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Lee :
hey gurl, I was this way too and still am sometimes. oberthinking can be hard when your in your head all day. don't necessarily find distractions buh instead find hobbies ND interest that'll keep you busy(also something to talk about) FaceTime each other when times get hard or when you miss each other don't FaceTime everyday or else you'll start to feel bored or maybe feel repetitive. know your trust with your partner and how to talk about your feelings openly. your partner should understand this and it'll help build a better bond. flying can be expensive, buh practice ways to save money(it'll help) and look make plans to see each other or maybe meet half way depending on what works best for yall. book ahead of time and look forward to that day while still focusing on yourself and what you need to get through
2025-09-10 16:31:30
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vaeh :
as someone who’s in a ldr. I don’t know what else to say as much but all you both have is communication and like FaceTiming for now. Try your best to communicate your feelings and don’t disregard each others feelings otherwise it’s most likely not going to work out. Just try your best to communicate and spend time with each other because that’s all you guys have
2025-09-10 11:30:32
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Aurelia 💕✨ :
i haven’t heard of ldr AI before.. wht is it? personally i survived ldr by filling my own calendar: new job, gym every day, picked up hobbies, even sewing lol. made me way less dependent on his replies
2025-09-10 11:26:37
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lyn :
tbh idek twin i just found out he cheated on me during our relationship
2025-09-10 11:31:20
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Savannah Norris :
I keep myself busy. But it’s so so hard and I have bad days too. Find something to look forward to, that helps me
2025-09-10 13:52:48
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dodo_bird0604 :
I’ve been medium n long distance it’s actually so hard but the best thing for us was communication yall are gonna argue no matter what what’s help with us is we got each other build a bears with our voices we find a new tv show that we both wanna watch and play new games
2025-09-10 18:13:21
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🐅 :
honestly, it's all in trust. entirely, if you are up at night spiralling, it's probably from distrust that your partner will pull through with you, or even you cannot do it yourself. you have to have that trust that not everyday is going to have a huge spark. and there will be troubles around long distance. but your person should always be worth it.
2025-09-10 13:44:43
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kaleidoscope :
sounds like its just not the right thing for you, or its the wrong person
2025-09-10 11:27:10
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Ri ꨄ :
trust, communication, and hobbies. If you don’t trust your partner you will almost never feel comfortable. It makes it so much harder to be long distance if there isn’t a foundation of trust. We communicate with each other throughout the day and week, including what we’re doing and especially how we’re feeling. And honestly finding a hobby to take up your time helps. You spend so much time worrying about them you have to remember to take some time to focus on yourself as well.
2025-09-10 11:29:37
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vaeh :
and yes it’s okay to overthink but you should tell your bf/gf how you feel when you overthink and I’m sure they’ll understand and explain to you what’s happening or try to make your overthinking stop. To be honest I’m an overthinker too and my boyfriend tried his best to understand me when I overthink and we’ve tried to fix things and we communicate a lot. So yes communication is a BIG thing. It’s the only thing you guys will need. Try to communicate your feelings and understand each other that way you don’t get stuck into being scared to tell each other things because it’ll be harder and more difficult
2025-09-10 11:32:59
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SWEETVIBE🤑 :
Writing and having little love letters helps me a lot! I write them by hand on paper and take a picture of it with a little doodle of him on the side (: journaling in general can really help with over thinking and clear your mind some!
2025-09-10 12:22:00
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Please don’t :
you don’t have to always be talking about things on ft. my gf and i are using on video call and will have long periods of silence bc we’re both doing our own thing. it makes me feel better seeing her there
2025-09-10 13:02:38
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callie<3 :
Filling your time with hangouts with friends and fun things tbh so you don’t just sit by the phone waiting all day. I also think have a date to see them in the future to look forward to is super good too. Ldr are soooo hard and lowkey don’t really get easier 💔 my boyfriend and I live in the same town now so we can see eachother everyday now and it’s amazing and I’m so so glad I stuck thru ld because it was so worth it. But if you asked me to do it again I would NOT. If my bf and I ever broke up I would never do a ldr ever again it’s actually the worst thing ever.
2025-09-10 13:20:07
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Idk :
we broke up yesterday, don't ask me.😭
2025-09-10 13:38:25
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danika :
uhh idk we broke up yesterday
2025-09-10 18:27:07
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Shannon :
Trust. Long distance with my ex was hard because he didn't trust me and would accuse me all the time. Long distance with my now husband was easy because we trusted each other.
2025-09-10 19:57:48
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sloth :
I moved in with him😃
2025-09-10 23:38:07
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Kyra ❀ :
If you really want it to work you have to become your own person. Recognize it’s okay you’re not talking to each other 24/7, and that’s it’s completely healthy! Long distance is difficult, I’ve only been long distance with my boyfriend for about a month and let me tell u the first week was soo bad. But we’re committed to making it work and trust each other, something that’s essential in LDRs. That being said, it’s important to communicate with your partner if you do have concerns, or else resentment builds. If these feelings persist even after trying to fix ur relationship, I’d say maybe it’s just not meant to be. I am a rando on tik tok so take my words with a grain of salt. Remember, distance should mean nothing when the person means everything
2025-09-21 15:05:28
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𝒜𝒷𝒷ℯ𝓎𝑔𝒶𝓁ℯ ୨ৎ ˚˖ :
Communication and hanging out! We call 1-3 times a week. We try to give each other space to miss each other but we do text ALL the time. If either of us need reassurance, we give it without accusing. It’s all heavily based on trust, reliance and quality time. Me and my bf hit 7 months today and are talking about moving in tg by next year. It’s very possible 💕
2025-09-17 15:56:41
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Segway pickles :
You have to trust dude. Trust everything’s okay. Trust that it’s all in your head. Because if you don’t you could end up hurting them by apeering unsure
2025-09-12 22:21:30
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🪼 :
Ldr are the worst don’t do it. My 23 yr old ex cheated on me then after I broke up w him got with a 17 year old girl he found on over watch. Hope this helps 🩷
2025-09-10 14:24:49
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cass :
what makes you spiral ? because i am a really bad overthinker but ive never really had issues with my bf. for context we met in hs, he joined the af and is currently a 5hr time difference from me and ive never really had problems other than its difficult to call when ne has work and i have uni and work
2025-09-10 13:38:17
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Lucy🪿 :
If it’s the right person just being on FaceTime should be fun for you guys…you shouldn’t HAVE to talk about something if you don’t just click and enjoy each other’s presence then you guys aren’t for each other
2025-09-10 13:25:06
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