@seira_music13: Having a ‘favorite person’ in BPD isn’t romantic. It’s a trap. 🖤 Everything in your world starts and ends with them – until it breaks. And then you break too. #bpdfavoriteperson #bpd #favoriteperson #MentalHealth #bpdtok
I'm at my best when I'm single .
no anxiety no fp.
I become the ice queen.
stuck in my emotional ice castle where no one can reach and hurt me.
sounds nice but its loveless and horrible
2025-09-08 06:51:31
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alwaysandforever_2025 :
It’s hard when the person is narcissistic for the person with BPD
2025-09-08 04:56:16
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nightsnow :
the worst part is feeling rage if my fp has another life beside me , and my will to live depend on this person
2025-09-06 10:04:28
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✨ JodieMarie ✨ :
This is so draining I wish I was normal 😩😩
2025-09-11 17:28:37
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andihbt :
I hate it so much
2025-09-10 10:13:12
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Ymke🍄 :
I genuinely thought being obsessed with someone was normal...
2025-10-03 01:46:34
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Axolotlsquadplays :
this is me ☹️they basicly control ur whole life without them even doing anything
2025-09-08 12:44:13
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katzifilth :
My favourite person left me at the start of this year, and that almost killed me. My family and friends had to babysit me for weeks, because I didn't trust myself nor did they trust me not check out of this life. The worst experience of my life, and that is saying something, as my life hasn't been too wonderful as a whole. You described it perfectly with how you feel like you lose yourself; I tried to describe it to everyone and used this exact same way of wording it, from how your whole self changes to fit that person, and once they are gone, you feel like you have to build yourself entirely back from scratch. I hope never to experience that again, and I don't wish that on anyone else either 🙏🏼
2025-09-08 09:39:49
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. :
My favorite person is my ex. I can't move on, BPD makes it even more difficult, I'm tired of fighting for years, Idk how long I can resist, but I'm soo tired
2025-10-05 08:52:51
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💀🦇Lee🦇💀 :
I am the favorite person and it is a lot of responsibility to take on, but I wouldn’t change it for the world.
2025-10-20 00:17:47
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Robyn (they/them) :
I don't have bpd but I'm a favorite person to someone with bpd. Is there anything I can do to help them. Are there some general does and don'ts?
2025-10-22 12:46:58
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JerzeyStyle :
I lost my favorite person 3 weeks ago. Everything you say here is exactly right. Struggling so bad RN.
2025-09-15 03:30:41
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Jeremy :
I done a thesis over this, FP is a hard loss 🗝🗝🗝
2025-09-25 11:29:55
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Steph :
My favorite person was my best friend for 12+ years. I think I lost her this past week bc of my spiraling and emotional dysregulation. I’m not okay.
2025-10-04 00:56:01
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lulito :
man i wish i was normal everything is so painful i wish i could have some peace but its like a constant war with myself
2025-10-07 06:10:50
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7kids :
yes it terrifying you are so afraid to loose that person all my actions reflects that.
He makes distance I run after and over give over love
Iknow I'm just too much .
So Hard to change I try to change bc that would make my anxiety go away .
2025-09-08 06:46:49
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IDidntVoteForHim :
This is why I can’t go to therapy, they always become this for me and I always ruin it
2025-09-29 02:57:43
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zsofigion :
Obsession, addiction, the worst withdrawal every time I lose one
2025-09-12 21:37:03
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Linda :
true it is a hell
2025-09-08 12:03:43
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clare sophie :
I lost my favourite person 4 months now and im at my lowest
2025-10-01 01:27:28
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keanmargaret :
how do u get out of that cycle
2025-09-08 16:30:34
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health :
i hate it😢 . they don't understand and tired of me
2025-10-21 11:58:42
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AlistairDDootson :
This....
2025-09-08 12:20:04
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Emely <3 :
How do I send this to my teacher I was OBSESSED with one and a half a years ago? I’m over it but every time I see her it aches. All the actions I did to BE her.
2025-09-10 20:20:06
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Hugazombie :
my fiance has bpd and this really touched me, i'm gonna have to show her this, this explains so much so well. and me as that favorite, it's very hard sometimes i feel like im drowning, but i love her with all my heart.
2025-10-21 18:39:57
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