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itsbritneyb2003 :
This is so real. *I* am emotionally avoidant so I go after people who will never give me what I want. It’s sick.
2025-09-08 15:58:13
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mj.burn :
“Quite often what appears as obstacles to what we want is really what sustains our desire” - Slavoj Žižek
2025-09-08 16:04:32
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mand3xo :
So I can’t have hobbies?
2025-09-09 01:59:56
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Carlos E Torres :
Every time I come to this page, I am attacked >:(
2025-09-08 21:48:32
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Mike :
Ok hear me out WHAT IF…. You are truly addicted to the avoidance and drawn in etc etc etc BUTTTTT you ALSO actually “coincidentally” love the person 🧍♂️behind the avoidance. Which I think is me rn 😭
2025-09-10 22:32:53
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will555 :
I want them to choose me, pick me, love me 🙂↕️🙂↕
2025-09-10 16:38:41
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Lindo 🇿🇦 :
And here we go again…
2025-09-08 15:09:32
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سـديم مـنذر :
Love your videos 🌸 Adding subtitles would make them even clearer and reach more people 🤍.
2025-09-08 15:10:57
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Nimco Africa 🇸🇩🇵🇸🇨🇩 :
i feel attacked 😒😬
2025-09-08 23:17:15
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usibulele :
True. Had to get to a place where I wanted peace in my life & within a few weeks it became very obvious that my relationship was 1 of the things robbing me of that.
2025-09-08 15:53:25
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Vaxxyyyyy :
You’re right! I’ve been there. When he healed from his avoidances I HATED him. Than I questioned myself and yeah I loved him because of his avoidance.
2025-09-08 15:51:39
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hannamarinavoice :
That’s why I want to meet someone that’s my type but that’s secure, so I can test this theory 😁
2025-09-11 12:56:21
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ziniztar :
Therapist explained to me that people that get into rs’s with people with BPD, like the distance a BPD needs in a relationship. Wow. Can’t imagine being there anymore. 10+ years of therapy though. Didn’t come easy.
2025-09-10 20:42:48
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Faithylou :
literally had to listen to this about 3 times.......ya got me
2025-09-09 17:44:19
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🤍 :
I need you to write a book
2025-09-08 15:04:59
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Jen :
Yes this!! And I truly think it’s because people have a pattern of seeking that they’re unconsciously addicted to, so an avoidant will let you play out that pattern
2025-09-08 21:42:52
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hayley65 :
yes I kind of admire this trait and I as well own this trait but lean more anxtious
2025-09-09 17:20:22
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Nick :
Once I realized that after I got my heart broken by one I am not attracted to women like that anymore bc I understand it now
2025-09-09 08:20:24
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unavoidanting🦋 :
So that’s why he stopped liking me when I pushed through my avoidance for him 😳😳
2025-09-08 19:34:00
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PotatoSalad13 :
I just like a lot of space, ok?
2025-09-09 03:27:18
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Reginev :
We like them because we are also emotionally unavailable just like them, unconsciously we like being with somebody who won't actually fully commit to us and also the hot and cold treatment can create a dopamine dinamic in our brains.
2025-10-10 02:27:56
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itsphil_ :
Real 😭😭
2025-09-08 16:50:49
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🫥 :
True. Some people enjoy chasing.
2025-09-11 13:35:22
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mairi :
my only question in this is that at the start,he didn't seem to be avoidant (honeymoon) and i fell in love then. the avoidance and the trauma is that kept me waiting for him?
2025-09-11 04:32:46
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apfigue :
I agree however is not “like” because trust me no one likes to be in the push pull dynamic. For other unavailable people it’s familiar so it feels like home because for an anxious they are used to fight for love outside themselves therefore FAs are their polarity. Thats why it’s so magnetic for both sides.
2025-09-11 23:12:00
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