A first date is not usually $400 so I think that it’s so reasonable to want to split it
2025-09-10 23:27:23
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Alaska :
Well unless he’s like a celeb, 400$ is quite a lot. If it was 100$ then I’d be shocked tbh. In this day and age….. but 400??
2025-09-11 00:04:20
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Mariah メ𝟶 :
I’ve never in my life had to paid for a first date but I’ve also never in my life gone on a date and ordered more than I was willing to cover myself just in case 😭😭 $400 first date is crazy
2025-09-11 00:01:30
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dirtbageddie_akadez :
It feels like thats rude to go crazy and expect that when you dont even know that person
2025-09-11 01:15:45
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It's Just Lara :
I can't blame him. He probably realized what she was doing. And someone who will take advantage like that is not someone that should be in a relationship, imo. The exception is if one partner enjoys spoiling the other and they both know it.
2025-09-11 12:31:48
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Ali Black :
Are we not all asking them what they are ordering and then finding something in a similar price point? Or is that just my anxiety?
2025-09-11 14:42:33
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dexter :
i do pay for the first date but if she’s ordering 3 drinks at 20+ each as well as food purely to have me pay, then i’ve already decided she’s not for me and we’re splitting the bill because i have nothing to lose.
2025-09-11 00:54:53
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happyhealthyher :
Why am I trying to subsidize a man dating other women? I met a guy last night and the bill was 300.. leave women alone if you can’t afford them. It’s not my job to watch the pockets of strangers.
2025-09-11 13:41:19
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hanhtravels :
That’s a lot of money for a first date, but it’s also insane that she went crazy and randomly ordered lot of stuff thinking he was going to pay for it. Why wouldn’t she just order like a normal person? She’s the red flag.
2025-09-11 04:04:54
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Inkkittenz :
$400 for a first date is ludicrous. Like don’t take advantage of people.
2025-09-11 17:21:22
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The Bronze Venus :
Maybe its just me but I always order something less expensive (or shoot for something about the same or less) than the person paying.
2025-09-13 04:12:27
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autumn claire 💌 :
if i wouldn’t comfortably buy it, im not comfortably ordering it
2025-09-11 00:43:45
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ren0901tt :
also enjoy your side comments (tap dancing neighbor 😂)
2025-09-10 23:04:05
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hopefulpenguin :
Ordering that much with the expectation that someone else will pay, even if that hasn’t been established, is inconsiderate. It also comes across as a ploy for a free dinner and nothing more. There needs to be mutual respect even if someone else is asking you out.
2025-09-11 02:13:50
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Kota :
People who assume the other person will always pay are users.
2025-09-11 02:32:25
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Koolkats :
Agreed. I always assume the guy won’t pay for me and will only order something I can pay for
2025-09-11 02:50:28
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lilmichelada :
Yes I agree 100%
2025-09-11 00:24:06
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Flopsbel :
FOUR HUNDRED????????
2025-09-14 17:47:23
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bee 🐝 :
if i’m on a date im ordering the cheapest thing i can get that i won’t hate and offering to pay
2025-09-11 02:48:35
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Elizabeth island :
I wouldn't even do that to somebody I know well
2025-09-11 01:54:54
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Trevor :
Yeah I think there’s a mutual respect needed. If someone is paying for a meal, regardless of their relation to you, you should still be respectful and not go nuts ordering too much. It reminds me of the woman that ordered like 5 dozen oysters on a quick lunch date
2025-09-11 00:43:38
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_hot_tamali :
She’s wrong for going into a date knowing she was going to over order. It’s greedy and selfish. He should have told the waiter seperate checks bc it doesn’t sound like he ordered $200 worth of food. He was right to ask to split especially since it seems there wasn’t a second date.
2025-09-11 18:34:18
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Zia :
I would feel bad if I made a guy pay $40 for my first date meal😭maybe i’m just cheap
2025-09-11 16:38:04
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kingaczerwonka :
I always have the guy order first, and then I will order something of equal or lesser value. But I still offer to split the bill
2025-09-12 06:43:09
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Raymond :
I feel like I order cheaper things when I know they’re paying than I would order if I knew I was paying lol
2025-09-11 19:50:40
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