@bayavoce: Being in love and being afraid to leave can feel almost identical. That’s the torment of relational ambivalence, the love is real, but so is the quiet pull away. It’s not about being indecisive or ungrateful, it’s your nervous system caught in the ache of “maybe.” The hardest relationships to navigate aren’t the toxic ones, they’re the almost ones. The kind-to-you, good-on-paper connections that still leave a part of you restless, aching for something unnamed. There’s no escaping pain here. The choice is never between pain and no pain, it’s between the pain that depletes you and the pain that grows you into the person you’re becoming. #relationships #healing #growth

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user9323150750493
Jacquie :
And the fear of knowing that most men out there are terrible so you'd likely be even more miserable with the next guy.
2025-09-07 03:31:31
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malafeyra
Fey :
I can't even tell what's wrong
2025-09-05 14:54:02
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tinaplake
Tina Plake :
wow, hearing this, makes me not feel so crazy ❤️‍🩹
2025-09-05 14:46:08
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sallys.losing.it
Sally’s Losing It :
I feel like ADHD makes this extra difficult. You’ve chosen to commit to one person, one shared life, but my brain is always looking at what’s different, what’s novelty. I think it’d be easy to confuse that desire for novelty with the desire to leave.
2025-09-07 01:16:33
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sppep2025
SP :
So many times I feel now people post about leaving, giving up and never about fighting for giving your all…maybe if the relationship is ‘new’ but long relationships maybe involving kids etc, there is more to it and more to fight for. This is where social media is damaging, the algorithm terrorising peoples minds, especially the vulnerable. It’s part of life to go through rough times, it doesn’t warrant just giving up. You fight for it, work for it, and give it a hell of a go because sometimes it’s not always just about you. People change no doubt, but that doesn’t mean you need to leave and find someone else. Some partners in this situation don’t get the chance respond especially if communication is flawed. You’ll have some have there mind already made up, because they now feel validated by social media algorithms that what they are th8nking is the only option. Very sad
2025-09-05 00:43:43
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fishkinout
HM :
"Soul exhaustion" yeah that sounds about right
2025-09-07 02:06:25
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nsymone17
Nina-Symone :
This just validated me.
2025-09-05 21:05:37
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liz.like.lizard
liz.like.lizard :
PMDD makes this a different type of hard
2025-09-05 17:13:30
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misslizzyliz2u
Lizzzzabeta🤭 :
This is something most women go through
2025-09-06 00:58:50
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apples_and_mangos
Applesandmangos :
The book Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay is all about this and helps you make a decision
2025-09-06 09:04:17
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exhaustedbutevolving
Exhausted :
What if you’re avoidant tho 😩
2025-09-04 20:51:23
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paulasavage8
Paula Savage :
OMG I needed to hear that!
2025-09-04 21:56:53
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mihalis_starakis
Μιχαλης Σταρακης :
it was like someone was in my head knowing everything that is happening and all the emotions i am feeling.
2025-09-05 01:28:52
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veenarajee
ReleasebyVR |Trauma Healing :
It’s also a lack of inner fulfilment no partner can offer. It’s an inside job.
2025-09-07 15:36:20
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stormiemouse
Feny :
I think i just dealt with this.. he was amazing. he was perfect. but something wasn't right
2025-09-07 02:39:40
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mangoskajeb
mangoskajeb :
She is right - but please for everyone keep the nuances. Anxiety, doubt and fear does often co-exist in every deep, loving and important relationship. So for all OCD, anxiety or avoident-anxious attachment styles - this is does not appear to you unless you generally aren’t deeply satisfied with most of your needs with your partner.
2025-09-06 14:08:01
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reality.check549
Reality check :
My situation currently🥺
2025-09-05 18:23:38
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eti.1912
eti :
( i'm scared to leave )
2025-09-06 21:57:34
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savvyshannara
good as it gets :
Ask yourself if you won the lottery would you stay??
2025-09-06 06:51:42
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iamerineec
Ms Pisces♓️💜 :
it's clearly avoidance
2025-09-05 00:15:39
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lbaez68
lbaez68 :
I commenting to see more of this.
2025-09-05 17:00:02
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userfirebluesupporter
fireman :
omg I'm going through this right now.
2025-09-06 04:48:31
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chellychell33
Chellychell :
Yea but I got kids and my kids love their dad and family is bigger then just me. Like you either way there is pain. So I choose my kids happiness.
2025-09-05 20:51:32
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vulpesanimus
Dimka Sonechko :
That is why it is important to accept your loved one as he is with his pros and cons, since we all have our pros and cons and so do any other people around us ⭐ Therefore, if we change one person for another, we will move from one problem that may be with him to another 💡 However, the great power of love is the ability and ability to go through difficulties together, difficulties will always appear in a person's life, and the ability to go through them together as a team with love and mutual understanding is really what can significantly improve your life and make it more complete, strengthen your connection with each other and take your love to a new level ❤️Love each other, appreciate each other and accept each other as you are, and at the same time develop together and move forward in your beautiful life🤗🥰
2025-09-05 14:26:04
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savpower111
Sav :
Silent repost 😭😭 2 days into broken up. This is a pattern I must heal ✨
2025-09-05 13:03:04
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