@baddie.brad: My life seems extreme to most, but it’s normal to me. I guess after living my 20’s just trying to survive and fix my finances, it’s all I know. But, I am happy living this way and do think I live a great full life. I don’t think the stuff I have, or don’t have, defines who I am or the life I live.
Your trauma isn’t your fault but it is your responsibility to heal from tbh
2025-09-05 22:48:19
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Julie 💕🌺 :
Bradley not everything is overconsumption. New towels, new toothbrushes, new flows, etc. is not over consumption. Also, you’re not in survival mode right now. You can actually afford some new economic shoes, or other things.
2025-09-05 21:58:53
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Jay :
Baby. You’re safe now. It’s time to heal
2025-09-06 09:48:32
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Luke :
…but you’re not in “survival mode” anymore?
2025-09-05 21:43:19
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genevieve :
i dont think anyone gets it, he’s traumatized
2025-09-05 21:48:00
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Maxwell ✨💙 :
But you don’t need to reuse floss or staple a towel together…
2025-09-06 02:09:16
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Rubyyy Jones :
Maybe budget $20 ish a month to replace things that are worn out, you can thrift everything nowadays ❤️
2025-09-05 21:48:36
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Clara :
Your student loans got pardoned. That would be enough of a relief for me to buy a new toothbrush from the dollar store 😭
2025-09-07 02:08:41
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taraa.noelle :
But you have the money now. Buy the towel
2025-09-05 22:08:50
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FezzyWezzy :
How about switching from frugal to minimalist?
2025-09-06 00:02:04
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Lolalea6798 :
By all means keep being frugal, but hygiene and cleaning supplies are necessary expenses. So is health insurance but let’s start with a new toothbrush. And you can get them for cheap. You need to take care of yourself!
2025-09-05 21:55:57
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bailey :
I just feel like you can get things from the dollar store
2025-09-05 21:34:08
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Starstrash :
This is financial trauma. We’re watching a trauma response. Give him a little peace. Mental health support starts with basic understanding and kindness.
2025-09-05 22:11:31
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Claire :
This is TRAUMA.
2025-09-06 01:20:19
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nihilistic.sabotage :
You need health insurance, though. If you get critically injured all your money would be gone. Js
2025-09-06 00:05:59
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✨ Laura ✨ :
Thats the reason, but constantly using it as an excuse makes it an issue
2025-09-06 04:51:54
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🪩 :
YOU AR NOT 20 ANYMORE.
2025-09-06 01:08:09
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MilqueToast :
You make like 12k a month tho. You don’t need to use scissors as nail clippers anymore.
2025-09-06 15:29:51
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davinaruby :
You are allowed to buy a new toothbrush, stop reusing floss, buy a new towel? Like there isn’t really an excuse of “I’m traumatised” when that is just all absolutely disgusting? Literally no hate just genuinely concerned.
2025-09-06 03:58:08
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Raddiya_Mehjabeen :
You need to stop explaining the same thing over and over. We understand why you lived the way you lived. You are in a better place now, so do the necessary things you need to. You are not live in a budget, you are promotion hazard, living condition
2025-09-05 23:07:30
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SoftNsleepy :
also not to mention, good toothbrush, toothpaste and floss is actually frugal, because you won't pay for the dentist and hygienist, because your teeth will remain perfect
2025-09-06 09:50:35
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. :
You no longer need to be in survival mode though. Your quality of life can improve. Cleaning supplies, towels, floss, shoes are not overconsumption
2025-09-06 02:27:32
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Nicole🌺☀️🌊 :
Stapling a towel, showering where you store trash from the street/trash cans, reusing floss and cutting your toenails with the same pair of scissors that you use in the kitchen is what we’re talking about. It’s not overconsumption to have your basic hygiene needs met
2025-09-06 12:41:42
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