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deeenerrz :
It got to the point that my body couldn’t process or tell if the break up was real anymore, because he would always fake discard :/
2025-09-04 23:23:16
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kwolsson :
Every time I brought up a concern he would suggest we take a break.
2025-09-06 14:11:07
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spicybabe :
Girl it’s been 9 months he’s definitely not coming back
2025-09-05 07:59:18
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laexistentialzellie :
he did the fake discard so many times. then the final real one last year. I just couldn't get myself to leave after all the fake ones and I should have.
2025-09-06 20:00:32
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Beach622905 :
What I found is that you actually have to wean yourself off of the cycle sometimes.
2025-09-04 20:09:04
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Chibi :
12th discards of this year. I am really hoping this time its the final one and am strong enough to get away from the cycle.
2025-09-05 12:06:36
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lindsey :
Crazy how this is textbook
2025-09-05 03:53:15
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Kasi Rojas :
On God, I took that serious every single time and I never understood why he would be upset that I thought he was being serious every time he tried to end it
2025-09-05 01:28:06
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hiiiiii0000_ :
it's crazy to me we make videos about this instead of there being legal protection from these people
2025-09-09 09:49:42
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Stefania… :
Yes or they pull the we can always stay friends I want to have you in my life still… & then the next few days they switch up again and act like nothing ever happened like you are still in relationship with them. Ugh the worst feeling ever the anxiety be too real with this one.
2025-09-30 13:03:08
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alissa 🍄 :
when my narc ex ended it with me, i left and immediately blocked and went no contact 😂 my narc ex went crazyyyy but idc :)
2025-09-04 22:59:37
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Tay :
I feel like I did this to her. She’d cuss me out and scream and belittle me and I’d leave and a few days later I’d come back and say I’ll try to make the relationship better
2025-09-04 22:08:10
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Al3x :
Damn I just now realized that I’m a victim n I had a abuser
2025-09-25 15:22:27
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wldlvndr :
I think my ex was a narcissist but i actually broke up with him a few times because i was so over it but i didn’t actually want to break up i wanted him to change
2025-09-06 04:52:06
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passenger_princess666_ :
Yep, went through about four of those in two years. I found out later that he was cheating on me during those times.
2025-09-05 05:09:57
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PebbleBo🎐🍰 :
Bro stood by the door for 30 minutes all dramatic and then tried to come back three days later. It was like the third time in six months. 😩 I can laugh at it now but my god it is such a nerve system wreck.
2025-09-05 04:19:12
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Stephinitely Too Much :
He told me abusing me was “a hard habit to break,” and then he told me I had to be more consistent for him to stay. I had to be more consistent. That was when I was done.
2025-09-05 11:55:27
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user7132278116323 :
Yes, happened like clock work, it was such an exhausting cycle! My poor nervous system!
2025-09-06 13:17:54
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Kirstin :
Currently in my 3rd discard cycle with him. Him discarding me. Hopefully my last.
2025-09-05 14:29:59
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Iris 🎱 :
He does this to me all the time that I don’t even care anymore. It makes him go WILD
2025-09-05 23:38:10
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user157962971932 :
This part was the worst part.
2025-09-05 11:51:52
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Marelene5829 🎀✨ :
This made me sob 😞 I honestly felt like this but felt like I was going crazy . I felt like I was making this up myself. This is so spot on, it was always me crawling back begging when I just shouldve just left, now after I decided to go no contact and end it I feel so broken and confused
2025-09-12 19:41:56
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Kayla Mills :
I never knew this had a name! Thank you! I get told often they’re done and leaving and want a divorce and then the next day it’s like nothing happened.
2025-09-04 23:33:25
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Rosh :
omfg my ex did this. gave me an ultimatum, and when I didn't play along he broke up with me. And then the next day, pretended like it never happened. said he thought I broke up with him. Created chaos around him so I'd pity him and come back. Said he was arrested for distracted driving, was admitted to the hospital, would hurt himself if I didn't go see him, the cops confiscated his wallet and spent the night wandering at night. eventually he apologized and sent bouquets of flowers to win me back. Eventually finally took accountability and supported me the way I needed and stupidly I went back because I still loved him. Only for the relationship to get even worse. I went from weekly panic attacks to daily panic attacks. Couldn't sleep or eat. And 5 months later walked away on my own, in an extremely confused state of mind, to literally save my life. He'd say he loved chaos because he thrived in it...but reality was, he loved chaos because he created it. He loved control. And if control slipped, he was always the victim.
2025-09-05 13:48:59
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brandyhaleyy :
This!! and when they finally discard finally happened I didn’t know what to do, he finally discarded me after he found someone else
2025-09-05 19:34:03
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