@stepintoyou: Feb 10th 2024 will always stay with me. The last thing he said as I walked out the door with our son was ‘Abby, take care of him.’ Hours later, he was gone. No goodbye, no plan, no explanation. Just those words before leaving the country without telling me. #healing #abandoned #pain #latenightfinds #HealingJourney

stepintoyou :

Every story starts somewhere, and ours started beautifully. He was excited to be a dad, and in the beginning, he was loving and present. I truly believed we were building a strong foundation. Things changed after his parents visited. New perspectives came in, and slowly, his attitude shifted. He’ll say he left because of his student visa that was to expire a few days after he decided to leave, but leaving without arranging care for our son was still his choice. I’m not proud of how I found out his dad had been disrespectful, but it confirmed what I was feeling and let me to confront him, things were falling apart after that. After his parents left, he told me I was asking too much as a father, his parents cut him off financially, which added pressure. He became distant and overwhelmed. In the video, he looks hurt and he was. Even after he left, communication was minimal. He doesn’t support us financially, and most help initially came from his parents, which I eventually had to stop accepting. I mention this not to blame anyone, but to show context. I’ve thought about filing for custody I’ve held back because of fear and overthinking, but I know I need to take that step for my son. At the end of the day, he’ll decide what kind of father his dad is. My job is to raise him with love, stability, and truth. From this moment forward, it’s about healing and moving forward.

hut :

So he think he in a movie or something?

dollychaeee :

This is why I’m scared to be a mom because fatherhood is optional.

Anne🇭🇹 :

He thought he ate that?

Stacia :

What did he say? I could only hear the music

Mommabear :

You don’t need to tell her to take care of her own baby, she wasn’t secretly planning to ditch it

Daggy :

Fathers don’t do this.. real men don’t do this..

jjiz2cute :

Even though he left the country, make sure you still go to court and file for Falso physical legal custody and child abandonment. It will stop him from coming back in the future trying to take custody.

Rihanna🪶 :

😭😭

Cappyjessy :

A mother who had a miscarriage and abortion can go to jail but a father who abandoned his kid is just having a rough time...

Yo!ItSamG :

So what I’m understanding his parents cut him off financially and he decided to leave so they can continue to provide . Instead of him being a man and proving for his son . Got it !!

Geo :

You must not have been giving him what he needed the the relationship glad he knew what was the right thing to do

kayla :

“Take care of him” MOMMA WILL ALWAYS sir ! I hope you heal

Damaris :

You should’ve gave him this look and walked away

lirpa(: :

Take legal action NOW.

chloe :

please file for abandonment & custody. he can come back whenever he wants & try to take that baby. not only that but you don’t want to have to have his written consent to do things with your baby.. even if you’re hoping for him to come back, the security of your son comes first.

Steph🕷🌙🥀 :

Def file abandonment

lissa:) :

fatherhood is optional but it’s child neglect if the mother leaves.

Gelene Beyer :

HE HAS A RIGHT TO BE HAPPY WHERE EVER HE CHOOSES TO GO❤️

💸💸💸 :

U probably never gave him a chance to find himself

Jesus!! :

As a father I couldn’t let my son go just like that. Praying one day he gets to ask him man to man why he did what he did.

lPlushyl :

“Hey, can I get that ring camera footage for TikTok..”

Bree :

Onenonlyshels :

How could he be so causal knowing he’s leaving his baby.