@micahbensont: It’s so easy to get into an unhealthy cycle of CONTROL. Here’s a story time of how I identified that control and chose to make better decisions moving forward. Hope this helps 🫂❤️ #coparenting #singlemom #singlemomlife #fyp

Micah Benson, MBA
Micah Benson, MBA
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Thursday 04 September 2025 16:20:42 GMT
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msyannique
MsYannique :
Most men in this situation give bare minimum. Are you suggesting that single women should accept bare minimum just to seem cooperative?
2025-09-04 22:28:48
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coydidit
coydidit :
Baby, he would’ve got full custody!! 😬
2025-09-04 16:43:54
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justinmayer38
Justin Mayer91 :
My ex told my son if he seen me he’s grounded and now that he’s gonna be a teen if he comes and sees me, she won’t support him in anyway it’s pure evil to take a child from their father who loves them
2025-09-11 03:18:30
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itllcome2you
Kese 🏹 :
I want to send this to her but that will come with price I do not want to pay.
2025-09-05 20:51:07
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gingerblack777
Ginger Spice 👩🏽‍🦰 :
Yeah I’m not in this situation but ima be honest your crash out was valid…. I think this is what we call toxic positivity.
2025-09-04 20:47:06
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amourdestinyy
Des :
Weaponizing the children when he watched yall be put out? HE DIDNT CARE ABOUT HER WELL BEING WTH. Regardless of if you put yall self in that situation or not she’s both of yall child. This is extremely hard to listen to. You definitely could have spoke to him in a more respectful way but it was nothing wrong with telling him he was wrong and holding him accountable. If he loved her she wouldn’t have been facing eviction with YOU. You’re not his responsibility but SHE IS. This is so disgusting
2025-09-05 01:21:18
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ydotkay
Ydotk :
You know how hard it is to explain this to a person 😭
2025-09-04 19:46:40
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anatoliakutyowa
popi :
You are beautiful 😻
2025-09-11 00:32:46
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chefhammer
cHEF HaMMeR :
LMAO THE LAST TWO COMMENTS 😩😩😂😂😂
2025-09-05 09:13:02
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godstares
Dat God :
The amount of growth you have to do to realize this and admit you were wrong. congratulations sis
2025-09-05 11:49:59
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officialshenikarenee
Shenika Renee :
I love love love your vulnerability and transparency ✨
2025-09-04 17:45:36
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theejdara
theeJAZZ show. :
This one was a hard one to watch. I believe they want to be in their kids life but at their own standards which is spending little time and providing a little bit of money. Which is selfish , and we shouldn’t have to groom ourselves to take anything because we then raise kids that continue the cycle. My child’s father made a comment that they don’t make women like his mom no more. His mom took on the entire financial responsibility for him while his dad did nothing and she would just drop him off w/ his dad or grandma and dad got to do what he wanted. Is this the cycle we want to continue ?
2025-09-05 12:47:34
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ashrivera014
ashrivera3 :
But he bought a car and couldn’t help yall prevent the eviction process ???
2025-09-04 20:59:32
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mommy.lee25
Aleshia Washington :
Y’all that are dropping negative stories about your bd experience or saying “but” ain’t listening. If this don’t apply to your situation clearly let it fly. Lord some folks just listen to respond and it’s scary. 🥴
2025-09-05 16:31:28
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summar_knox
Summar Knox :
Yes! This is also where people split up because you’re giving that man a hard time based on the dad you either had, the one you seen on tv, or the one you made up in your head!
2025-09-04 20:41:33
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shayyymarsh
Shay 🦥 :
I think we also need to normalize not having babies with the wrong men. Sometimes they play you, but a lot of the time, they show exactly who they are. We just put blinders on and choose not to believe them. People need to stop having children like they’re toys with no feelings.
2025-09-05 12:59:11
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iamlola96
Lola :
I don’t tolerate inconsistency but I do let him be the father without hovering. I agree let dads be dads. As long as they aren’t harming them kids in any way, let em do their thing!!!!
2025-09-04 23:02:32
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mwahhmorgan
mwahhmorgan :
What’s an example of “defining what his presence look like?” Because my kids dad wants to pick up and drop off whenever he feels like it, wont commit to a schedule, does not communicate effectively so that drop off and pick up doesn’t interfere with my plans. I don’t think I should have to accept that kind of behavior just for the sake of his “valuable” presence.
2025-09-04 17:52:20
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graffilocs
Mambo Awasum-Henry :
Your child’s father was selfish. You had every right to be mad. He didn’t seem like a quality man. I’m not bitter, I’m just married to a quality man. His selfishness is probably why you’re doing better than him now.
2025-09-05 15:10:25
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missknight28
Missknight :
My bd want to take our son and raise him with his wife. Act like happy family. Tell ppl im db mom
2025-09-04 21:38:14
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bigboogiekt
bigboogiekt :
She said she got evicted and had to move in with her mom they jones him for being evicted like he supposed to pay her bills. She’s an adult they were broken up. AND it was in her name. She could have exchanged the daughter and got herself together but they blame him
2025-09-05 20:07:52
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astro_x_ent
Astr🥁🎹 :
thank you for being real with your situation, I admire the fact that you've grown through your own experience and shared your growth with us. Many of us could learn from this and move forward with more grace, but some comments only wish to judge rather than overstand! 🥂
2025-09-09 11:32:44
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leahvittomomma
leahvittomomma :
As a step mom, thank you!!!!💞
2025-09-04 20:17:33
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kay.kai892
Kay & Kai ❣️ :
Fixed your own bitterness 👏🏾. The kids relationship w the father is between them two. I now stay in my place & play only my role as a mom❣️
2025-09-05 08:17:20
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