sit down and write your mom a letter tell her how you felt tell her how you’re feeling. Tell her what you wish. You could’ve told her if she was here. Take that letter after you’ve gotten it all out go outside set it on fire and allow all of those ashes to rise up to where she is todayand no, she heard you she saw you she understands you.
2025-09-09 22:47:51
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Ash🩷 :
From a licensed counselor: try writing her a letter and tell her everything you never got to. You can do this anytime something comes up. You burn the letter or put it up somewhere. It just helps to get the emotions out. ❤️
2025-09-10 00:19:41
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Emily Chamberlain475 :
breaking the cycle is all you can do.
2025-09-09 23:34:52
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Liz :
I feel like you should see a medium to get some
2025-09-09 22:57:48
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Tricia Lavis Weslager :
Sometimes it helps to say it out loud. You and Tori need to go see a psychic medium. See if your mom comes through.
2025-09-09 23:03:15
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Nick :
As a girl who is the same boat but whose mother is alive but so toxic we are estranged-u deserve peace. If your mom would have lived to be 100-odds r nothing changed. That’s on her-as a mother, it was her job to build that relationship. U grieve for something that may never have been. My heart hurts for you. Sending u love & peace.
2025-09-10 00:42:24
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misslaurynnn :
What I love being about a mom is getting to be the mom I needed for my daughter. I get to heal what my mother refuses to acknowledge thru her. But I totally understand wishing and hoping that your mom was your best friend.
2025-09-10 00:28:56
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Emily :
My mom passed and we were not talking at the time.. I feel this. And my mom also said the same sentence to me. She told me multiple times as a teenager she wish she aborted me. I struggle all the time with my feeling towards my
2025-09-10 12:06:23
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Anything Beauty :
Once I had a daughter, it made it even harder to understand why my mother did what she did. I completely understand. When someone is committed to misunderstanding you, they will never change, I don’t think there’s anything else you could’ve done.
2025-09-09 23:13:47
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Cristina :
GIRL - you just described my relationship with my mom perfectly (she’s still alive) but I have forever envied girls who’s moms are their besties in adulthood because I don’t have that I know my mom loves me but we don’t see eye to eye - sending big hugs 🩷🩷🩷
2025-09-10 02:35:33
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JamieLeeMT :
💯 breaking the cycle 👏🏼 you’re an amazing mom and very kind person, Katelyn! ❤️Proud of you!
2025-09-09 23:04:03
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Jennifer :
As much as your relationship was strained just think of how much differently the trajectory of your relationship with Adrianne will be because u will be so conscious of words and actions. Sending love ❤️
2025-09-10 00:06:20
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Karen :
You broke the cycle be very proud of yourself 💕I know this might sound strange but your Mother gave you the gift of doing better than she did. We as parents want better for our kids and your kids are better because of you.
2025-09-09 23:45:00
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Stephanie Hallot Lamoureux :
You are enough 🩷. You’re a different person and know how you want to parent. I’m sorry that you’re sad.
2025-09-10 02:36:49
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Heather Schmidt Harb :
The amount of lengthy comments proves that all of you are just doing the best you can with the cards you were dealt 😭
2025-09-09 23:19:35
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Chantal Spencer :
Big virtual hugs girl 💔 your tik tok family will always be here for you when you need to express your feelings
2025-09-09 22:44:35
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Kaitlin J Lipscomb :
Sending you love Kaitlyn I’m so sorry.❤️
2025-09-09 23:14:06
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NurseJackie23 :
I am so sorry to hear you are sad and struggling ❤️
2025-09-09 23:05:12
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School Psychologist Mama| FL :
Oh Katelyn 💙 I have also envied every close mother daughter relationship. There’s no fixing my relationship with my mom even though she’s still here. Sometimes you did all you could do and that was enough 💙
2025-09-09 23:00:43
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SotaCreative | FL Photographer :
Sending you ALL the hugs. Mourning a parent (who is still here or who has passed on) who can’t show up for you mentally, physically, or emotionally is SO hard. Adrianne will never know the feeling you’re feeling now and THAT is called breaking the cycle. You’re an amazing mom ❤️❤️
2025-09-09 23:12:27
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✨Meg0711🌹✨ :
I’ve always heard you have two chances at a mother/child relationship.. once with your own mom and once as the mom. Make the most of your relationships with your children. You can’t change yours and your mom’s so make it really count with your children. Give them that relationship you craved with your mom. Break the cycle and you will heal a little each day. Much love to you ❤️
2025-09-10 00:44:33
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ariellelynn11 :
Sending love 💕
2025-09-09 22:43:09
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DEB :
Awww I’m so sorry hon. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
2025-09-09 22:54:50
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Courtney Martin :
Oh sweet girl, my heart hurts for you. You’re so courageous and brave, and you’re breaking the cycle with Adrian. That says volumes about you! You pour everything into that little girl…she’ll heal you without even knowing it. Trust me…I know! My 26 year old daughter is my bestie and healed me!
2025-09-10 00:03:58
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Mama Bear :
What is your Wawa coffee order again?
2025-09-09 22:41:14
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