@mackenzieherman: Avoidants tend to run & need isolation when they get overwhelmed. This is so hard to go through, one minute, you have a loving kind & engaging person. The next, the relationship is over before you can get a word in. This is a reflection of them and their capacity, it has nothing to do with you or your value. #avoidant #relationshipadvice #avoidantattachmentstyle #copingskills #LanguageLearning
may a love like this never in my life find me again!
2025-09-08 17:44:51
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✨️🐱 𝓙𝓪𝓷𝓲𝓮 🐱✨️ :
If you feel overwhelmed and need to get away, then simply TELL YOUR PARTNER YOU NEED TIME ALONE. Don't immediately end things!
2025-09-09 23:47:54
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Erin :
"You deserve better" 😂😂🙄
2025-09-09 02:38:34
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🌱 :
May I never fall for another unhealed avoidant
2025-09-08 23:57:44
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Mars :
as an avoidant the problem is most people go ballistic if you just ask for some time to yourself. You have to be there constantly. It's too much when you need loneliness to self-regulate.
2025-09-12 04:24:51
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Nick 🖤 :
People need to remember, these are not concious decisions. They are entirely driven by our nervous systems, ad whatevrr the person has done to trigger us makes them unsafe. The stigma avoidants get just makes our avoidance worse. Now chosing not to heal those wounds? Thats the decision thats real.
2025-09-08 22:52:56
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MartineGrymyr :
He did everything he promised not to do.
2025-09-11 08:48:11
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Justin Beckstrom :
dont forget "I need space" then 2 weeks later proceeds to post ig stories of being out with another man.
2025-09-08 18:24:12
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tay :
literally JUST ASK FOR SPACE. i’m understanding but when you push me away and ignore me for long periods of times, it makes me overthink. communicate!!!
2025-10-28 07:09:37
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anchenn_07 :
Being in avoident isn't a choice you guys know that right. It's caused by trauma. People with the avoident attachment can't help for who they are nor what they've done. It hurts, believe me I know but they can't help it. It's almost like mental illness like depression and anxiety. It just goes about how you handle the situation until it gets better yk
2025-09-08 18:45:27
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Ronnie G :
especially if it’s long distance :(
2025-09-09 02:06:40
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Angelmartzzz :
st finished reading The Silent Feminine Power by Lana Cressel and I’m staring at the wall in silence. No one told me a book could be this powerful.
2025-09-10 18:05:41
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444 :
I dated an avoidant and it has turned me into one 😭
2025-09-11 12:39:22
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nor :
im in enemy territory
2025-09-11 16:25:14
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Jordan :
Just experienced that first hand ruins yah
2025-09-09 02:16:20
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jess :
His fyp not mine
2025-09-09 13:12:37
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Kam :
I would tag him but he’d just run away again lol
2025-09-17 22:40:15
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hans.porknbeans :
Do they always tell they fell out of love to end the relationship immediately?
2025-09-08 17:40:50
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trang:) :
girl put this on her fyp, NOT mine.😭
2025-09-10 02:56:49
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Kiy💕 :
I feel so attacked😩😩 I’m tryinnnnnnngggggg
2025-09-11 00:17:01
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piek🌀 :
PUT DIS ON HER FYP NOT MINE
2025-09-09 00:47:26
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Rachel Lorraine :
i look at my avoident like a little bunny. i have to be okay with him running away for time and coming back (all with healthy boundaries and comunicating, no abandonment allowed)
2025-09-17 22:07:41
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Bazan. L 🖤 :
Yup and got blocked on everything 😂😭
2025-09-10 00:31:28
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michaela :
I don’t think I will ever forgive him for that, but I do wish him healing.
2025-09-09 13:19:59
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