@girlthepoet: #creatorsearchinsights Letting go of an avoidant ex feels impossible because the love is still there but holding on to someone who keeps pulling away keeps you stuck in heartbreak healing starts when you choose yourself and learn how to release the avoidant attachment so you can finally move forward #avoidant #avoidantattachmentstyle #fyp #datingadviceforwomen

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nilgun00nil
Nil :
I love him, but I realize I feel better and calm without him. sadly
2025-09-04 22:26:00
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icecreamsoup96
Soup :
"Don't make me choose between you and me, because if choosing you destroys me, I will always choose me. If you wouldn't stand beside me why should I stand behind you?" quote by unknown
2025-09-04 19:01:02
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riverasai
riverasai :
Hardest decision I ever made but the best one I ever made
2026-06-04 17:01:44
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littlebluebutterflybabe
Llanita✨ :
My nervous system calms when he’s gone. 💔
2025-09-06 09:41:20
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mayatee05
MaYa👸🏽 :
That's where I'm at...
2025-09-04 16:45:15
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bbrriiittt
bbrriiittt :
“I’d rather hurt for a few months than spend the rest of my life feeling like this “
2025-09-14 17:27:17
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midjokes
WannabeFunny :
Thank you for making this TikTok. I think it may be the most important TikTok I’ve ever seen. It gave me the exact words I need to probably end a 10 year marriage that is now bad for me.
2025-10-16 17:08:21
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esthers.fav.daughter
esthers.fav.daughter :
I just knew that there was no way that this was going to be my life story…I was disgusted by the end
2025-09-05 11:53:23
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mariamurgueitio_
MariaMurgueitioBrown :
I wanted to be with this person so much but his hot and cold treatment was driving me insane. I chose inner peace and removed myself.
2025-09-06 11:31:19
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bblackparadise
Zainab :
I realized he my ex avoidant would choose himself every single time durning the relationship. It gave me the answer I needed that I couldn’t accept before. It led me to finally choosing my self ✨
2025-09-16 21:29:49
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janettigerseyehen
Janet Tigers Eye Hen :
I need to choose me....but it's so hard
2025-09-04 22:00:53
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msloveesmith
Love :
day 16 of no contact . after 8 yrs.
2025-09-05 20:39:25
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graceschild_
Graceschild_ :
Never underestimate the love I have for myself, because it could cost you, the love I have for you.
2025-09-06 05:52:55
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michelle.wolfe
Michelle Wolfe :
Yep. When you realize you’re signing up for a relationship where love itself is triggering… and that means withholding. no thanks.
2025-09-06 01:07:33
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mummrie
Heidi :
Twelve days separated. I finally chose myself.
2025-09-04 22:03:46
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alwaysthemamabear
Melanie W :
I explained it as some level of hell between friendship and wife... no thank you
2025-09-05 02:03:11
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thedesertcoralreefer_365
🪸🐠Emily 🪸🐠 :
after three years, I finally let go. I couldn’t do it anymore the constant ghosting, the lack of consistency and the increase of disrespect.
2025-09-05 21:47:12
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shazminactually
Shazmin :
They always circle back. I always choose me
2025-09-04 22:45:27
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wayofthecat1
Jimberly😈 :
Did you become avoidant in some ways as a result of dealing with an avoidant?
2025-09-05 00:41:01
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theshriekingviolet
shrieking violet :
Four months since we last saw eachother/the discard. A month and a half since his last reach out. tried to reach out three times before that too. Ignored them all. I love them deeply but I choose myself.
2025-09-04 19:15:21
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user740056795
Otro coco loco :
It feel like a life sentence.
2025-09-05 15:12:49
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larnellwellsjr
J R Wells :
Always choose you especially if they don't want to get therapy and secure their attachment. Nobody worth losing your mind over.
2025-09-05 19:51:28
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roxyypr1ce
Roxy Price :
When he finds out you’ve moved on he’ll try and hoover you back, block
2025-09-05 16:18:25
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jothewolf
Jo 🌊 :
I left kicking and screaming and it’s dragging me down every day almost two months in but damn that bridge can BURN
2025-09-05 00:43:54
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noyolloxiquita
NOYOLLO XIQUITTA 🖤 :
He can stay with “she is just a friend” go with your gut! She ain’t just a friend if you haven’t met her…
2025-09-04 23:23:39
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