If ur an avoidant, please don’t get in a relationship. I had the hardest 4 months. I’m on medication and cried so much. Do ppl a favor and save ppl from ur trauma.
2025-09-11 19:44:24
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Ileen Villa Golden :
The ACCOUNTABILITY they lack is insane
2025-09-19 20:48:45
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Viajero Peligro :
They sabotage, and they leave
2025-09-10 23:18:42
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Kawaii Cute Sweet :
they leave because someone else gave them some attention and they wanna try ....
2025-09-10 21:16:01
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Abbie Wilkins :
An “avoidant” is just a person unable to regulate their emotions and severely lack emotional intelligence in general. It’s not cute. It’s not an excuse. And it’s not anyone else’s problem but their own. Let them leave. You’ll be better in the long run
2025-10-07 14:02:35
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Just maurel :
i hate how they make you the bad guy for not wanting to be "casual"
2025-09-10 21:33:02
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Kyle :
Plz don’t get into a relationship if ur an avoidant. I’ve never been more hurt in my entire life
2025-10-06 06:56:28
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dev.denelle :
I will never believe that I mattered to him. The discard was too brutal and shows me I meant nothing and it was never love but a lie. I let him go and gave him what he wanted. He can go whatever he wants now.
2025-09-11 15:13:40
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MoonlightRose :
So that means I won the I love you more argument then. Cuz for sure if they loved me, they would fight the fear
2025-09-10 20:24:29
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butterfly 🦋🫧🩵 :
he said he fell in love with me and i was the LOVE of his LIFE. he distanced himself soon after
2025-09-11 15:37:18
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Isac Quinlan :
And then they blame you
2025-09-10 20:53:49
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TracyLynn :
Their fears outweigh their love for you. They become the very pain they fear for the other person.
2025-09-13 01:40:25
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Adrian 🇵🇱 🇦🇺 :
There’s no difference between them and secure cheaters. Avoidants are just cheaters who use their traumas as an excuse to sleep around.
2025-09-10 20:57:18
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Mental diet :
Unfortunately, the avoidant is emotionally under developed.
2025-09-23 21:14:51
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tiredwired7 :
This doesn’t make it any easier to be stripped of your humanity and denied a voice
2025-09-10 20:43:09
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abwujay :
This is the content we want. Dont encourage people to date them. Encourage them to escape that rs. Avoidants should heal on their own. See a doctor. Not date.
2025-09-13 15:38:47
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Steven :
But it’s never their fault. Lol
2025-09-12 14:44:10
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Andrea lewin :
This made me feel better thank you
2025-09-11 06:53:07
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eli🧑🏽🦱🇻🇨 :
They ignore their past traumas yet splurge all of it onto you, then play the victim before they discard you so they feel less bad about it
2025-10-20 18:50:16
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#stressless :
then they create some vicious slandering lies about a person who was genuine. they're delusional
2025-09-11 04:04:01
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NickyxXx :
Avoidants should date Avoidants leave the rest of us out of it.
2025-09-24 15:37:20
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itman123 :
do avoidants purposely fill in their schedule just so that they have an excuse not to see you or commit?
2025-09-17 05:31:36
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Pelona Loca🏃🤺🌈 :
Doesn't matter if they care. Actions matter.
2025-09-16 03:13:28
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emtiredofthisgrandpa :
i had to leave bc he couldn’t. there was no emotional vulnerability, no accountability, and no romance. he was fine with that bc it felt safe to him. no amount of communication, support, or understanding from my end could change that. he refused to grow for us.
2025-09-11 14:42:29
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Sally Bowles :
as a fearful avoidant I second this. when I really care I actually try my best to fight my own instincts, but this only came with wisdom and growth, after age 35.
2025-09-11 08:44:26
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