@girlthepoet: #creatorsearchinsights Letting go of an avoidant ex feels impossible because the love is still there but holding on to someone who keeps pulling away keeps you stuck in heartbreak healing starts when you choose yourself and learn how to release the avoidant attachment so you can finally move forward #avoidant #avoidantattachmentstyle #fyp #datingadviceforwomen
I love him, but I realize I feel better and calm without him. sadly
2025-09-04 22:26:00
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Soup :
"Don't make me choose between you and me, because if choosing you destroys me, I will always choose me. If you wouldn't stand beside me why should I stand behind you?" quote by unknown
2025-09-04 19:01:02
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riverasai :
Hardest decision I ever made but the best one I ever made
2026-06-04 17:01:44
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Llanita✨ :
My nervous system calms when he’s gone. 💔
2025-09-06 09:41:20
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MaYa👸🏽 :
That's where I'm at...
2025-09-04 16:45:15
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bbrriiittt :
“I’d rather hurt for a few months than spend the rest of my life feeling like this “
2025-09-14 17:27:17
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WannabeFunny :
Thank you for making this TikTok. I think it may be the most important TikTok I’ve ever seen. It gave me the exact words I need to probably end a 10 year marriage that is now bad for me.
2025-10-16 17:08:21
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esthers.fav.daughter :
I just knew that there was no way that this was going to be my life story…I was disgusted by the end
2025-09-05 11:53:23
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MariaMurgueitioBrown :
I wanted to be with this person so much but his hot and cold treatment was driving me insane. I chose inner peace and removed myself.
2025-09-06 11:31:19
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Zainab :
I realized he my ex avoidant would choose himself every single time durning the relationship. It gave me the answer I needed that I couldn’t accept before. It led me to finally choosing my self ✨
2025-09-16 21:29:49
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Janet Tigers Eye Hen :
I need to choose me....but it's so hard
2025-09-04 22:00:53
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Love :
day 16 of no contact .
after 8 yrs.
2025-09-05 20:39:25
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Graceschild_ :
Never underestimate the love I have for myself, because it could cost you, the love I have for you.
2025-09-06 05:52:55
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Michelle Wolfe :
Yep. When you realize you’re signing up for a relationship where love itself is triggering… and that means withholding. no thanks.
2025-09-06 01:07:33
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Heidi :
Twelve days separated. I finally chose myself.
2025-09-04 22:03:46
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Melanie W :
I explained it as some level of hell between friendship and wife...
no thank you
2025-09-05 02:03:11
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🪸🐠Emily 🪸🐠 :
after three years, I finally let go. I couldn’t do it anymore the constant ghosting, the lack of consistency and the increase of disrespect.
2025-09-05 21:47:12
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Shazmin :
They always circle back. I always choose me
2025-09-04 22:45:27
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Jimberly😈 :
Did you become avoidant in some ways as a result of dealing with an avoidant?
2025-09-05 00:41:01
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shrieking violet :
Four months since we last saw eachother/the discard. A month and a half since his last reach out. tried to reach out three times before that too. Ignored them all. I love them deeply but I choose myself.
2025-09-04 19:15:21
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Otro coco loco :
It feel like a life sentence.
2025-09-05 15:12:49
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J R Wells :
Always choose you especially if they don't want to get therapy and secure their attachment. Nobody worth losing your mind over.
2025-09-05 19:51:28
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Roxy Price :
When he finds out you’ve moved on he’ll try and hoover you back, block
2025-09-05 16:18:25
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Jo 🌊 :
I left kicking and screaming and it’s dragging me down every day almost two months in but damn that bridge can BURN
2025-09-05 00:43:54
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NOYOLLO XIQUITTA 🖤 :
He can stay with “she is just a friend” go with your gut! She ain’t just a friend if you haven’t met her…
2025-09-04 23:23:39
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