@chris_hatfield: STOP thinking “if they wanted to they would” #iftheywantedtotheywould #attachmentstyle #communicationskills #expectation #anxiousattachment

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autismmamabear85
Sicilianbellina85 :
Sometimes that's just not them either. Everyone has different ways to communicate and they have their own boundaries.
2025-09-08 15:19:12
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mondhase448
Simone | UNDER CONSTRUCTION ⏳️ :
but what if I already told them, and not only once? 🙃
2025-09-08 16:16:55
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its_havenbro
Haven :
I wish I seen this sooner
2025-10-07 04:45:39
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co81866
user62231580418858 :
Disagree. You should not have to tell people to do what should be considered very basic things.
2025-09-10 20:47:09
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littlestchaosgremlin
littlestchaosgremlin :
All he had to do was show up, he suggested the date and the time, left me on delivered the whole day before. If he wanted to see me he would have.
2025-09-14 15:06:54
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gwolf75
🏔️⛰️💙GW💙⛰️🏔️ :
You’re right. We should give them permission to do the bare minimum. Sound advice. 🙄
2025-09-10 02:54:18
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mayatee05
MaYa👸🏽 :
As an anxious girlie this helps thank you
2025-09-08 23:50:46
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emigeorgianam
EmiGM :
I agree . How can they know ? The same things don’t matter to everyone.
2025-09-26 21:40:38
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nezammsoyin
X :
the "if they wanted to they would" thing for me is about seeing how they treated and communicated with their previous relationships and how they refuse to with me that's the thing
2025-09-18 15:56:59
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thebratgremlin
Mrs gremlin :
The timing is crazy
2025-10-04 17:46:29
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boocaooca
⋆౨ৎbecca🪽.。. :
Gang what if I’ve been on delivered for 2 days
2025-10-08 17:15:13
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linda_cornelius
Linda Cornelius :
Tbh it's not that easy...
2025-09-11 17:56:53
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ashuls36
ashuls36 :
I did and then still chose not to. That’s when I say if he wanted to he would. When I’ve said hey this matters to me can we sort it out and then……nothing.
2025-09-09 11:55:09
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chrisfer22000
Silver Fox 🇨🇦 :
Have to disagree, from experience if they wanted to they would have holds true 100% of the time
2025-10-06 01:00:28
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khat_banaras
khat_banaras :
Chris you talk so much sense! Thankyou so much for this! I needed to hear this today as an anxious attacher!
2025-09-08 15:39:20
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emmaanne402
emmaanne402 :
Why should I have to explain to a grown man that I want to be treated well with decency, love and respect?
2025-09-11 08:15:10
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szm1105
Zee :
This is so true
2025-10-15 20:00:27
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linseymaes
Linsey :
I understand.. but what if i asked people to make an appointment, and everytime the answer is “we shall see” “i need to check my agenda” “i have something else” And we still keep texting everyday to eachother. But there are appoinments with other friends aswell..
2025-09-15 07:26:45
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jloverton2
Jennifer :
Yes!!!💯
2025-09-10 20:34:27
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doncha.63
Danča :
Always two sides to a coin…
2025-09-08 16:40:42
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mark.horsley
Mark Horsley :
you make so much sence
2025-09-09 19:34:09
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celinamarquez52
Celina Marquez :
Needed to hear this so badly
2025-09-10 15:40:38
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jujubean_1111
Jujubean_1111 :
100%. Thank you!!
2025-09-09 18:26:06
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tuberrose8577
Ash P :
I’ve actually had to come to a realization with this and one of my friends. I actually have to tell them bc otherwise they are oblivious. They simply don’t know unless I say something.
2025-09-09 13:09:29
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user9016804763368
laura :
what if they chatted all week then next dissappear and only 2 words a day morning how are you
2025-09-08 19:25:54
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