@ask_julia: Detachment feels like drowning in quicksand…the harder you fight to hold on, the deeper you sink. If you’ve ever wondered why letting go of someone you love feels impossible, this video is your wake-up call. I’ll break down exactly why clinging to someone who doesn’t choose you back is destroying your peace, and how true detachment can finally set you free. 💖 Follow me for more real talk on healing, self-love, and confidence. ✨ Ready to stop sinking and start thriving? Book a session with me directly…Link in bio. #detachment #datingadviceforwomen #selfworth #relationshiptips

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thatpartender
Nikki Your Bay Area Cart Queen :
Letting them wasn’t the problem… missing them is!
2025-09-11 01:37:51
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machiwxtch
sol 𓍼ꕤ﹅ :
but where did all the love go? why is it so easy for him to letgo of me
2025-11-11 08:07:44
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ofentse890
ofentse890 :
ouch... thank you for sharing
2026-06-18 16:45:53
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iamnobody_25
iamnobody_25 :
You automatically detach when you get tired of the treatment you get from them
2025-11-17 03:03:39
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kt82737
KT :
You let people go yet their memories or their potential in your mind stays. How do you let go of the ache u feel every time u miss them? you can't, right? you can keep yourself busy. You can do whatsoever but at the end of the day sitting with the pain you can't to anyone. It fades with time. yeah. but you have to bear it anyway. Sucks to be there. 💔
2025-09-13 20:12:27
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healing_femininity
Bright Pearl :
What really helped me with was reading the “The Power of Detachment” by Nora Parker, on Amazon big recommendation
2025-09-11 14:50:57
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alwaysrecoveryn
RE★€0VERYN :
also if you truly love them and are a mature valuable worthy adult then two things youll let them go bc if u truly love them u will want them to be haply even if its not with you, second to that and for that alone even, you deserve better and it can't arrive if your taken by an artificial sweetener only there bc they have no 1 else .... lol
2025-09-12 05:32:26
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saraht_ia
saraht_ia :
It still hurts though. The heart wants what it cannot have. 9 months later and I’m still healing 😩
2025-09-28 19:20:21
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samanthasavagewisdom
Samantha | Savage Wisdom :
Absolutely 💅💁🏼‍♀️what’s meant for me will never pass me by
2025-09-11 04:21:37
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.lucky1990
Jhovie❤️ :
i need to let him go...
2025-09-11 09:25:00
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kizora94
Kizora :
the timing on this is unreal
2025-09-13 10:25:39
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kate.spam412
kate.spam :
No message is also a message….
2025-10-29 21:05:55
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heeniiiii27
عناية :
How do I do this when I've got a child with him and I'm a housewife 😶
2025-10-04 20:00:15
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walk.with.rich
Rich | Faith & Journey :
You cannot force someone to choose and value you. Choose reality over fantasy. Let them.
2025-10-05 13:35:59
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mrhandsomeplus
Mr.Handsome :
If they want to leave let them get lost.
2025-09-12 03:25:42
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user676440926
gany855 :
omg this is me today. its not easy to let go
2025-09-11 18:22:31
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shandy_candy_xoxo
shandy_candy_xoxo :
It’s a bit difficult when you work with them & see them with their new supply in your face everyday.
2025-09-11 09:44:31
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energy_serge
Sergio Estrada :
Don’t get attached in the first place by going slow
2025-09-13 01:39:29
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dollcerose
Rose :
When you stop pulling, that hit hard!🎀
2025-09-11 00:43:53
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mell_slimmaz
Mell 🪷 :
Mel Robbins "Let them theory" at work is the best!!! 🥰
2025-09-27 22:06:49
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nesriensalah
rena :
u can't force someone to value, and you shouldn't need to ❤️
2026-05-19 18:45:09
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witassutarli
Wita Sutarli :
3months of no contact,God showed me he's NOT worth my time...
2026-01-10 02:44:24
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micky.shii1
Micky shii :
it's my third day of no contact... and it hurts alot 😭💔 😞... wish me luck... I have to let go 😞
2025-11-27 07:40:30
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night_believer
! :
It helps a lot to remember the things that made me feel bad that he did. Or his family.
2025-09-13 22:01:16
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saanvigayatriworld
saanvigayatriworld :
This exactly what I did and it’s helped me be prepared to walk away 🥰
2026-02-18 21:13:43
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