@sdequus: The horse industry provides a safe place for abusive people.

Shelby, CEBC
Shelby, CEBC
Open In TikTok:
Region: CA
Wednesday 10 September 2025 00:15:50 GMT
24646
3136
137
64

Music

Download

Comments

forcefreed
Buster :
Unlike dogs, horses don’t yelp or cry. When someone strings a dog up like DogDaddy, people know it’s wrong because the dogs cry and yelp and whimper. Horses are pretty stoic in comparison. It’s horrible that mistreatment of horses is so normal.
2025-09-10 00:23:59
808
lunawinsgold
lunawinsgold :
Your right and it attracts victims too. Horses are so therapeutic for abuse victims and so we have a world of abusers with a world of victims
2025-09-10 12:29:18
120
nwpa_equinesanctuary
NWPA Equine Sanctuary :
Yes! And when these horses -especially babies - won’t succumb to the abuse, they end up with me because “they are too dangerous and untrainable” 🤦‍♀️Turns out some compassion and empathy turns them around - each single time. People are terrible.
2025-09-10 11:11:19
63
bentleysmom6
Cassie Morgan :
this is why I quit showing
2025-09-10 14:08:52
42
mango_salsa__
mango_salsa__ :
yep, definitely horses and i would say every other domesticated pet too. people will do anything except acknowledge an animal has emotions lol
2025-09-10 13:47:15
4
littlecreek67
Maddy Eckel :
Unfortunately all livestock in the food industry too, except pigs tend to be vocal but they’re “too vocal” and “dramatic” it’s not taken seriously
2025-09-10 00:45:16
48
emmamellbergbella
Emma Mellbrg :
its also about control abusive peopel love control, they see it as so black and white🥲
2025-09-10 04:59:44
7
pufflyjigg
kells :
To be fair I'd say this is common with any animal industry
2025-09-10 05:03:05
6
rachellrvt
Rachel | BSc, RVT :
yes!! I feel like I was conditioned or groomed growing up to treat horses that way (ie. crops, spurs, etc) because that’s all I knew and now it makes me sick, not to mention how aggressive the coaches I had were growing up (screaming at the top of their lungs, riding ponies and punishing them knowing they are way to large for them to ride)
2025-09-10 00:26:22
50
e.schulten20
Elizabeth Schulten :
True!! 😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳
2025-09-28 05:23:44
0
sam_tala_max_ciara
Sam Partridge :
and when you try and train in a kinder way, you get made fun of and even bullied for it
2025-09-11 15:56:54
3
whitty_22_
whitty22🇨🇦 :
I was raised in very "old cowboy" type ways with horses. I was often uncomfortable with things i witnessed or was encouraged to do, but I didn't know better. I then took a 10 year break from horses and only got one again a little over a year ago. I've since had to do so much reconciliation within myself about how I want to approach horses and what training methods i use. it's been very eye opening.
2025-09-10 06:45:46
13
alittleearthy1
alittleearthy :
and the kids that go horse riding are made to be the next generation of animalabusers!! i personally was taught horrible things that i had to unlearn
2025-10-25 09:02:26
2
boeranch
BoeRanch14 :
I don’t think it’s just abuse towards horses but the people to people are abusive too. It’s such corrupt world to the horse and people.
2025-09-10 13:18:23
6
canadianjaime
Jaime 🇨🇦 :
I now exclusively train my own horse and don’t have any coaches or trainers- but I got made fun of by a person that was a coach (I never used her) for giving my horse a treat. She didn’t believe in such things and thought it was silly. I train my animals with positive reinforcement and my dogs have won tons of obedience competitions and my horse is phenomenally well behaved. Some people that claim to love horses seem to hate them and like seeing them miserable 😭
2025-09-10 10:18:42
4
tracedifferentsetofrules
tracedifferentsetofrules🏳️‍🌈 :
I think it's primarily because of how we're taught. we were literally taught to ignore pain signals and when asking questions like doesn't this hurt them, it's always no, they wouldn't do it if they were in pain. all these things are incorrect but we are conditioned to ignore it all. then it's also because horses are such incredibly accepting and forgiving animals!
2025-09-10 02:42:49
20
tausendupdates
tausendupdates :
Hot take: the Police attracts those people too
2025-09-10 07:39:31
7
equinepartnership
EquinePartnership :
I find it so difficult to watch many videos.
2025-09-10 07:39:58
2
ilsekv
IlseKV :
It's also the fact that the horse world tends to attract traumatized people, the animal world in general. I worked in the industry since I was 12 and now in hindsight I can see the grooming tactics being deployed. The way people get trapped in an abusive cycle and then become abusers themselves.
2025-09-10 09:02:57
4
vibrantvalkyrie
Max :
Just because you treat your horse with respect, doesn't mean your training is invalid. Some horses need the positive reinforcement and some can use a more firm approach. They do not need to be beaten, or scared, for training to be effective. Patience and respect is what everyone needs and most lack
2025-09-10 02:17:08
4
tess_caitvi
tess_catradora :
The amount of toxic abusive trainers is insane. I was traumatized by one 🥲 took tears to get back to normal.
2025-10-25 16:46:09
1
cometypony
Kath & CometyPony :
It's so normalised and still taught this way....even people who claim to be non abusive still haven't got enough empathy because it's so normalised to be not empathic....usually under the guise of setting boundaries for safety. Unfortunately no one believes that there's other ways because there's so few people showing the alternatives and anyone that does gets buried in the algorithm or labelled as not having a clue so it's a vicious circle
2025-09-10 06:14:16
3
ranch_rumors
Brooke Jordan :
Wow - ya you are correct. Holy moly
2025-09-12 17:57:41
1
mother2sky
Tigermoln :
Agreed
2025-09-11 11:53:00
1
To see more videos from user @sdequus, please go to the Tikwm homepage.

Other Videos


About