@healingbythenumbers_: Welcome to That Was Abuse, where I talk about moments from my ten-year abusive marriage while getting ready for the life I have now. Episode 15: Siri Needs to Shut Up One night, a random Siri beep set him off. He ripped the phone out of my hands, called me stupid, and threw it back at me. And I just laid there, heart pounding, afraid to move, afraid of my own phone. That’s how they train you to walk on eggshells. It took me 6 more years to leave. But that was abuse. 👉 Follow @Healingbythenumbers for more episodes, and share this so someone else knows they’re not alone. #healingbythenumbers #thatwasabuse #survivorstories #abuserecovery #getreadywithme

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Jasmine Vallejo :

you said siri and it activated my siri😭😂

2025-09-29 16:53:55

Misty Dawn :

I remember "moving" too much in bed

2025-09-08 21:26:46

Emmibean :

You are so resilient!!! I have a story like this. I’m not feeling brave enough to share online just yet, but I am forcing myself to leave this comment. I’m glad you’re out ❤️❤

2025-09-12 20:11:32

MercuryRises :

You and I dated the same man 😳

2025-09-08 22:01:04

kmsuhay :

oh I remember that look.

2025-09-09 01:58:33

chelliebeth93 :

He would always wake me up somehow if I went to sleep before him.

2025-09-08 21:33:44

Jennifer Stroup :

Was this the phone he bought you?

2026-08-12 02:28:22

storm_xcx :

🥺

2025-12-09 14:14:55

Starrie🖤eyed girl ♏️ :

🖤🖤🖤

2026-01-02 16:26:13

Mauryamac :

Abuse and narcissism. I grew up with a narcissist, I thought I could maneuver…. Until I met my boyfriend. Every situation he feels the need to antagonize. I’m cleaning the room and I’ve been doing so for an hour or so. I’m a little tired, I let out a sigh from doing the laundry, lifting things cleaning the floors. His response…… Not thank you I appreciate you. I can help you with that later… His response is.” What’s your problem”. To that I choose not to respond because it’s only gonna cause a fight to my silence he only gets angrier.

2025-09-24 20:17:19

Jett_techz :

I also had same issues with my main account but I got help from @Remy Tech

2025-09-09 01:42:39

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