@lorimoulton17: Was it a single event, or was it multiple events, until one day you just walked away? For me, it was multiple events, overtime, until one day I just knew that nothing was ever going to change. I kept waiting for that one more big thing that was going to let me know it was time. Then I realized I didn’t need that one big thing. I already had many things to tell me I needed to leave. I guess my “breaking the shelf” moment, as Dr. Ramani calls it, was when he told me I was not going to force him to stop drinking. I had already been doing the work in a 12 step program as a partner for over a year. He did eventually stop drinking, at least to my knowledge, but it was too late. Plus, I realized that wasn’t the most impactful problem. It was just a cover, a numbing agent, for something much deeper.
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Sunday 07 September 2025 13:31:51 GMT
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genevievemuree :
When the neighbor said something 😭
2025-09-09 03:20:02
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Addie :
When he had started to get aggressive and yell at me or say hurtful things a man shouldn’t say to any women.
2025-09-08 16:29:47
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iris ⭐️ :
Unfortunately I can’t get out as my custody arrangement means I have to be with my father for a percentage of the fortnight. But I knew I wanted to get out when I started spending more time with my mum and realised how much more at ease I was.
2025-09-27 08:54:44
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Laimarie39 :
After I noticed he wasn’t the same person I knew before. All of us change with the time, but not to be aggressive and disrespectful. Also when he did something just to ruined special occasions. I began my research once I discovered the abuse my plan to leave started. After 9 yrs.
2025-09-08 19:25:48
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Bronzewing :
when my mom threatened to have me legally labelled as incompetent
2025-09-08 13:01:01
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Jennifer :
When I asked for help getting to a very important test a month in advance, right after my husband had just died. They agreed to it and then 3 days before I was suppose to take the test, they called and made fun of me. I hung up on them....
2025-09-07 16:41:28
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Pamski :
when our youngest child died after a year battling cancer, he did things like wake me every two hours bc I didn't let him hug me once, he got angry bc I wasn't making dinner when the church was bringing us meals. wasn't getting up early, all within a month or two of losing him and I was very very fatigued. i knew I wouldn't survive married to him.
2025-09-07 23:00:22
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sul☾ :
My dad came home intoxicated and left my sister and I waiting hours for him to come back. When I didn’t give in to him consistently asking me what’s wrong I simply didn’t respond until i snapped. Immediately, he blamed my mom.
2025-09-09 02:45:17
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VioletM :
I realised that I no longer cared if he lived or died.
2025-09-24 21:20:28
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Abigail :
When my uncle passed unexpectedly, he wouldn’t drive me 4hrs so I could be w/my family but if someone were to call him & ask for help he’d drop everything to assist, no matter what it was or what time of day.
2025-09-08 00:43:12
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Mary Ten :
I recognize my self in each of your videos , it was from 2016-2019 but still I can’t believe I been through this . I am happy for you . God bless you . Wish you best journey that’s possible.
2025-09-09 18:03:37
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mortu.mutt :
When I felt like the bad guy because I was told it was all me no matter what the situation was. And hearing new friends I had made call me “the sweetest” or “an angel” and actively sobbing in front of almost strangers because of it.
2025-09-08 00:01:24
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Tara :
After our only child died at birth, I thought I HAD to stay. But then I found out he was telling people he didn’t want any more kids (he had one before we met and I had none). I was dying inside, wishing for motherhood and babies. So it took 11 years and tragedy, but that was the final straw- that he didn't want to give me the only thing I needed. I made plans and escaped when he went to work. Now I have a good man and 3 growing boys. ❤
2025-11-08 16:02:37
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Kim Buchanan :
It’s been multiple events over the years. The last 2 especially. He escalated and would scream and break things. I chose myself and peace. Finally. 21 years.
2025-09-08 20:21:41
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Purple18678 :
for me it was a process of seeing things for what they really were and realizing I was abused. Once it all came together I decided to leave. It’s been a little over a year. It’s not been easy financially but I’m the am happy and free for the first time in over 20 years
2025-09-09 00:46:18
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Brian LeFevre :
Months of putting me down and being awful for “ not acting like myself “ after I discovered the affair she was having that she still actively denies even happening. Then anytime she got really angry , would say it’s true , only to then backpeddle and just say she said it cause she was mad . After far too long of that I bounced.
2025-09-08 23:46:05
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𝘈𝘮𝘺 𝘔𝘢𝘦 :
First a gut feeling a long time ago things crept in chances and cycles. When I finally cracked
2025-09-09 09:12:06
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Christine Duiven :
You are my inspiration. Thank you
2025-09-08 17:58:24
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Justagem :
When he screamed at me to get out of his house and I had 30 days .. I left that day !!
2025-09-08 03:39:26
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Angelbubzz :
still in it on my out!
my sister has been awful to me for years!
ruined a special birthday
tried to stop moving country
told me who I could and couldn't date-
he has to be white! no criminal record- no drugs- no kids - has money - can drive
wanted to buy me a treadmill for Christmas because I've put some weight on
expected me to leave my holiday because my mother had a problem at the house and I had to sort it out
I have to be the go between her and my other sister as she doesn't directly communicates with her but texts me to ask what she's up to
gaslit my niece when she shouted at her and my niece ended up apologising to her!
my niece wrote her a letter and she deliberately wouldn't read it!
I have several health issues - had cancer and an operation and she never came to see me or ask how I was!
has questioned previous partners on whether they pay taxes and what their income is
called me selfish for going to the cinema with my niece because she said she couldn't come down that month and I took her anyway but it was her idea!
has told me all my health problems are down to nutrition!
physically attacked me when I was younger saying she bought my laptop when I paid for it had to go to the bank to get a copy of the check for her to say ok no apology ever!
always thinks my autoimmune disease will be cured if I just eat the right thing!
2025-09-19 17:02:54
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slims :
when he hit me and i had to call my mom because i was unsafe
2025-09-12 02:42:19
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rowena parsons :
His dad had a fall.....no medical aid was sought for 9 days. I begged...I pleaded. I rang doctors but without all his details....got nowhere. Told another family member.....they denied that he would do that. I was ostracised. Called a liar. Even though I had his messages as proof. They wouldn't ever look at the proof. The person who fell....suffered detached retinas and a bleed. They went blind in both eyes within 48 hrs of the fall.
I tried my best. I am still paying the price now. Alienated children....Awful lies have been spread.....No contact with people I really loved and thought highly of. Up until then....I believed it was only me he treated poorly.....Seeing it happen to their father....it took every ounce of love and respect I had for him..my ex....and crushed it.
2025-09-07 20:01:06
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Kay :
his phone vibrated, he woke me up and ask who I was chatting to, he threatened to leave me and went to his mother for the weekeknd to teach me a lesson, I decided to lock the door and never let him back in again.
2025-09-21 20:52:56
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Theyluv_me💋 :
when he slapped me and said it was a joke and he was sorry with a smile on his face when he bite me so hard I was almost crying and begging him to stop and he left a bruise and then said he didn't even do it that hard🥺
2025-09-17 06:33:38
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