m overthinking, I think about how I’m never going to see him and then I think wait, 2027 is not that far. FT, if you don’t have anything to talk about, don’t text everything wait until you get talk on the phone, my husband and I play Uno sometimes, sometimes we’ll ask questions that we find on TikTok or Instagram. Sometimes we’ll just scroll on our phones while we’re still FaceTiming. My husband is on deployment rn and we’re having problems video chatting bc of the connection, but all we can do is be patient. During the times you can talk, try to find something to do, I work extra hours to save up for when we do move in together, I try to get into new hobbies, we even made a tiktok couples page and I’ll just edit the videos and pictures we do have of each other and post them, not really for likes, but something to look at when I miss him a lot. We’re both overthinkers but we reassure each other, we pray, and we look at that target date, because it went from 2 1/2 years to 1 year and 4 months. You got this queen!!! An extra tip is for both of you to send voice notes or videos/pictures so yall can hear each others voice, see them in those videos as if you’re with them. And care packages!! I can’t afford them all the time but when I do, I’ll send anything that smells like me or his favorite snacks, etc. he sends me his clothes because I love his smell😂
2025-09-05 03:43:10
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frankie <3 :
find a hobby? spend time on yourself and learn to enjoy the distance, as much as it sucks. find things to do together, plan little date nights, long distance is work and both parties need to be willing
2025-09-05 02:13:32
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sarah :
Learn to communicate about your daily day. Go throughout the day sharing tidbits randomly, but not expecting one in return. Create your nightly conversation throughout the day via text pictures. Work, car, road. Anything really. Share your life
2025-09-05 01:39:37
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Ajahnae Jones :
Knowing that the distance makes our love grow fonder and my one way plane ticket back to him 😭 Counting down the days every day
2025-09-05 01:36:20
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stephelococcues :
so lowkey you kinda get used to it and i learned that his independence ≠ abandonment, learning that helped a lot
2025-09-04 23:28:19
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charitybh :
We didn’t 😭 just FaceTimed 24/7 even at work and going to sleep until eventually we just moved in together after 4 months
2025-09-04 12:46:00
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Caity bug🌻 :
Me and my boyfriend played video games together and watched movies as well, discord is an amazing tool for long distance relationships. We did it for 4 years 2k miles apart and we’ve been living together finally for a full year! You got this girl
2025-09-04 18:59:50
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Stinky :
Because we have open communication and I trust him. We talk openly about EVERYTHING. No subject is off the table. We never run out of things to talk about and we always make time to call eachother even if it's just for a few minutes a day to say goodnight or just talk about our day.
2025-09-04 18:07:24
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maddie :
me and my bf call all the time and watch movies and shows and play games together. it makes it less difficult definitely !!
2025-09-04 18:04:36
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♡ :
honestly tbh knowing the next time you’ll see eachother makes it better, you should try to connect more so you can have things to talk about otp bc hearing their voice is so nice. i understand the money part maybe both planning a trip in the middle so it’s not as expensive? i could tell you it gets better but it don’t lol some days you feel calm other days you miss them so much. but connecting is veryyy important since you guys can’t just drive to eachother if you want
2025-09-04 12:50:00
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kaylen 🍀 :
Plan intentional online dates. You can find tons of ideas online, but it helps to have a plan if there’s not much to discuss on call!
2025-09-04 12:55:03
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That_Artist_NextDoor :
We play games together or sometimes he’ll stream his game and I’ll stream my art and we’ll either talk or sit in our own silence (mostly talk cause I don’t shut up lol) and when the dates aligne I’ll drive to him even tho it’s a long drive it’s worth it even if it’s just for the day. We’ve been dating for almost 2 years. I get stressed out a lot because I always miss him but pushing through is worth it cause some
2025-09-04 16:34:24
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Lexi 🫧 :
I miss my boyfriend I want him to come home and it doesn’t help that the birth control I just started is not regulating my hormones so I’m absolutely stressing him out a lot and I don’t know what to do😢
2025-09-05 10:48:23
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Mar 🌟 :
plan scheduled online dates (my boy and I aren’t long distance but do Saturday’s as our date day), get bond touch bracelets, prioritize calls over texting, and put energy and time into yourself. Maybe go to therapy and talk out the feelings 💜
2025-09-05 15:20:49
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traitorjos_ :
go out and do things so you have things to discuss, just call once a day
2025-09-05 17:57:44
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feefifofumfatfuckingchum :
yeah uhm dw i am going crazy
2025-09-06 12:10:13
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