@apwstr: r/WhatShouldIDo: BF Used My Money To Pay For Tacos, Now I Can't Pay Rent #podcast #reddit #redditstories #redditreadings #reddit_tiktok #storytime #apwstr #fyp #fypシ
wait, he makes more than her??? what does he do with all his money????
2025-09-13 15:07:30
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Gyoza Guzzler :
what do you mean he makes more than her and she's sending him money????
2025-09-13 15:10:20
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Sarah Eli Massage :
If she's that close to not making rent due to spending money on this guy, she definitely is better off without him. He didn't even offer to give her the money back!
2025-09-13 15:14:20
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Barb Anderson :
I would break up with him and venmo request him
2025-09-13 16:08:33
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csizzle79💙 :
She pays for everything and barely is able to pay for necessities. But he makes more money than her? And he is still asking for money? Wtf is he doing for her in this relationship? He sounds exhausting and not helpful. Run girl! 🏃🏼♀
2025-09-14 01:24:38
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VictoriaLovesLatex :
If he doesn’t pay, I’d call the card company, refute the charges and tell them exactly WHO and what happened
2025-09-13 15:42:49
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CallSignBioHazard :
He’s using you. I would demand the money back and if he doesn’t report for fraud and file a report.
2025-09-13 17:59:29
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🐇 :
NTA but if she makes ✨just✨ enough to live, she really needs to stop spending money on restaurants and little treats here and there. Maybe take a couple dollars out of every paycheck and put it in an envelope and when she saves enough, use only that 👀 I’ve been broke, and cutting it that close that $20 means rent or not means we need to rethink financial stuff.
2025-09-13 16:13:54
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Bambadamn :
Run babe. RUN!
2025-09-13 16:55:31
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When Killers Get Caught :
Say outloud “guess I need tonreport this as fraud to my bank” and see if he fesses up.
2025-09-13 15:11:28
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Christine Price :
op is too giving. boyfriend is too comfortable taking.
2025-09-13 18:37:59
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Brattany :
I had an ex like this. He’s taking advantage of you he’s manipulating you. He’s going to drain you DRY you will be paycheck to paycheck. He will do this again. Change your card. Break up with him. He is probably doing this to other girls too. My ex is my biggests life regret and the abuse isn’t worth it.
2025-09-13 19:45:14
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Dominique :
He needs to send OP $20
2025-09-13 15:32:29
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🕷 V E I L 🕷 :
NTA, but I can see boyfriend's mistake being real. I used to use an app called EatStreet and found out it has a bug where it prioritizes saved cards over other forms of pay. It also saved cards EVEN IF YOU CLICKED "NO." So I once tried to order food and the app bugged out at the payment screen, charging my husband's card instead of my PayPal account.
2025-09-13 17:25:02
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malouka makek :
is she his mom or his partner
2025-09-14 11:51:29
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Brittany :
Once I used my bfs card for doordash on accident (he had paid last and we usually switched). I took the cash out of the atm and gave it to him that day (luckily it was pay day). But it’s such an easy solution
2025-09-13 18:27:16
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Sarah E G :
If the relationship is already in the rocks and he’s just bs-ing her he needs to be an ex. NTA. Especially if he’s making more than her. He did it on purpose.
2025-09-13 20:45:10
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Desy ✌🏼 👽 :
So if he was "trying to switch" it then that implies he had the money and just accidentally used the card. IF this is the case and not just a lame cop-out, then send her the money you were trying to use from Venmo. Only logical solution if his story is legit. Otherwise he knew what he was doing and expected OP to just pay for his food.
2025-09-13 16:42:41
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DJTUMBLER(Sid) :
My DoorDash is roughly 18-21
2025-09-14 02:13:47
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🦝 🔥 Raccoon Phenix 🔥 🦝 :
My ex-husband wanted mortal kombat when it came out in 2019. I was only one working and in charge of our finances. Told him no we need dog food some other important items. Said he'd have to wait till payday (only 6 days). When I went to do the budget on the trip for the stuff account only had $10 remaining and a charge to Playstation. I was livid. His excuse set our divorce into motion. He told me the dogs did it! The dogs made the purchase on the Playstation 🙄
2025-09-14 07:06:40
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Jenn :
He's 25, she doesn't need to be his mother...
2025-09-13 15:23:14
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zoitsa :
thats like the type of thing i say to my parents when i “accidentally” use their card instead of mine when ordering clothes. do you really want to be dating a guy who acts like a teenage girl?
2025-09-15 03:12:18
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Mac :
And also in the times that I've done that and not realized, and then they or i realize it, it's always been an immediate "omg i'm so sorry, let me pay you back"...
2025-09-14 12:58:23
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CritterStitchin :
If he makes so much more than op, why is he taking their card to pay for things 🤔
2025-09-13 15:10:43
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CLZ :
paying with a credit card is at least a four-step process. no chance that it was by mistake
2025-09-13 17:15:38
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