@themamachel: Hurt people, when they’re in their wound, want others to hurt with them. They will do anything to make it happen, especially public blame wrapped in victimhood. The truth is: when you are faced with a mirror, it is easier to point outward than to face the wound inside. In this reflection, her wound was her mother. She told me I mirror that wound, the mother who did not nurture the way she needed. And so she projected it onto me, that I was not nurturing her either. But I did not cut her, that was her mother. What I did was refuse to coddle. My boundaries became the trigger. And from her wound, that looked like abuse. This is the distortion of shadow. The inner child demands the outside world become what it needed but never got. And when someone will not play that role, they become the villain. My love does not come through coddling illusions. My love comes through truth, breaking the expectation that others should fix your wound, and reminding you that only you can become the one your shadow keeps searching for. Buy that’s not what this episode is about- This one is about my shadow in the situation. Episode 1 & 2 are on my YouTube. Linked in my bio. #oracleofshadows #theshadowworkbible #shadowillumination #victimhood

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butdoaliensbelieveinme
sarafern :
“Queendom”
2025-09-08 00:39:05
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unapologetically_annie
Unapologetically_Annie :
Queendom=ego
2025-09-08 04:14:30
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the_sovereign_one
Tommy Jay :
This is the perfect example & proof why people need to do their own shadow work with their own spirit guides and stop being influenced by delusional egotistical "gurus" who are so full of themselves.
2025-09-08 08:14:45
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zoemystik
zoemystik :
The fact that she had to buy her safety with silence while you’re posting your tell-all speaks louder than any testimony from her ever would.
2025-09-08 14:15:12
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lunac46
Jules :
Honestly. I feel that when your both grasping at straws to be the winner in a very emotional relationship. You both should stop in your tracks, remove yrself from the situation and move on. It shouldn't be a who's right battle. You're both grown Women striving for the same goal. just amicably move on. its turning High School.
2025-09-08 04:40:51
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everydayillumination
Amy | The Alchemist :
There is such possession energy here. What is the energy and history of the land? I lived in CR for several years something needs to be cleared where you are.
2025-09-07 21:20:21
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livingineternalpresent
Ascending :
The lesson…. Is really…. the Trojan horse.
2025-09-23 17:14:46
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chamomileandiris
chamomileandiris :
I hope people can read the caption written on this video / listen to what is being said and see it as a signal for an unsafe space to be especially in a trance / extraordinary state of consciousness….. google the meaning of ethics ~
2025-09-07 22:05:41
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elishevasedgwick
ElizabethSedgwick :
All I hear is control, inability to meet someone with equal sovereignty and respect. I have dealt with people operating in psychosis and narcissism in the spiritual community in this way. Projecting authority issues because thats what they are doing is trying to control instead of being open to mutual collaboration and creation. Being received as a threat when youre in your pure light coming to be met with trust and openness is so traumatizing and the opposite of peace. If you are an agent of peace you will operate under trust and reciprocity not fear of threat and defensiveness, that is not peace.
2025-09-08 23:52:14
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daniela_psymed
Daniela :
This just sounds like someone perpetually stuck in lower level energies marching around announcing her “queendom” to everyone and expecting immediate submission. That’s not your land, you just colonized it bc you’re a privileged child who hasn’t risen out of her root ever. This is so incredibly childish nobody wants the “queendom” but be careful because sandcastles get knocked down allll the time by forces beyond your control..you get what you put out and it will boomerang eventually.
2025-09-09 22:31:46
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thehealingroom369
💃Nomadic Nini💃 :
do you truly heart yourself???
2025-09-08 00:51:33
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salemjones777
Salem Jones 🔥❤️‍🔥✨ :
This realm of duality on full display now. Two sides to every story. Both can be right and wrong. But we are moving beyond the tree of good and evil to the tree of eternal life. Let go and align with the one truth. All is one and non reaction is the key 🔥❤️‍🔥✨
2025-09-07 19:21:41
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ev70811
🧘‍♀️ E V E L Y N 🧘‍♀️ :
I’ll be honest all I have ever felt from both of you is that you have a lot of work to do. It all seems very messy and I hope people find peace.
2025-09-08 01:58:59
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innerbeautywaleskapr
Waleska🦋🧿🪐 :
Your what? 🧐
2025-09-10 01:01:14
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quip932
quip932 :
You both are beautiful women with wonderful spirits! Just let go and let God…
2025-09-07 15:59:12
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kristinaw_ak
KristinaW/aK! :
It seems like you both had good intentions and ego just is getting in the way but this too happens with intimate relationships,, you either work it out in selfless love or flee away with ego.
2025-09-07 15:49:32
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lunac46
Jules :
unfortunately two completely different energies thinking they were the same ...clashed. in all honesty, I believe you both have the same beliefs, but that doesn't mean your energy is the same. because depth and surface can be very different.
2025-09-08 03:00:09
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tanjeirene
Tanje🍊Irene :
Yassssss Girl
2025-09-07 19:12:53
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corinne0115
Corinne :
your boundaries are triggering her or others. I like that. there's no drama from your part
2025-09-08 16:33:34
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jde715
Jd :
I have seen videos from different sides of this and from previous happenings and I just wanted to say I believe you. I sense it in a way. And I think people also need to realize that the type of work you are doing is very difficult and triggering. Many have this idea that healing and retreats are meant to be comfortable and instantly rewarding. Triggers are painful and requires a great level of patience and suapencion
2025-09-08 02:36:56
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celestiallyinsane777
celestiallyinsane777 :
I believe in the laws of reciprocity, the balance of giving and receiving.. I think Madison felt a lack of control within the environment not because from a space of manipulation.. I think you misunderstand what she may be reflecting to you.. her mother wound isn’t necessarily the cause I feel as though she had expectations of how she would be treated by you.. you did invite her to your queendom therefore she was considerably a guest of yours.. not to invalidate what may have happened but what I’m sensing you may overcompensated for somebody you didn’t truly want around which caused resentment.. this feels like a tit for tat game of who’s right and who’s wrong.. you can’t force anybody to see beyond their limitations rather love them into evolution
2025-09-07 16:51:46
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juliemarquardt236
juliemarquardt236 :
Do you really believe she thinks she runs your kingdom? Because the collaboration of the two of you has been much longer than a year.
2025-09-07 14:06:14
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