@dontgobroketrying: This is long but good! Is she the asshole for being upset with her boyfriend for not giving her money? TLDR; She paid their rent and bills, draining her savings & going into debt while her boyfriend couldn't contribute. He gets $90,000 from a settlement yet is angry about giving her $4000. Is she the asshole? Should she leave him? Maybe sue him? 🤭 Share your take below. Advice + our take on the full episode of @dontgobroketrying on all platforms you listen to podcasts! #dgbtpod #dontgobroketrying #redditreadings #aita

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jrubio03
jrubio03 :
That is not a relationship. She needs to dump him. You can tell he’s selfish and unappreciative for all the things that she did for him. And now that he has money, he’s probably gonna feel like the things shouldn’t change as far as all the money she’s putting into all the bills
2025-09-04 15:03:37
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angrywo1290
Fukrmama :
WWWHHHAAATTT???? When he got that money she should’ve been his first priority to pay what he agreed to…
2025-09-04 16:21:14
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shadowama
Annie :
Hmmmmm OP has been paying for everything for a while now since BF couldn’t work. Went completely through all of her savings and is in credit card debt. Her car is being held together by hopes and prayers. And only asked for $4000 out of $90000. Meanwhile BF gets a brand new car while still making payments on the first car and only gives his gf who has been providing for him for months a fourth of what he promised
2025-09-04 14:39:42
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mina_moreno924
Mina_Moreno924 :
OP needs to run. She is just this guy's stepping stone and he has stepped ALL over her. This is not a partnership at all. The fact his parents took care of her car and he seemed to take credit for it(backing out of giving her money as is HE got it fixed and not his parents)is simply embarrassing and very telling that he is definitely going to not just be selfish but he is going to be further financially abusive than he already has been. His parents are definitely embarrassed. That's the only logical reason they got her car fixed bc they know what she's done for their deadbeat son.
2025-09-04 16:00:48
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sledgetyra
Tyra Sledge :
Listen it's his money like your money is your money he's not for real about you just move on
2025-09-05 17:13:25
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bilonabell
ms.b61 :
he's not worth your time
2025-09-04 23:41:59
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saraharaujo6984
Sarah Joy :
He’s the asshole. She shouldn’t have even had to ask.
2025-09-09 14:55:31
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fuscammers
Sam2660 :
Girl common. you know he is NOT the one for you!. He watched you pay everything he ate your food he had no issues when you footed the bill. Now he is showing you how he really feels about you. He don't care about your needs.
2025-09-06 13:13:11
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marirod562
Mari :
This poor woman has been gaslit into thinking she deserves this mediocre treatment 🥺
2025-09-09 15:54:20
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ciarahope1
ciarahope1 :
He should be paying half the rent and half the bills.
2025-10-04 14:40:18
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hunter4ever16
Hunter :
IDK. #1 Don't know what you paid. He should 100% give back what you spent that he would have paid. #2 What is money for? If he lost his ability to world same as before or future Medical, he needs to save. #3 Are you on route to marriage or just kicking it?
2025-10-03 21:32:15
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stephanielynn980
user3517534190917 :
Why?
2025-09-10 23:49:29
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evopixie
Andrea Cherry :
When my partner came into a waaaay smaller inheritance than that, I didn't even have to ask, he paid off my credit card debt for me no questions. I would do, and have done the same for him when he couldn't cover something he needed. When you're a couple, you support each other. You're in it together, and at the end of the day it benefits you both in the long run, and while she isn't entitled to his inheritance, the fact he didn't even consider keeping his word and return the help speaks volumes about where she stands.
2025-09-05 04:36:07
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waning_starlight
✨Crestfallen🌙 :
Hot take, don’t play house with someone you’re not married to
2025-09-04 15:11:21
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pluna00
Paola :
Doormat 10000
2025-09-05 02:57:01
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susanmcmu
susanmcmu :
You need to dump him. He is using you.
2025-09-10 19:47:38
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brie44567
Brea :
NTA! My boyfriend lent me a $1000 one time before we started our family. I paid him back and when he told me he needed help with his downpayment for his car I gave him $2000. Relationships are give and take but you can’t just take…
2025-09-04 15:58:32
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tracydarrhiebert
tracydarrhiebert :
Not the a$$hole but probably need to figure out these type of people before sharing your funds.
2025-09-04 14:33:21
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grannywith6grands
Living my next life :
New tires with bad break and engine problems 🤔? Ntah
2025-09-05 04:45:34
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just_balancingbrit
Brittany O :
This relationship should be over. He should of offered way more. She shouldn't have had to even ask and then he can't even give her a measly 4k knowing the car is hanging on faith and she has debt due to covering it all. Like she wanted that money to help make herself whole and even if she didn't well damn. Very selfish man.
2025-09-08 09:45:05
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oaklandmademedoit1
oaklandmademedoit1 :
He used her. She is a fool by choice. hand him a statement for his 1/2 of the bills that she covered while he was sick. He does not like or respect her. She is a doormat and allowing it.
2025-09-10 23:15:57
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claire123579
Marie :
You sacrificed for him during his time of need. You were completely reasonable in your negotiation with him. He could not fulfill his known agreement with you. Kick him to the curb! If he cannot see that you are a great partner now, he will never see it.
2025-09-05 00:23:01
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audreyc532
AudreyC :
Just leave him...he's selfish and showing his true colors. Honestly he should have paid your debt & fixed your car since you been carrying everything for a while.
2025-09-25 17:55:43
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