@na_skhosana_: #decisions #life #growthmindset #thinkb4youdo #help #fyp

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mkhabelajali
mkhabela :
i have been supporting my sister financially because she is unemployed, i would give her money for toiletries, transport money to drop CVs and stuff ,to my shock i just found out she is pregnant and has been using the money i give her to visit her boyfriend, me with a good heart i offered to give her money for a safe abortion uthi yena a baby is a gift from god...im ask myself uzodlani lomntwana when is born? that's where I drew the line trust me i will watch her struggling with her baby i will never give her anything
2025-09-10 13:35:50
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ms_socks
Ms socks :
Im here to remind u that the same ppl you’re always saving wouldn’t lift a single finger for u…
2025-09-10 13:37:42
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b.l.a.d.o.r.e
b.l.a.d.o.r.e :
My sister went and gave birth to a third kid!! Third!!!! And she is single!! While am older than her and I have been so careful!! I stay away from men like they are a disease!! I helped her for six months but I will never do it again!!
2025-09-11 07:39:43
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itubaby89
Ituu :
I raised my niece and sacrificed a lot for her to be like her peers because both her parents are late, she fell pregnant after matric and I told her to leave because I didn't wanna be part of her struggle she must suffer alone I can't raise her and her baby again im sorry 👍
2025-09-10 14:40:37
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cardizie
Tall mama :
Me to my 20 yr old preg sis who I gave transport money to the clinic twice to get birth control injection and came back and lied to me saying she got the injection 2 months later she preg for her 30yr old BF which I warned not to date👍🏾
2025-09-10 10:51:23
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k_philile
Khuboni_Philile :
Thank you for this! I needed it! I bought a cute swing set, trampoline, slide and swimming pool for my kids, but it’s all parked inside the house because non of the kids in our community have these, my husband thinks it would be a show off. I took the necessary measures to make sure I finish school, get a decent job get a good father for them who has a good job so that we can afford a nice childhood for our kids and we do afford a nice childhood for them but now they cant enjoy because the people around us had their kids while broke.
2025-09-10 11:59:23
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machirica
Válter Isac :
I've been saying the exact same words for single mothers and people insult me.
2025-09-10 09:19:27
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mima_lmr
_birdsetfree :
I spent my 20s saving my family financially and mentally,It was exhausting. I didn't save at all or even spend much on myself. Their issues are never ending and emotionally draining and saying no made me the bad guy until I lost my job and I saw their true colours. I moved back in with them, they treated me like shit. After everything I did, all the sacrifices I made, I was nothing to them.
2025-09-10 12:18:27
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bigbrobee
BigBroBee :
My sister don’t let them convince you otherwise, because my sisters loathed me after I helped them my whole life. When I finally got my life where I wanted it to be they started ganging up on me & calling me names. They would even visit me at my house just to observe in disdain & fight me. Even after I loved their kids & helped them out they hate my own & wouldn’t even take care of them for one day. Do you. All I have is regret & heartache. 🥺
2025-09-11 07:42:26
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generationalbum
GenerationalBum :
My useless brother just got a girlfriend and she sleeps at our home every weekend. He works but you don't know what he does with his money. Forget contributing in the family, he doesn't even buy himself clothes, he still wears clothes we were bought by our parents when we were literal kids. I know very soon the girlfriend will be pregnant and they will be looking at me. I will show him flames he will think I have lost my mind.
2025-09-10 11:53:13
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somnyama.indoda.e
Somnyama indoda emnandi :
“ being selfish is the highest form of self care. “
2025-09-10 19:13:29
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tints1
Tints❤️ :
My ex boyfriend gambled R100000 and expected me to be around helping and soothing when the people came for him after spending their money. I just removed myself from that situation
2025-09-10 11:09:57
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nosimilonontobekosiphep1
nosimilonontobekosiphep1 :
Someone here said rescuing someone all the time robs them of growth and I have seen it in real life. 50 year old babies yoh!
2025-09-10 17:17:51
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karra6500
karra :
Eish my granny is 61 and had a baby last month, should i send this to her? 😭😭
2025-09-10 11:39:50
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lennie_dlamz
Lennie❤️🇸🇿 :
That part where she said “I am already very jealous of people who can make bad decisions and live with them mara mina, if I f up, even just a little bit, life will show me who’s boss”. I felt that to the depths of my core. Yhoooo
2025-09-10 12:36:53
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bongimanini
Manini :
The Older I get , “NO” !!!!! 😊
2025-09-10 12:23:58
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osksalayo
Oksalayo 🇿🇦 :
I've been supporting my Brother's baby Mama. I told her the cut-off month of which is somewhere next year. She stopped talking to me. Now I'm sending money every month to someone who doesn't talk to me 😂😭
2025-09-10 17:32:12
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nox_in_transit
Nox_in_Transit :
1 thing about me, as soon as u call and start complaining about how tough times are, I start taking over the conversation and complain more than u. That way, u dont even continue to ask for the money because the mood has changed 😂
2025-09-10 10:21:28
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yzee616
YZee :
my friend blocked me after I could not help her anymore, she recently unblocked me just to ask for a favour again, im waiting for her to block me again, I just can't anymore. I wish her all the best without me in her life🥺
2025-09-10 15:18:30
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lakhelakheo
Ntlanekazi💕 :
I have to make grocery for my 2 brothers ,the other one keeps getting jobs ,complains about that job and leaves it 😭I have to rent for them because the house I build for them because we don’t have parents ,my brother had a fight with the his girlfriend and the girl burnt the house ,now they don’t have a place to stay and I have to assist with rent,I’m tired ,I’m finished it’s too much !!!
2025-09-10 14:56:51
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izwilakhe64
Kwenzo :
You are me and I am you. Lapho you don’t have back up.
2025-09-11 03:37:34
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hijfuiggjj
highjhhjj :
My mom who has been working for 10+ years but can't even afford a car because she plays hero with her salary for her sisters who have more than 3 kids each but are unemployed
2025-09-10 08:40:10
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kgomutso0
MaNdlovu❤️ :
My friends groove Friday Saturday after getting paid, Sunday they would call me and ask for transport money or petrol money, I no longer give them, I told them straight in the eyes that I'm not their hero
2025-09-10 11:06:29
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mama.siyabathanda
mama seyabathanda :
Yoh my elder sister enjoyed her life she could just fall pregnant come back drop the child and go now that she left 3 kids behind and as passed on her 3 ungrateful kids who don't even know who their fathers are, are now my responsibility I can't have a family coz I'm told what about ur sisters kids that time those kids are so entitled I decided to cut everyone out of my life even those kids it's very selfish that I'm expected to foster 3 kids while my elder brother does not have even a cat or puppy mina I have 2 kids plus these other strangers yoh hsi
2025-09-10 16:16:53
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