@bulkdiaries: for those of you who have also had major weightloss, do you feel the same? what are some of your experiences with people? i'm starting to really struggle with this as i lose more and people are starting to interact with me more #relatable
I always say: "I don't hate myself because I'm fat, I hate myself because the world hates me because I'm fat"
2025-09-11 17:07:46
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MaggieKatComics :
pretty privilege fills me with rage
2025-09-11 20:44:38
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Ren 🌟 :
Lost over 100 pounds- it’s 100000% because I’m no longer fat. I get treated better by family and friends, by coworkers, by complete strangers in public… it’s tiresome. Past me deserved to be loved and respected too.
2025-09-11 16:45:24
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Maddie :
when i was 98kg I "had the audacity" and at 65 kg I "had thr confidence" to ACT THE EXACT SAME WAY
2025-09-15 08:26:12
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Sandy Kay :
They really do be gaslighting us!! You are sooo right on ALL of this!
2025-09-11 01:43:04
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saintsandmuses :
Yup I’ve gained weight and it’s like I’m invisible now 🙃
2025-09-11 14:19:01
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rachelthompsonn75 :
Just me here screaming about “What Emma Never Knew” by Harlan Veynor again 😅
2025-09-25 18:09:48
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Cassia :
in addition, some people treat you worse after weight loss because they only liked the version of you they could look down on
2025-09-12 21:32:49
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theon :
Craziest thing is that people genuinely don’t realize it. Fatphobia is so deeply ingrained in people’s minds they don’t see how differently and weirdly they treat fat people
2025-09-11 20:03:25
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🐈⬛️🎍💄 :
ill never forgive the people who treated me poorly based on weight
2025-09-15 05:42:56
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Liz :
The way I deadass had this convo w my therapist yesterday and she was not getting itttt
2025-09-11 13:04:06
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♡ vee :
I’ve lost 72lbs and I’m literally less confident now and people still try to tell me that it’s about my confidence.
2025-09-11 04:05:35
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🖤 :
I’ve GAINED weight and it’s eye-opening (and so disappointing) how differently I’m treated by both men and women now.
2025-09-11 18:05:47
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🪲 :
IMPROVED IS INSANE
2025-09-11 03:56:13
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lauren :
Lost 60 lbs and you are CORRECT
2025-09-11 13:29:14
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vancitychica🇵🇸🇺🇦 :
so many people have fatphobia and aren't even aware of it.
2025-09-16 06:29:52
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thése :
losing weight has made me BITTER. I refuse to acknowledge the people that are nice to me now only because I've lost weight. fat me deserved that kindness too.
2025-09-16 00:33:52
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messyandmean :
and it's not just the hateful jerks, it's that literally everyone has internalized fat phobia unless they have done the work to unlearn it. your family and close friends will also treat you differently
2025-09-11 18:42:50
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reagan :
“past me also deserved the same respect that me now gets”
2025-10-04 15:26:59
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Errka2🇵🇸 :
I also hate it when you lose it & people start treating you weird bc now they feel competitive w you
2025-09-11 16:01:43
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Respect the Drip :
I lost weight and then gained I back and holy shit, gaining the humanity of a person in a smaller body and then losing it again was fucking hard.
2025-09-11 15:47:47
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👑🧚🏼♀️ Princess 🇦🇺🆓🍉 :
people are SOOO much nicer now im down 100 pounds. its actually insane. no more retail worker glares, no snide comments about sizing. no more stares from people when Im in plus size cause im clearly just wanting baggy clothes.
2025-10-30 12:15:39
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thugsbunny :
now I carry her rage with me
2025-09-16 10:35:51
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