how about we make a new rule? the person who asked the other person out pays regardless of gender
2025-09-09 00:50:41
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Sandy Jaramillo :
I'm lucky enough it's never been an issue with me and my dates. It makes my man feel like a gentleman to have me rely on him financially because he knows he relies on me in many non-financial ways. As a matter of fact, he gives me much credit for the success in building his business.
2025-09-08 18:03:24
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🥉❌MISTY BEE❌🥉 :
Meh! The most empowered I ever felt was leaving a date early and picking up the check. I was done with him and didn’t want him having any inkling that I owed him anything. I have always out earned the men I date though.
2025-09-09 04:43:28
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SmilingOutLoud :
I’m on the fence about it.
2025-09-09 02:26:42
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Vyoufinder :
Whoever invites, pays. So simple.
2025-09-09 21:01:14
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ken :
a gentleman man pays without expecting desert
2025-09-09 09:06:06
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tomgotlan :
so if I paid for a very nice dinner it would be really nice for the woman to make a meal at her house , it doesn't have to be something extravagant . I would bring the wine with some chocolates for dessert.
2025-09-09 03:35:56
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pauleyb23 :
Privilege? What are you talking about?
2025-09-09 10:30:15
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An honest perspective. :
You lost me at the word, the made up word, patriarchy. Can you change my tyre for me. Can you do my plumbing and scaffolding. Why don’t you open the door for me? I mean seriously? Why not?
2025-09-09 05:26:13
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red_all_the_way_2026 :
I always pay.
2025-09-09 04:14:43
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VitoCorleone :
I tend to be a little more old fashioned regarding this. I would never ask or expect a female to pay on a date. That’s just me and how I was raised.
2025-09-09 16:22:34
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Dwhit :
If the other party becomes entitled then what?
2025-09-09 10:51:10
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Fujifilmguy :
so you want a free meal then
2025-09-09 03:36:33
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Amy6846Freddie :
yes at least the first date!
2025-09-08 22:29:26
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Chunkymonkey2512 :
I wouldn't want give the impression that he's getting something for it, so I'd rather go dutch
2025-09-09 08:20:11
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🏴Andrea-M🇬🇧 :
If someone asks you out they pay😊
2025-09-09 03:10:28
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Cordan the cat 🇸🇪 :
I would never let a man pay for me. I want to be able to leave whenever I want, without him having any expectations of a "night cap".
2025-09-09 05:15:42
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Brooklynfleavendor :
100%. It’s the principle behind it. It’s part of the date. Not just the monetary value. The perspective on the policy of dating a woman.
2025-09-09 16:00:19
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Leah :
I would rather have domino who wants to do things for me besides financially. My ex husband thought because he provided income he didn’t have to do anything else. I would rather have a man make me dinner than buy me dinner. But I do feel like it’s gentleman like to pay for dates
2025-09-08 18:52:31
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Jeri Serpico :
Finish my post, sent too soon. so I believe women will enjoy the take charge man like I had in my time.
2025-09-09 01:02:52
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Jeri Serpico :
I have some jen-z friends and am seeing more men coming up to the plate to court, and taking charge of dating including planning dinner.
2025-09-09 00:47:08
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wondercrone :
50-50.
2025-09-08 17:37:19
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Pack the world into your bag :
Interesting topic! I believe it’s more about respect than money. How do you usually handle it on your dates?
2025-09-17 03:10:11
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Amy6846Freddie :
absolutely at least first 3.
2025-09-13 18:56:12
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Martha Solorzano :
Yes.
2025-09-08 18:29:16
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