Codependency Kate
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🌙The Apothecary🍉 :
My mom’s always like “I’m managing your emotions”. Like mom I’ve controlled my emotions for your comfort, and doesn’t even realize what she’s saying
2025-09-05 18:53:56
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starsandgarters :
feelings are reactions. feelings are the reaction to actions. feelings don't change unless behaviors change. and anyone who says otherwise has extremely bad behavior. if you aren't nice to the other kids, they don't wanna play with you 🤷
2025-09-06 11:07:00
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Maria Smith :
I admit I suck at emotions! I’m a lot like many men. I need Emotions 101 😂 my therapist recently had me name my emotions. Calculus 1 class in college was way easier. what I was taught is “don’t show emotions” Be stoic. Living with an alcoholic, and a mean drunk, i had to stay stable. I had to stay emotionless. Or maybe I didn’t have to but I did for safety
2025-09-05 21:00:00
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TJ :
I'm 55 and went no contact w/ my extremely abusive parents 25 yrs ago. It was painful. But, maybe it's the genx in me that feels like millennials putting their whines on public platforms is what's making the estranged parents buck up!
2025-09-06 03:34:45
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Roy & Alex | Life in Europe :
my dad told me feelings are something you work around. that sticks with you as a kid
2025-09-06 14:42:55
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yarronrod :
I was told my feelings were a choice and I just needed to start choosing differently. That’s only my feelings apparently. I’m somehow also responsible for their feelings.
2025-09-05 20:54:45
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Popsicles :
They want to control everyone’s emotions but their own
2025-09-07 08:24:06
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Lara 🍉🌱 :
Emotions are bodily sensations. You can’t change emotions. You can only change the story you tell yourself about them. But it sounds like this parent is trying to get her child to lie to herself about their emotions.
2025-09-06 15:38:03
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Ελένη Π. :
❤️it's all about controlling you...but let's not forget mothers raised them that they had the belief because they themselves suffered being women, that it's more precious being a man...oh their precious boys can control everyone..i was raised like that by my mother.. believing that she would had treated me better of i were a boy... please let me know what you think❤️
2025-09-06 11:09:09
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raspberriesnroses :
I absolutely love this content 👏🏼 👏🏼
2025-09-05 20:36:46
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Ashley - Rae :
I told my mom I dont like her friend (it's for a valid reason too) and she was trying to convince me to like her. im like thats not how it works
2025-09-05 20:15:06
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FluteMother :
Oh dear, you met my Mother didn’t you?
2025-09-05 19:14:12
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Mrs Cookie Monster :
My ex likes to use emotions/feelings as a way to belittle me.
2025-09-05 18:59:02
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esthermj82🇩🇪🇺🇸 :
In their favor that is…
2025-09-05 20:59:06
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Alissa :
If I could hear one thing from my childhood it was my dad saying don’t be so emotional
2025-09-10 00:22:03
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ArrielB :
Do you know where that idea came from? Is it from a pop psychology book or something? This concept ruined my whole life actually
2025-09-05 20:31:01
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frausg :
You are refreshing. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and experience! 🥰
2025-09-06 19:09:59
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Ever Rose625 :
It’s so relieving to hear you say this. I haven’t been able to have in-person experience hearing a woman say this, much less one so educated in this field. THANK YOU😩
2025-09-05 20:44:41
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kpopmermaid91 :
emotions and feelings are two different things.... feelings are more permanent while emotions are the bodies reactions to a dysregulated nervous system.
2025-09-06 11:36:53
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Kat with Cats :
I managed to get my mom to see that what she meant to say was not what she said and that what she actually said was extremely hurtful. She literally admitted she was wrong and still avoided accountability drying it was their fault for feeling hurt cause they should have known she didn't mean it that way.
2025-09-06 19:28:30
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Charms :
I’ve learned asking people where they got their information shuts them down so fast. A lot of people have done 0 research and can’t quote anything
2025-09-19 13:05:22
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Cassafrass47 :
emotions change by nature. like the weather. were not meant to change them. they serve a purpose.. were meant to understand them and understand that they come and go.
2025-10-31 14:25:49
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Mary Krehl :
Also - it that’s how it works and it’s easy for them to- they should change their emotions. It’s simple right?
2025-09-05 18:50:51
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yourhomegrill :
because if you can change that you don't like the behavior, they don't have to change the behavior
2025-09-05 18:53:41
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